I totally agree with you Nikki...of course Purvi is guilty of a rush to judgement and lack of trust, and refusal to listen...but as Pallavi said, she had reason to be this way from all his previous inability to be up front and honest. But, as we have all said so many times, Arjun had
multiple multiple opportunities to prove his innocence. I don't need to reiterate them all again.
He just plain didn't want to go to all that trouble because he was angry. And pouting...and acting in general like a 2 year old child. When he left for Canada in the midst of the DK/Manav stand off he was very rude and obnoxious. Regardless of who was right or wrong in that scenario, he was pretty ugly the way he treated Purvi. And he has stayed angry for 20 years.
But so many people have selective memories.
There is one more problem here with this situation. If Ovi was so keen about not disturbing Purvi and Arjun then she should never have done what she did. It was not right nor was it her right to ask Arjun to lie to Purvi. But she did. To ask a husband to lie to his wife is wrong no matter how you cut it. In fairness to Arjun I think I remember that he said he couldn't do that, but he had to find the right time or way to tell her there was a baby.. Fair enough and the right decision. But then before it could have happened Purvi found out...and oh, Onir, is the one who intervened and told her private information..Against all doctor ethics. again. So if Arjun had been able to tell her himself in his way (though with his history of procrastinating, it might have taken 20 years) it might have turned out differently.
So you see, Purvi is only one of several players. She, like Archana before her, is always blamed for 200% of the problem. But she like Archana, will take the blame...with more of a fight than Archana, but in the end that's what she will do.
Of course, Ekta's writings are sooo farfetched...there's no reason to be mad at the characters. She completely changed Purvi's approach to life. What happened in this situation was out of character for Purvi and totally for the purpose of Ektas plans for the leap...and more.