Arjun is not innocent!Final warning pg15 - Page 5

Originally posted by: john909

this post just shows how much people hate arjun. before the flashbacks were shown people were blaming arjun that he did not go after purvi and all to end this misunderstanding and now that is cleared they are dragging pari in just to prove arjun is wrong again and it is his fault. there is a thing called self respect aside from his duty as a father and a husband. after everything purvi did and pari said, any husband and father would be broken to know how much both of them hate him. he would either seek revenge by going to court and stuff or simply stay away and arjun chose the latter. so why is everyone here expecting arjun to become mahaan by crushing his self respect and going after both again and again when pari and purvi were clearly in no mood to listen to anything? arjun should do this and that, what about pari and purvi? even after knowing everything did pari show an ounce of concern for arjun?? she is mature enough to understand everything yet she is like this. that cannot be blamed on arjun by saying she grew up with hating arjun. now who sow the seeds of hatred in her mind?

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Its against forum rules to bring up a post from another topic in the present one. I think we all know that by now.

Yeah..I know... Dats y naava nd I agreed on each other's point and we summing up it there only..

Originally posted by: Sakhile

There's no reasoning with someone who will not listen. It would appear alot of Purvi/Asha fans will simply believe what they want to believe no matter what the truth. Exactly like the character Purvi.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

may be your point is true...but can't control myself to saying this that one person who accused onirfans openly in another post...that same person is liking ur reply here naava...😲 ... there is thousands of post here...still will try to give you that link as proof...no offence for you nava...its just dat i feel double standard so i replied only for that.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Yes, Teju, Savita etc could have called and asked her if she was really guilty.

But in this case Ovi was wrong, she had hidden the truth abt the baby from EVERYONE, even her sister, her Aaji. So why would they trust her without hearing her story?

When someone makes the mistake of hiding such a huge secret from her own family, then that daughter or son has the duty to CLARIFY what happened with her family.

Ovi could have easily told her family abt the baby AFTER ArVi were married and happily living together. But NO, she didnt!

And thats her fault. So it was her duty to tell her parents the truth and since she didnt and they misunderstood her then its her duty again to rectify that mistake and tell them what REALLY happened. Im sure they wouldnt blame her if they knew Pia was conceived while Arjun Ovi were still married.

Just because you want to prove Purvi wrong everytime, you cannot make Ovi a totally innocent person. She has behaved like a villain all along...forcing Arjun to marry her, behaving atrociously as his wife, trying to kill her child etc.etc. She never listened to her parents and was always rude and yelling at them!

Yes, Punni and Mittal are supervillains. Manju and Ovi are also villains but to a lesser degree as they realized their mistake much later and tried to make amends.

Originally posted by: bitasta

Ovi is not in anyway responsible for their seperation in any way. It's the fat of both of their egos. Even as an Ovi fan, I admit she probably should have tried to explain to the D clan the truth. We have not seen Ovi yet post-leap, so we don't know if she tried or even knew abt their seperation.However, it's not her job to reunite the two APs(arvi). Arjun should have probably put in more effort or tried to get a 3rd party to explain to Purvi like DK. Not that Purvi is not at fault. I think she is even more at fault because she never gave Arjun the chance to explain. Ok maybe she would be in shock for a few months maybe a year at the most. Even though I didn't like them much, I thought they had a great understanding.
Now we know that's not true... If they had a great understanding, Purvi would have agreed to listen to him sometime in these 20 years

Originally posted by: samarth300

Ovi is not in anyway responsible for their seperation in any way. It's the fat of both of their egos. Even as an Ovi fan, I admit she probably should have tried to explain to the D clan the truth. We have not seen Ovi yet post-leap, so we don't know if she tried or even knew abt their seperation.However, it's not her job to reunite the two APs(arvi). Arjun should have probably put in more effort or tried to get a 3rd party to explain to Purvi like DK. Not that Purvi is not at fault. I think she is even more at fault because she never gave Arjun the chance to explain. Ok maybe she would be in shock for a few months maybe a year at the most. Even though I didn't like them much, I thought they had a great understanding.
Now we know that's not true... If they had a great understanding, Purvi would have agreed to listen to him sometime in these 20 years

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

First of all my statement is for arjun and purvi not for pari as she was just child...if arjun was making 4 steps with half hearted efforts than purvi should take atleast one step...if he was calling or attempting to meet to her or pari...she should meet him nd allow pari too for it...its family matter not random people's so should handle it with more maturity... if father wants to call child but due to mother's false hateness ...they are unable to connect with each other than mother should not drag her hateness between father-daughter relationship.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Yes, I would like to know who planted the seeds of hatred for Arjun in little Pari's mind? Purvi certainly didnt! She was always shown as saying show respect to ur father! Remember the scene where 10 yr old Pari is tearing up Arjun's photos and Purvi comes and stops her, rebukes her for bashing her dad?

So if u go by whats actually shown in flashbacks, Purvi never badmouthed Arjun in front of Pari!

Then who did? Savita? Nina? Someone else?

In big families, its usually the other people who gossip and inform kids abt their parents' "mistakes" in such divorce cases.

So obviously 'SOMEONE" told Pari : Your father dumped ur mother and remarried his 1st wife and hes living with her and that other woman's kid.

Its quite natural that Pari grew up hating her father after hearing all this...and also he never tried to meet Pari when she was younger and more innocent...Im sure Purvi wouldnt have refused that...she is always shown as telling Pari to talk to her dad and when Arjun called to wish Pari on her 10th bday Purvi wasnt in the room, was she?

We are not putting all the blame on Arjun...we are ArVi fans...so we are blaming both of them equally for giving their individual ego more importance than their mutual love and lifelong happiness.

Purvi didn't poison Pari's mind..But did she try to clear the misunderstandings??Pari knew that her father Arjun loved her mother Purvi,but married her maasi Ovi..Did Purvi ever tell her the ''EXACT REASON'' why Arjun married Ovi?Did Purvi tell Pari,that it was she,Purvi herself,who emotially black-mailed Arjun o get married to Ovi,for her Aai Archana's happiness???Just tellig a child,who hates her father,that go n talk to ur father or respect ur father,doesn't make things correct..Whats needed is to clear the misunderstandings..