Strange - Page 5

Originally posted by: ramkideewani23

I can't understand why Soham is getting blamed at all. Is it justified that Manav and Sachin keep abusing him? Is it justified that his mother doesn't understand what he needs and how he feels, yet she preaches she is a good mother and declares him dead?

I am sorry but if I was in Soham's position I would've done the same. I admit he over reacted with the Gauri situation- but the Deshmukh family has driven him to this sorry

I guess when you are bad or use to do bad things, you cannot change. So any little mistake you made or any situation you end up in, it will always be your fault. The situation at hand does not matter.

Ovi was brought up differently and she did things differently by offering a deal for her love although arjun did not love her. he loved purvi

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I guess when you are bad or use to do bad things, you cannot change. So any little mistake you made or any situation you end up in, it will always be your fault. The situation at hand does not matter.

Ovi was brought up differently and she did things differently by offering a deal for her love although arjun did not love her. he loved purvi

Bad people can change. But its the people around them that brings them down that makes them do things worse😭

first of all ekta needs to have a clear perspective on soham's character. what the hell does she wanna do wid him? she really needs to decide whether she wants to make soham a positive or a negative character coz her track is not making any sense. soham is goon and then he turns positive thanks to his love for his mom and now he goes back to his old ways coz of love for gauri. it makes no logical sense. if she is planning a positive track in future then she needs to put a break to the despicable things soham is doing right now coz somethings cant be taken back and they leave a permanent impression.

I think hitting ur brother is totally unacceptable. But the questions he asked, made sense. GE asked why couldn't he marry gauri. Was it because he is uneducated? Archana said that was not the reason. Then he asked why. She said because u can not. Wht kind of answer is that? If she explained why and nicely without shouting at him, he wouldn't have gone to balan's side. She gave no importance to his love. There's no reason why Soham could not marry Gauri, if him not being uneducated is not an issue. Gauri doesn't love Sachin or vice versa. Even Soham is a good guy too. He might not earn much, but is very hardworking. They didn't even ask Gauri who she wants to be with. If Gauri doesn't mind getting married to Soham, then why not? I know people who work in big companies and get married to a gardener or something.

Originally posted by: samarth300

I think hitting ur brother is totally unacceptable. But the questions he asked, made sense. GE asked why couldn't he marry gauri. Was it because he is uneducated? Archana said that was not the reason. Then he asked why. She said because u can not. Wht kind of answer is that? If she explained why and nicely without shouting at him, he wouldn't have gone to balan's side. She gave no importance to his love. There's no reason why Soham could not marry Gauri, if him not being uneducated is not an issue. Gauri doesn't love Sachin or vice versa. Even Soham is a good guy too. He might not earn much, but is very hardworking. They didn't even ask Gauri who she wants to be with. If Gauri doesn't mind getting married to Soham, then why not? I know people who work in big companies and get married to a gardener or something.

Soham's actions are not being justified! He has committed a crime by hitting Sachin with intention to kill him! He should go to jail for that!

Originally posted by: ramkideewani23

Bad people can change. But its the people around them that brings them down that makes them do things worse😭

you are absolutely correct

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Soham's actions are not being justified! He has committed a crime by hitting Sachin with intention to kill him! He should go to jail for that!

But his hatred for Sachin is not only due to Gauri, but also due to Sachin always getting importance and acknowledgement as a son from Manav.

Manav didnt even care when Soham left home after his fight with Sachin (where Soham was justified in pointing out a criminal client of Sachin's)

But Manav didnt hear any of Soham's justifications and just blasted him as usual!

Manav only put up with Soham later when Archu brought him back home and forced Manav and Sachin to accept him. But they never accepted him truly from their hearts.

Rejection from his father has been a large factor in Soham's hatred for Sachin.

And where Gauri is concerned, why did she show so much concern for Soham if she didnt care abt him? Just to please Archana and Manav?

She was just trying to get into their good books and seemed to jump at the chance of becoming their bahu.

She didnt love Sachin, she didnt even know him as well as she knows Soham! Why is she rejecting Soham then? Obviously because his prospects as a groom are nowhere near Sachin's.

If Manav had helped Soham set up his own business or given him some kind of job in his company, would Gauri accept Soham? Thats the question.

Gauri forced Soham to return from the train station, she didnt let him go to Patna, she took him home to stay with her family. It was his life and his decision but still she imposed her decision on him. Why? Just because he was Archana's son?

I have never like Gauri and would not want her to be Soham's wife but I can see why Soham got so obsessed with her because she led him along, she let him believe that she cared for him deeply and wanted him to change and become a good guy!

As far as comparing Ovi and Soham are concerned, both are obsessive lovers/stalkers, but Ovi got Arjun, didnt she? She used emotional blackmail, Soham is using violence as hes wild and uncivilized.

But main difference between them is, Ovi knew Arjun loved Purvi, still she went after him and succeeded in GETTING him! Still she was supported for her actions, I guess because she was the spoiled, rich, NRI daughter of Manav Deshmukh whose bad actions were all forgiven!

But Gauri didnt love Sachin, neither he loved her, so why is Soham's pleading to marry her rejected so harshly? Because hes the poor, uneducated, uncivilized, rejected child of Manav Deshmukh? Because hes the lost boy who never got real acceptance from his father or his so called family?

Sorry to say hes not treated equally by Manav, Archana or the rest of the family! Savita still hates him which she reveals at every chance!

I still feel sorry for him still and will continue to do so... until Ekta turns him into a rapist. I wouldnt be surprised if Ekta does that just to cash in on the recent judgement on the 4 rapists in Delhi! That would be really cheap and disgusting on Ekta's part!

But I dont expect anything better from her! If she really turns Soham into a rapist, if he abducts Gauri and forces her, then I will really stop watching this crappy show!

But Im still hoping it wont go so far and Ekta will redeem his character in the end!

I agree with every word of your post. I would really like to see soham remain on the good side as he went through a lot within his own self to overcome the evil in him. Archana also tried to keep him away from it. He made a drastic effort and if he choose to go back down that lane, then it would all be useless and worthless. Its better he had remain how he was. At least eh would not have gotten a heartbreak in the process.

Well we have to expect the unexpected with this show. I dont really know what soham will turn out to be, but his character was one i was taking a liking to. I liked the way he struggled and how he overcame every temptation

Nobody is on his side... after calling him animal and throwing him outside...