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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox



hey pallavi di, hope ur enjoying ur new coolbie status!😊 i completely respect urs and the topic maker's POV but i slightly disagree a little, sorry.😳 I think that a lot of this Purvi's fault because she kind of separated Pari from Arjun. She knew it was her fault when the housekeeper informed her that Arjun had been by himself but now she's still blaming Arjun even though he did not stay with Ovi at all which was kind of unfair. As Arjun mentioned, Purvi always rejected him and was never ready to listen to him and here she is blaming Arjun for not telling her. I hope Purvi realizes her mistake and the misunderstandings are solved soon. I am real sorry if i have offended anyone by my post😊


Bhalla, how many times did Purvi say in yesterday's episode: Sab meri galti hai...?? She said it to herself, then to Archu as well. Then how can u say shes still blaming Arjun?

And she is very guilty indeed for jumping to conclusions, for not giving chance to Arjun to say what he had to say and most of all for not having any TRUST on Arjun.

But Arjun isnt exactly an innocent victim in all this! He did lie to Purvi that day in the hospital, a lie that changed their lives forever!
He has lied to her before, its not the first time (he hid from Purvi that he was getting engaged to Ovi that time)...since there was a precedent regarding him and Ovi, I dont blame Purvi completely for thinking the worst when he lied to her even after she had seen him with Ovi and her baby.
Any wife would suspect her husband if he was found with his ex-wife and their newborn baby.

But if Arjun really wanted to clarify abt Pia he could have done it in a hundred other ways than just trying to call Purvi or meet her. He could have e-mailed, texted, to her, he could have called Archu and told her, DK could have called Purvi and told her...the possibilities are endless! 😆

Its no use blaming just one of them, both are equally to blame ...they stayed away for so many years because of their Ego! Because of Purvi's lack of faith in Arjun and his lack of determination to get her to listen to him somehow!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591

Even though Purvi didn't listen to Arjun, that does not mean Arjun is innocent .

1) It still doesn't explain why he never tried to get custody of pari and pia. Just bc a 10 year old child told him not to call, it meant that he listened? Do you know how many divorced father's here that their child does not want to visit? And yet they don't listen because if they did, they basically confirm their child's fear that they no longer loved the child. If Arjun really wanted to, he could force a judge to allow purvi to let pari visit him. And pari had every right to hate him. While Purvi was partially responsible for poisoning pari mind against Arjun, Pari had every right to hate him because he never tried to fight for her.

2) We also know how Arjun tried to contact Purvi to explain the situation. Purvi is an idiot for not listening to him once considering she knows how hard he fought to even get married to her. But remember when Arjun initially tried to tell Ovi about falling in love with Purvi. He just kept delaying it and tried over the phone. If he wanted to, he could have physically grabbed Purvi, put his hands over mouth, and yelled out the truth. And then if she choose to not believe him, then it would be all on her. He could have talked to Tej, Archana (not Manav bc we all know he would just blow up at him) ask DK to talk to Purvi. He just didn't really try.

3) If Ovi who stated that she did not want to cause marital problems in Purvi life which is the reason she hid Pia, why is it that she never bothered to try and explain the situation to everybody when everything came out. Also people hated Purvi when she went to Kolkata and was with a child by Arjun but kept it secret to prevent it from ruining Ovi married life. Here Ovi does the same depsite the fact that she had a second chance with Arjun like Purvi did and yet she is called mature. Get if you hate Purvi for all child switching and all the other bs, but why the double standard when it comes to this? And why is Ovi being praised for keeping her child away from him while Purvi is being bashed. If anything all 3 of them deserve to be called out for being irresponsible parents.




still ovi's part is not cleared. but its clear what happened with ovi before leap thats why she did not want to stay with her family bcz of purvi. she only attained arvi marriage bcz of onir and thats why she hide about pia , so one one forced to arjun and ovi stay together pia's sake and arjun will be stay with her but he will be relationship with purvi secreately. and also second reason is ovi did not get time to tell truth bcz d clan faced so many troubles at that time.


may be still ovi do not know about arvi separation bcz she tried to contact arjun but arjun did not respond and also when she tried to contact D clan , D clan dis own her for purvi. so may be she thought no one want her and she never contact again and thought if arvi in so much love and for archana their misunderstanding will be cleared if she will be not interput...



and most important thing is problem is not ovi but bcz of arjun lie and purvi's ego...so ovi not responsible for this. after ovi stay away they have 20 yrs but they did not try to clear up their problem but gave importance to ego...thats only only arvi fault
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591


ovi hiding the truth of pia existence is what led to the confrontation seen. she could have made an effort to clear up a mess that she contributed to but instead she just left. (unless future scenes indicate otherwise) this isn't to deny the retard Purvi fault but if Ovi goes around making statements like "I didn't want to disturb Purvi married life" as a reason for not telling about her pregnancy, then she needs to back that statement up w/ action



see here is also not Ovi's fault at all...if u remember b4 leap clearly shown Ovi want to share her prego news with Arjun n she call him too bt dat call receive by purvi...n she understand der is no point to tell dis news anyone bcs Arjun n Purvi both come close again...if she tell anyone so again peoples pressure her to stay with dat man who never love her n treat her as lame furniture jst lyk he did with her previous n again run after purvi using pari name...so tell me who respected lady want her life again mess...afterall she learn lesson frm her past mistake...where she lost her baby bcs of her shameless n insane husband who never care n think abt her n her still born baby ever...

abt telling why not Ovi come to clarify everything btw Arvi...we clearly knw Purvi not listen n trust her dearest lover boy who married with Ovi bcs of her demand...who got prego Ovi bcs of her demand...so why she trust n listen calmly Ovi's words...the most imp its not Ovi's habbit to poking nose other matters...n keep meddling n jasoosi on others life...she is straight forward girl in her life...who her action n words always match eachother...she want to divorce frm her husband she got it...she want to stay away frm dat man...she actually stay away till date...she want to raise her child own herself independently...n she did it too...

m telling here is good for Ovi not interfere here anyone life bcs i hv always pb with why purvi poking her nose n meddling others life...where she hv no ri8 at all...everyone hv individual life n dey hv a capacity to think to what ri8 n wrong der own self...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ovi can call and message Arjun but she cannot call her twin sister or her dear old grandma and tell them what actually happened?
That shows her tendencies. She didnt really want to reunite with her family.

Basically Ovi is a negative character in this show who is only brought in to separate ArVi from time to time. Otherwise she has no role to play.
As for Ovi returning to the show, Shruti left PR, so probably Ekta wont bother to hire another actress to do Ovi's role now as ArVi and ArMaan chapters will be ending soon.
Maybe they will show Pia sometime...but I doubt Ekta will spend any money hiring new actors for this show as shes starting a new show soon.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I totally agree with you Nikki...of course Purvi is guilty of a rush to judgement and lack of trust, and refusal to listen...but as Pallavi said, she had reason to be this way from all his previous inability to be up front and honest. But, as we have all said so many times, Arjun had multiple multiple opportunities to prove his innocence. I don't need to reiterate them all again.
He just plain didn't want to go to all that trouble because he was angry. And pouting...and acting in general like a 2 year old child. When he left for Canada in the midst of the DK/Manav stand off he was very rude and obnoxious. Regardless of who was right or wrong in that scenario, he was pretty ugly the way he treated Purvi. And he has stayed angry for 20 years.

But so many people have selective memories.

There is one more problem here with this situation. If Ovi was so keen about not disturbing Purvi and Arjun then she should never have done what she did. It was not right nor was it her right to ask Arjun to lie to Purvi. But she did. To ask a husband to lie to his wife is wrong no matter how you cut it. In fairness to Arjun I think I remember that he said he couldn't do that, but he had to find the right time or way to tell her there was a baby.. Fair enough and the right decision. But then before it could have happened Purvi found out...and oh, Onir, is the one who intervened and told her private information..Against all doctor ethics. again. So if Arjun had been able to tell her himself in his way (though with his history of procrastinating, it might have taken 20 years) it might have turned out differently.

So you see, Purvi is only one of several players. She, like Archana before her, is always blamed for 200% of the problem. But she like Archana, will take the blame...with more of a fight than Archana, but in the end that's what she will do.

Of course, Ekta's writings are sooo farfetched...there's no reason to be mad at the characters. She completely changed Purvi's approach to life. What happened in this situation was out of character for Purvi and totally for the purpose of Ektas plans for the leap...and more.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Purvi done a mistake of not listening to Arjun. it happens normally. Arjun did the same when Purvi decided to help Manav in a project. that time both are having misunderstanding. in that situation the truth came out in a very shocking manner to Purvi.

Arjun's earlier behaviour always showed Purvi that he is too much soft towards Ovi. he doesn't want to hurt Ovi from the start. Arjun straight away went to Ovi in Canada when he is having fight with Purvi. he is there for a meeting. he can stay in hotel. why should he go to Ovi when he is not having connection with her? this is the first doubt Purvi got in her mind when he saw him with Ovi.

Arjun lied to Purvi without knowing Purvi saw him with Ovi in the hospital. Arjun intention was not to hurt Purvi. but when he came to know through Onir, he should have quickly cleared everything with the help of third party if she is not in the state to listen to him. that time Onir was the one who mediating them for good. He didn't do that. he felt insecure whenever he saw Purvi with Onir. that ego paid a price.

Secondly, when Pari was too small Arjun didn't try to go and see her. Even now Purvi is telling Pari to resepct her father. In that case, Purvi won't have surely refuse to show baby Pari if Arjun came to see her. he didn't do.

thirdly, without any other base entire family can't come to conclusion Arjun is living with Ovi for past 20 yrs. expecting any logic in this show is useless. still logically, no one will come to conclusion like that. Purvi saw them together in Canada, then how come the entire family will think Ovi is with Arjun in India for past 20 yrs. something must have happened that gave them beleife Arjun and Ovi are together in a same house. may be Arjun is not aware of that trap.

next, if Ovi wanted to stay away from Arjun then why she is frequently sending messages to Arjun. So Ovi knows Purvi is not with Arjun. Ovi knows how to SMs. but Arjun doesn't know how to e-mail or SMS to Purvi.

we can say Ovi is updating about Pia. But Arjun never worried about Pia. he is all the time thinking about Pari only. something fishy in Ovi's part. Just because Ovi had Arjun's baby D family won't have disowned Ovi. why Arjun never thought about Ovi and Pia. Even when Purvi asked Arjun simply said Pia is his child and she happened before his marriage with Purvi and he was not aware of baby until he went to Canada. there is no emotion there.


Edited by newt2007 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ovi can call and message Arjun but she cannot call her twin sister or her dear old grandma and tell them what actually happened?

That shows her tendencies. She didnt really want to reunite with her family.

Basically Ovi is a negative character in this show who is only brought in to separate ArVi from time to time. Otherwise she has no role to play.
As for Ovi returning to the show, Shruti left PR, so probably Ekta wont bother to hire another actress to do Ovi's role now as ArVi and ArMaan chapters will be ending soon.
Maybe they will show Pia sometime...but I doubt Ekta will spend any money hiring new actors for this show as shes starting a new show soon.


@ red

the same question i want to ask why not her twin sister, savita and manav did not call her to ask about truth .

why not savita asked to ovi directly , even she was knows all of things...ovi divorce, arvi marriage and pari truth...why suddenly all became mute...

thats always cleared before that ovi always wanted to stay away from her family for purvi and pari. she did it


@ blue... according u if ovi is a negative character then what u would tell about punni, munju and mittal...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ovi is a partial negative character. since she is lead's child, she can't be turned negative fully. Ovi character is actually to create rift between Arjun and Purvi love track.

surely when D family comes to India, first they will try to unite Purvi with Arjun. then they will bring Ovi back home. (Replacing Ovi with another actress is not a big issue) Ovi's entry will again create problem between Arjun-Purvi through Pari and Pia.

hope this time CVs move forward with Arnkita track giving happy ending to all the previous generation. Pari and Pia are not much shown so they won't be given any part in the future. like Teju in the previous leap, Pari will disappear now and then.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: newt2007

Ovi is a partial negative character. since she is lead's child, she can't be turned negative fully. Ovi character is actually to create rift between Arjun and Purvi love track.

surely when D family comes to India, first they will try to unite Purvi with Arjun. then they will bring Ovi back home. (Replacing Ovi with another actress is not a big issue) Ovi's entry will again create problem between Arjun-Purvi through Pari and Pia.

hope this time CVs move forward with Arnkita track giving happy ending to all the previous generation. Pari and Pia are not much shown so they won't be given any part in the future. like Teju in the previous leap, Pari will disappear now and then.



i do not think ovi is a negative charatcer or partial negative character...she is emotionally challenged girl who needs a proper treatment but all of use specially punni and savita used her for own selfish reason...if u tell savita is partially negative i will be agree but not ovi...she has the only problem with purvi and arjun lie to her but never think wrong to purvi but when she saw purvi in problem she soft towards purvi. she is not too much goody but as a normal girl who has some emotional problem, thats why when she was angry , she becomes out of control...but she grow up day by day and recover from her problem.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No problem with who think Ovi character not important at all in PR...bcs we knw whose think lyk dat here...n why...probably each character who related with armaan whether is bio or adapoted dey all important...

actually thinking our fav is important n other r not its specially our satiesfaction so no objection here at all...

the way Ovi grownup rich family daughter who spoil n immature to sensible n mature person its grt n worth of kudos...remember Satish character who is not main bt still peoples call dis character is best dan main lead manav...so here same go with Ovi character...she is best unlike Purvi character who people think she is 2nd (actually dey r ri8 )...she always stay a 2nd 😆...no matter hw cvs gv her big n long time screen space...she jst left dirty smell n dirty test on moral peoples who said only wen saw her on der tv screen..."Uff Uff Uffsss she never change in past...present n future leap after leap...bolte hai na "jeetyachi khod melyashivay jaat nahi"

btw i tell u here...specially Ovi's character likers n her fans too...Shruti not quit PR yet...she still part of dis crapy show...I hope she agree for stay back bcs cvs gv Ovi character moral path only...no matter armaan hate her or disown her always without truth or with truth...n cvs n ekta both knws very well Ovi is PR trum card nw...who people actually relate with her emotion n action both...jst wait n watch...Ovi's aka Shruti Kanwar re-entry with banggg 👍🏼
Edited by punirashakti - 11 years ago

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