Strange - Page 2

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Archana and Manav go on lecturing abt reform but did they do anything positive to help him in that reform? First of all, they needed to get him educated, then get him a job in Manav's company (in a lower position that doesnt need high qualifications).

Then Soham would feel truly accepted and upwardly mobile as befits a son of Deshmukh family.

Armaan's insane ideas of making Soham do hard labor to prove how hard work leads to success doesnt make sense at all.

Why did Manav educate Sachin, Teju and Ovi then?

Why did Archu educate Purvi then, so well that she can handle any job at Manav's company?

What have they done for Soham? Zilch! Nothing!

If Soham had started night school, and worked in Manav's company, that would have boosted his self confidence and improved his self worth. Then probably he would not have behaved like a sociopath at Gauri's rejection. He would have accepted it and moved on. Thats how I feel!

His male ego was hurt at the rejection as he thinks Sachin is preferred by Gauri because of his profession and better earnings. He thinks Sachin gets preferential treatment at home too, by Armaan, because hes a lawyer and Soham is neglected because hes a nobody!

Pallavi I agree with you completely. I would have liked to see them support him and bring him up to scratch with the other children. I too was surprised at how long he is working in the grocery store doing delivery and the family seems quite ok with it.

But on the other hand, I feel Soham should have acted better since he grew up hard and if gauri rejected him, he should have been stronger and move on- forget about her. I dont understand, why he is acting as if he has to get gauri or his life will end. If gauri does not love him, then what sense would it make to marry her. This type of behaviour does not suit his character in PR.
I agree with all of your comments. I am thinking along the same lines

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Vasu, I too feel that Soham will not let Archana down. He was sincere today and he knows his aai will be shattered if he reverts to being Lala.
Even while Soham was talking to Manav, there was restraint in his demeanor, I sincerely hope the boy has not gone off his rocker.

I think that Soham will go through with Balan's plan only to realised that its not worth it and allow sachin to marry gauri. At the last moment he will change his mind after thinking hard.

If he goes through with balan's plan and take gauri by force, then it was really not worth reforming him. It would make it look as if all the effort he has made went in vain.

Originally posted by: JanhaviSRK

Arman have failed big time!! even after soham came home they did fail in "improving him" as they claimed to have done!!

only gauri and purvi truly helped him in changing himself😊 more power to them

I am of the same view but in all fairness to Manav, he never accepted Soham fully. But archu should have been the one to help soham along in becoming a better person - getting a better job, dressing properly, going back to school etc

After reading the new Article I have lost hope on Soham. CV's have ruined this character.

Originally posted by: style14

After reading the new Article I have lost hope on Soham. CV's have ruined this character.

CV's brutally ruined his character...
I love soham in pr...
Hats off to ankit for dis acting...

I m losing hope ke soham ke saath kabhi kush acha ho...

But smwhere i really hope ke woh achha aur positive hi rahe...
I don't want to see him negative...
Plzz cv's dun ruin his character...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Archana and Manav go on lecturing abt reform but did they do anything positive to help him in that reform? First of all, they needed to get him educated, then get him a job in Manav's company (in a lower position that doesnt need high qualifications).

Then Soham would feel truly accepted and upwardly mobile as befits a son of Deshmukh family.

Armaan's insane ideas of making Soham do hard labor to prove how hard work leads to success doesnt make sense at all.

Why did Manav educate Sachin, Teju and Ovi then?

Why did Archu educate Purvi then, so well that she can handle any job at Manav's company?

What have they done for Soham? Zilch! Nothing!

If Soham had started night school, and worked in Manav's company, that would have boosted his self confidence and improved his self worth. Then probably he would not have behaved like a sociopath at Gauri's rejection. He would have accepted it and moved on. Thats how I feel!

His male ego was hurt at the rejection as he thinks Sachin is preferred by Gauri because of his profession and better earnings. He thinks Sachin gets preferential treatment at home too, by Armaan, because hes a lawyer and Soham is neglected because hes a nobody!

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Soham lost whatever love and respect I had for him when he struck his brother with that rod ...

He actually tried to kill Sachin ..No excuse whatsoever for tis kind of behaviour.

Somewhere Manav and Archana were at fault as they did neglect Soham a lot for Sachin ( all to please Savita ) .They were even going to give him up for good .But now they were trying to make up for this specially Archana .Soham broke her trust for a girl he took fancy for ..His demand to marry his brother's fiance was just pathetic when the girl does not care for him at all...

Shame on Varsha who just stood there watching all this .The main reason why Soham's life is in ruins is because of her .She is the one who made in a Gunda . She was so educated but she never educated Soham . Archana too had adopted a child but what a good job she did with Purvi .She gave Purvi full education and not just love and ma ka pyar .She made Purvi independent and educated enough to get a good job and have a respectable life on her own .

Archana worked ( never took money from Manav ) but made sure that Purvi had full education .

Varsha did nothing like that for Soham .She just spoiled him and let him be a Gunda and then she calls herself a mother ...

I agree with you on Varsha. I for one could not understand why she would have ran away and made her life and soham's worse off than they were. People go for betterment but all in all she was not mentally fit at that time, hence she made the best decisions she could have made at that point.

My concern is that archana and manav could have tried to make soham's life better in the space of time he was under their care. She and manav are rich enough and have a large business, how can they have soham working as a delivery man in a grocer shop for so long. Just providing him with a home and family does not do it all at reforming soham. They have to do more than that. They have to help him socialize with the right people, give him a decent job in Manav's company and train him in that way of life. Help him develop his capabilities but they did nothing like that.

Its quite easy for soham to snap back into the life he was in before as he would have been at it for years and it give him everything he has today - be it respect in a negative or positive way. He is used to having whatever he wants the easy way and therefore, he choose to have gauri the easy way. Archanna on the other hand should have tried to console soham a little more and make him see reason not just reprimanding him and have him involved in the wedding every step of the way as if nothing happened. She should have recognised soham and gauri's closeness from inception. Soham thought she did but ...