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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is this man even human ?
All he cares about is his one daughter pari
But not about his other daughter
He doesn't even ask ovi how pia is doing
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I don't even know why ovi is agreeing to put up with this man who never cared about her or her daughter 🄱

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Is this man even human ?

All he cares about is his one daughter pari
But not about his other daughter
He doesn't even ask ovi how pia is doing
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I don't even know why ovi is agreeing to put up with this man who never cared about her or her daughter 🄱


he is not human but cry baby
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poseidon2


thats why god wanted to give him a perfect loyal life partner ...


like Purvi.

The real problem with Arjun is that he had no strong male role model. DK was all over the place, agreeing with the latest event, and no strong stand on anything. And Manav was never there for Arjun.

Who could he look up to in order to learn how to be strong?

He, like a lot of PR characters, never grew up.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Another 😈
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Posted: 11 years ago
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pia is in better situation than pari ...look at pari... she is hating that person to the core who loves her most nd she had a chance to get her father's love after misunderstanding clearance but she herself is not interested due to her childish behave...
i guess pia is having no lena dena from arjun as she only knows about her mother on the name of family as per ovi's statement..
its better to live like this rather than with hateness for father...regarding arjun than if father is like arjun than its better to live without father .so pia is lucky that there is no hateness for anyone as not knowing anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ashfaque haters gonna hate... everyday check PR forum but comment o any post very rarely...

u,peach,pallavi,style 14... u guyzz are real supporters n others hate n make hate posts everyday...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes... Arjun is very much human. With a heart, soul, body, feelings, strength, lack of strength, FEARS, emotions, flaws and everything else that comes with being a human being.

None of us were born with a handbook or manual on how to feel, act and behave when faced with certain situations. We just deal with them the best way WE possibly can. We make mistakes, learn from them, gain experience and progress (sometimes regress) in life.

But none of us, fictional or non-fictional ppl will ever deal with a situation perfectly. Esp. a situation that is as complicated as Arjun being the father of 2 sisters daughter.

As far as I recall, 2 days ago Arjun did ask how Pia was doing and he said to Ovi "she must be missing you"... he knows that Ovi is the most important parent to Pia and he respects that. Sometimes a love for someone cannot be forced on them... same way Ovi cannot make Arjun love her, Arjun cannot force himself for either Pia or Pari to love him... so he is dealing with it the best way HE knows how.

Like Naava said, he doesnt know how else to act and he never had a strong role model to garner any advice from. So, like every human being out there, he is a product of his own life and mistakes and thinking.

Its sad that he doesnt have a great relationship with his daughters, both Pia and Pari... but that does not make him love them any way less, does not make him care less and it certainly does not make him an unhuman being.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Yes... Arjun is very much human. With a heart, soul, body, feelings, strength, lack of strength, FEARS, emotions, flaws and everything else that comes with being a human being.

None of us were born with a handbook or manual on how to feel, act and behave when faced with certain situations. We just deal with them the best way WE possibly can. We make mistakes, learn from them, gain experience and progress (sometimes regress) in life.

But none of us, fictional or non-fictional ppl will ever deal with a situation perfectly. Esp. a situation that is as complicated as Arjun being the father of 2 sisters daughter.

As far as I recall, 2 days ago Arjun did ask how Pia was doing and he said to Ovi "she must be missing you"... he knows that Ovi is the most important parent to Pia and he respects that. Sometimes a love for someone cannot be forced on them... same way Ovi cannot make Arjun love her, Arjun cannot force himself for either Pia or Pari to love him... so he is dealing with it the best way HE knows how.

Like Naava said, he doesnt know how else to act and he never had a strong role model to garner any advice from. So, like every human being out there, he is a product of his own life and mistakes and thinking.

Its sad that he doesnt have a great relationship with his daughters, both Pia and Pari... but that does not make him love them any way less, does not make him care less and it certainly does not make him an unhuman being.


..and RD is such a good actor that even when i am "mad" at Arjun for some of his behavior, his adorable face with his deep emotions always break my heart. šŸ˜†
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Yes... Arjun is very much human. With a heart, soul, body, feelings, strength, lack of strength, FEARS, emotions, flaws and everything else that comes with being a human being.

None of us were born with a handbook or manual on how to feel, act and behave when faced with certain situations. We just deal with them the best way WE possibly can. We make mistakes, learn from them, gain experience and progress (sometimes regress) in life.

But none of us, fictional or non-fictional ppl will ever deal with a situation perfectly. Esp. a situation that is as complicated as Arjun being the father of 2 sisters daughter.

As far as I recall, 2 days ago Arjun did ask how Pia was doing and he said to Ovi "she must be missing you"... he knows that Ovi is the most important parent to Pia and he respects that. Sometimes a love for someone cannot be forced on them... same way Ovi cannot make Arjun love her, Arjun cannot force himself for either Pia or Pari to love him... so he is dealing with it the best way HE knows how.

Like Naava said, he doesnt know how else to act and he never had a strong role model to garner any advice from. So, like every human being out there, he is a product of his own life and mistakes and thinking.

Its sad that he doesnt have a great relationship with his daughters, both Pia and Pari... but that does not make him love them any way less, does not make him care less and it certainly does not make him an unhuman being.




There is no excuse for loving one daughter and not loving the other. Both are your flesh and blood, regardless of who the mother is. Yes, pia is Ovi's daughter , but if he could sleep with ovi why not love the baby ? I am not asking him to love ovi but only asking to love his daughter , the one who has been neglected for no mistake of her own. Her parents made mistakes which she is suffering for. Pia is not the reason for arvi separation , neither is ovi, if two people don't have trust in each other that's their problem not the baby's or the ex wife's .
When you are a father , your love will be equal to all your children , if not then you are no better than the parents like Soham .
Arjun never does or say anything without his own selfishness, he doesn't respect that, he wanted ovi to go so he used pia as an excuse. Pia is as much as his daughter as pari is , but he longs for pari but not pia 🤢 What a no-man -.-
Edited by ilovedhanjanird - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Yes... Arjun is very much human. With a heart, soul, body, feelings, strength, lack of strength, FEARS, emotions, flaws and everything else that comes with being a human being.

None of us were born with a handbook or manual on how to feel, act and behave when faced with certain situations. We just deal with them the best way WE possibly can. We make mistakes, learn from them, gain experience and progress (sometimes regress) in life.

But none of us, fictional or non-fictional ppl will ever deal with a situation perfectly. Esp. a situation that is as complicated as Arjun being the father of 2 sisters daughter.

As far as I recall, 2 days ago Arjun did ask how Pia was doing and he said to Ovi "she must be missing you"... he knows that Ovi is the most important parent to Pia and he respects that. Sometimes a love for someone cannot be forced on them... same way Ovi cannot make Arjun love her, Arjun cannot force himself for either Pia or Pari to love him... so he is dealing with it the best way HE knows how.

Like Naava said, he doesnt know how else to act and he never had a strong role model to garner any advice from. So, like every human being out there, he is a product of his own life and mistakes and thinking.

Its sad that he doesnt have a great relationship with his daughters, both Pia and Pari... but that does not make him love them any way less, does not make him care less and it certainly does not make him an unhuman being.

Well said, Ash. You know its amazing how often we are quick to point out the flaws in another person's behavior, reactions, or handling of the situation---and of course fail to do the one most important thing---which is put ourselves in their shoes. Arjun has been through a lot. From Day 1. Certainly he could have handled certain situations better, as well as Ovi and Purvi. But the truth is that in life, it is struggle and adversity that makes us grow in faith and character. If he is handling things the best way he can, well and good. If he isnt, he will learn from the experience, and be stronger in character for it. Either way, who are we to judge? If someone is doing things right and in a good way, then commend and praise them. If they are wrong, pray for them and hope they learn from it and do better next time. EIther way, wish them well. Period.

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