Arjun is not innocent!Final warning pg15

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Posted: 11 years ago

Even though Purvi didn't listen to Arjun, that does not mean Arjun is innocent .

1) It still doesn't explain why he never tried to get custody of pari and pia. Just bc a 10 year old child told him not to call, it meant that he listened? Do you know how many divorced father's here that their child does not want to visit? And yet they don't listen because if they did, they basically confirm their child's fear that they no longer loved the child. If Arjun really wanted to, he could force a judge to allow purvi to let pari visit him. And pari had every right to hate him. While Purvi was partially responsible for poisoning pari mind against Arjun, Pari had every right to hate him because he never tried to fight for her.

2) We also know how Arjun tried to contact Purvi to explain the situation. Purvi is an idiot for not listening to him once considering she knows how hard he fought to even get married to her. But remember when Arjun initially tried to tell Ovi about falling in love with Purvi. He just kept delaying it and tried over the phone. If he wanted to, he could have physically grabbed Purvi, put his hands over mouth, and yelled out the truth. And then if she choose to not believe him, then it would be all on her. He could have talked to Tej, Archana (not Manav bc we all know he would just blow up at him) ask DK to talk to Purvi. He just didn't really try.

3) If Ovi who stated that she did not want to cause marital problems in Purvi life which is the reason she hid Pia, why is it that she never bothered to try and explain the situation to everybody when everything came out. Also people hated Purvi when she went to Kolkata and was with a child by Arjun but kept it secret to prevent it from ruining Ovi married life. Here Ovi does the same depsite the fact that she had a second chance with Arjun like Purvi did and yet she is called mature. Get if you hate Purvi for all child switching and all the other bs, but why the double standard when it comes to this? And why is Ovi being praised for keeping her child away from him while Purvi is being bashed. If anything all 3 of them deserve to be called out for being irresponsible parents.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Totally agree! :D

Very well written ;)

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swati gaikwad

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Posted: 11 years ago

Omg...🤣

God bless Ovi n Pia nw...nw its fully clear idiot peoples separation its not at all Ovi's fault...bt still blaming Ovi 🤣

btw i agree here with only 1 point...Arjun not a innocent man...he is totally wrong to not file case n demand Pari's custody...bt we all knw why not he do...bcs he want only Golden lady love Purvi over dan Pari...afterall Purvi gv him apramparrr sukh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Edited by punirashakti - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

arjun is not at fault in this separation track at all.

he tried talking to purvi..he was even trying when pari was some 10 yrs old..but then looking at his child's hatred what could he do..if he filed a case for custody m sure pari would've been more angry with him..and court would no way give the custody to a father whose child hates him so much..the deshmukhs r responsible for this not arjun..pari was 1 yr old when they separated. how would she know what happened unless someone told this to her..turning n innocent child into such a vengefull grownup..she's not even ready to accept him when she knows he's right and purvi's wrong..it just showed how stubborn she is.

and regarding custody earlier..court wouldn't separate a child from her mom..specially when there r so many ( stupid ) elders standing with her.

and arjun n ovi r right in staying away from such people..i wouldn't go to people who don't trust me and insult me so much..and since he loved purvi..he believed she would take good care of pari..which she didn't ..infact he's a good guy that he didn't file a defamation case against the d clan out of respect

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Posted: 11 years ago

Completely agree with your post, Nikki!

All 3 are horrible parents! Purvi and Ovi both kept their daughters away from their father. Even when the wife is divorced from the husband and doesnt want to see his face, she allows her kids to be in touch with their father. Because then they dont miss out on having a father. So many divorced couples here in the west share custody of kids and usually those kids visit their dad during weekends. Its not the same as having both parents together but at least they get the benefit of the love and affection of both parents but at different places.

And Arjun also never tried to get joint custody of Pari. They just showed him calling Pari when she was 9-10 yrs old! Why didnt he call, or visit Pari when she was 3-4 yrs old, or 7-8 yrs old?

Then she would have known who her father was and had a good relationship with him! Then she wouldnt be so bitter abt him.

But brainless CVs cannot show that naa...then how would the misunderstandings continue for 20 yrs?😆 If Arjun had visited Pari while she was growing up, like from 2 yrs old onwards...then everyone would have known that he was still living alone.

As for Ovi, if she really wanted to keep relations with her own family, she could have called Teju or Savita or Manav and cleared up the whole misunderstanding by telling the truth.

Everything is senseless abt the whole ArVi-Ovi-Armaan tracks now. Writers have reserved garbage for these characters.

Edited by pallavi25 - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: niyati13
arjun is not at fault in this separation track at all.
he tried talking to purvi..he was even trying when pari was some 10 yrs old..but then looking at his child's hatred what could he do..if he filed a case for custody m sure pari would've been more angry with him..and court would no way give the custody to a father whose child hates him so much..the deshmukhs r responsible for this not arjun..pari was 1 yr old when they separated. how would she know what happened unless someone told this to her..turning n innocent child into such a vengefull grownup..she's not even ready to accept him when she knows he's right and purvi's wrong..it just showed how stubborn she is.

and regarding custody earlier..court wouldn't separate a child from her mom..specially when there r so many ( stupid ) elders standing with her.

and arjun n ovi r right in staying away from such people..i wouldn't go to people who don't trust me and insult me so much..and since he loved purvi..he believed she would take good care of pari..which she didn't ..infact he's a good guy that he didn't file a defamation case against the d clan out of respect

not in canada. there are fathers right in canada. and in india, he could argue that it in the best interest of the child to have contact with the father since it is hard to get married in India w/o a father present. if he fought for his child earlier, then she couldnt hate him much and would have seen the truth. he didnt need to live with her. he could have visitation. and he's a bad specifically bc he put the reputation of the family ahead of his childs best interest, which was to have a father in her life. court dont care if the child hates the father, they can still force visitation although they will allow said child to have a say w/ who they live w prmarily. by fighting for pari, pari would have seen that he did not live w/ ovi or pia. Pari hates him not only bc she thinks arjun hurt her mother but also bc he never tried to fight for her. u don't give up on ur child when she's 10 year's old. as an adult yeah but a 10 year old, no. and arjun could have asked a third party to intervene and explain the situation. is it not comon in indian culture that when there is a dispute the family or a third party gets involved to handle it? arjun simply did not use all possible means. this is not to say Purvi is not stupid and a (insert curse word here ) idiot. but rather that arjun is not as innocent as he portrays himself

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: punirashakti
Omg...🤣

God bless Ovi n Pia nw...nw its fully clear idiot peoples separation its not at all Ovi's fault...bt still blaming Ovi 🤣

btw i agree here with only 1 point...Arjun not a innocent man...he is totally wrong to not file case n demand Pari's custody...bt we all knw why not he do...bcs he want only Golden lady love Purvi over dan Pari...afterall Purvi gv him apramparrr sukh 🤣

ovi hiding the truth of pia existence is what led to the confrontation seen. she could have made an effort to clear up a mess that she contributed to but instead she just left. (unless future scenes indicate otherwise) this isn't to deny the retard Purvi fault but if Ovi goes around making statements like "I didn't want to disturb Purvi married life" as a reason for not telling about her pregnancy, then she needs to back that statement up w/ action

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25
Completely agree with your post, Nikki!

All 3 are horrible parents! Purvi and Ovi both kept their daughters away from their father. Even when the wife is divorced from the husband and doesnt want to see his face, she allows her kids to be in touch with their father. Because then they dont miss out on having a father. So many divorced couples here in the west share custody of kids and usually those kids visit their dad during weekends. Its not the same as having both parents together but at least they get the benefit of the love and affection of both parents but at different places.

And Arjun also never tried to get joint custody of Pari. They just showed him calling Pari when she was 9-10 yrs old! Why didnt he call, or visit Pari when she was 3-4 yrs old, or 7-8 yrs old?
Then she would have known who her father was and had a good relationship with him! Then she wouldnt be so bitter abt him.

But brainless CVs cannot show that naa...then how would the misunderstandings continue for 20 yrs?😆 If Arjun had visited Pari while she was growing up, like from 2 yrs old onwards...then everyone would have known that he was still living alone.
As for Ovi, if she really wanted to keep relations with her own family, she could have called Teju or Savita or Manav and cleared up the whole misunderstanding by telling the truth.

Everything is senseless abt the whole ArVi-Ovi-Armaan tracks now. Writers have reserved garbage for these characters.

hey pallavi di, hope ur enjoying ur new coolbie status!😊 i completely respect urs and the topic maker's POV but i slightly disagree a little, sorry.😳 I think that a lot of this Purvi's fault because she kind of separated Pari from Arjun. She knew it was her fault when the housekeeper informed her that Arjun had been by himself but now she's still blaming Arjun even though he did not stay with Ovi at all which was kind of unfair. As Arjun mentioned, Purvi always rejected him and was never ready to listen to him and here she is blaming Arjun for not telling her. I hope Purvi realizes her mistake and the misunderstandings are solved soon. I am real sorry if i have offended anyone by my post😊

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: bhallarox

hey pallavi di, hope ur enjoying ur new coolbie status!😊 i completely respect urs and the topic maker's POV but i slightly disagree a little, sorry.😳 I think that a lot of this Purvi's fault because she kind of separated Pari from Arjun. She knew it was her fault when the housekeeper informed her that Arjun had been by himself but now she's still blaming Arjun even though he did not stay with Ovi at all which was kind of unfair. As Arjun mentioned, Purvi always rejected him and was never ready to listen to him and here she is blaming Arjun for not telling her. I hope Purvi realizes her mistake and the misunderstandings are solved soon. I am real sorry if i have offended anyone by my post😊

Hi bhalla hope you are well sorry to interrupt here. Purvi knows it was her fault and accepts it when she talks to Archu. She knew it was her fault to but she didn't want to believe it when she was talking to Arjun, she didn't want to believe that 20 years had passed. Purvi cannot separate a father from his daughter how hard she tries she made it difficult but not impossible. What Im trying to say here is that both of them are responsible for what happened, I have always believed that you cannot always blame everyone else for what happens to you first and foremost usually you yourself are at fault.

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swati gaikwad

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Posted: 11 years ago

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In my pov...its totally baseless point why Ovi stay away Pia frm Arjun...bcs its clear cut shown Arjun love only Pari not Pia ever...he only remeber Pari not Pia...i accepted Arjun spend time only with Pari not Pia bt its not mean whenever he recall her child so its only take name Pari n rolling tears only Pari's sek...If he feel Pia also his dearest daughter...so atleast he also remember n miss her too no matter he ever spend time with Pia or not...

I'M SUPER DUPER GLAD...for OVI n PIA both...they both stay away frm shamelss man n shameless family...who never deserve dem both a single moment too...

SO KUDOS on my side frm both OVI n PIA...dey r trully respected character in PR 👏

abt Pari's case m totally justify with her anger towards her father...who never fight for her...who always claim to love her lot...bt its not true...he love only love lady more dan his child...his fatherly love is most disgusted weak dan his aashiqi love...
nw m think Pari knw full truth...why her father kept away frm her bcs of only her mother jumping conclusion n making decision herself for other life...she is the one most cunning n idiot lady for father-daughter separation...so hope Pari question nw to purvi hw could she do dis with her...her hatred for her husband more dan her daughter life n happiness...bt we knw its not happen ever...afterall purvi is jagat mata for everyone who never wrong...n her daughter also never ask any question lyk dat...bt only blaming father jst lyk her mother...why u do dat...dis...ect ect ect...mother lyk daughter...only jumping on conclusion no matter der effect is bad on so many peoples life...bt more important der own igo satiesfaction...

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