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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Tiyali

For me, Ovi will always be the true lead of the show. I might mock the Cvs for giving us bad writing and inconistent characters, but the character Ovi and Shruti Kanwar ALWAYS make it up. Ovi has to be one of the best written characters. She is equal parts beauty and flaw.


I skipped the first half of the epi and saw the dance, sex and Video parts. I must say, it was worth it. The video, caputred the essence of Ovi. She admitted her faults- the 'deal' and 'drinking'. Ovi truly tried her best to sleep in the bed she made. It was her choice to get married to Arjun and she tried her darnest to make it work. she left her life as a model, made adjustments and truly thought the baby would help change the marriage from beign a samjhota to a real marriage. Thats really why she cant accept Pari. If she were to accept PAri, then her marriage remains a samjhota forever. It'll never change. Arjun will be eternally grateful for forgiving him and will continue to dream about Purvis and Puchkas.

Tiyali, I loved your take in blue 👏👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
Kool, was hoping you will chime in and share your thoughts on, if it is possible that one person can 'love' multiple individuals from the opposite sex all at the same time...Varsha's questions, few pages back😊
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Posted: 12 years ago

I finally watched the episode...Can Shruti get any better with her acting? She was words can't describe today. OMG (oh my God), she portrayed every part to perfection, I saw and felt every emotion.👏 I saw more expression in RD today, he showed the uncertainty in Arjun's eyes really well...he acted the part of a man really wanting to try with his marriage in spite of the situation well...👏

my take.

Loved the way Arjun showed uncertainty when Ovi almost walked out with Manav.

Arjun and Ovi looked like they just started to discover each other. The uncertainties in Ovi's and Arjun's eyes were there in what the future holds, but I saw the beginning of them finally being in tuned.

Yes, Ovi always loved him, but of course it was a separate entity from the whole, not a shared one, where a couple experience their love together as a whole. today I thought I saw a direction towards the whole.

See how Arjun reacted to losing Ovi? That is what I wanted Ovi to do in the beginning, let Arjun see his possible loss, and there would have been no Purvi, no heartache for Ovi and Arjun, no outside child being swapped with dead child, no Doctor losing his license.

However, I keep remembering Ovi being slapped by Arjun, and Arjun not mourning their dead child and all the other things. For Ovi's sake it is hard for me to ignore this.

Then Again...
Today, I saw something that could possibly be developed and be stronger than a passing fancy.
Cvs are not that deep to understand this and they want the TRPS, no problem it is neither here nor there to me. However, if this is going to happen I need to see Ovi with a new life and happy, it is only fair.

To tell you the truth I am confused, but I think the Cvs did this episode today to give some dignity to Ovi moving on, because they know that her character deserves that. If this means goodbye for Ovi and Arjun for sure, then I sincerely thank the Cvs for doing it this way.

Arjun was actually shown today, treating Ovi like a human being with feelings.

Their reminiscing on childhood memories showed some hint of the friendship we were told they had, but never saw in how Arjun treated Ovi.

Ovi's speech on the video made me speechless, well written dialogues by the Cvs. One thing though, they exaggerated the part when Ovi said Arjun was a good husband to her. Then again, Ovi was not the high maintenance type in love, Arjun did not have to live in chawl for a month, accept deal or sleep with Ovi's sister to prove love.😆 So. I guess Ovi appreciated the smallest thing for love. Not exactly a bad quality, just the wrong guy and she took too little.

The Cvs did a great job today overall👏 They made their last moments better than I thought. I was dreading how cruel they would further be to Ovi. Like giving into requests of her suicide or car accident and death... Thanks Ekta, for once you did not upset me.😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ovi is too good for Arjun
I hope she realized this is not the same Arjun she fell in love with
This is the Arjun who lost his mind
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Posted: 12 years ago

I have heard many stories of lovers breaking up and have sex for the last time. People have had sex with their mate for the last time and then leave and the other person did not expect it. It may not happen in India, but it happens in other parts of the world.
So, why can't a married couple do the same?

Lots of babies are conceived when the marriage is about to end. It is very sad but it is the reality.


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Posted: 12 years ago
Well, why is there Q about Ovi's having sex? Multiple times hubby/wife has serious disagreement, and that disagreement is solved through sex. Somehow, I always thought that Men were more expressive that way 😆, than saying a simple sorry 😆. They can't say sorry taht easily for then their ego get bruised😆. Besides, see it was Arjun taking the initiative and Ovi didn't stop him😆.
Besides, Ovi is the wife, nothing wrong. She knew what she was doing😆. Hell, Ovi had sex before with Arjun, who knows might be even multiple times😆, so nothing awkward was there between them, nor was it their first time.😆..Certain section of the audience is just mad for Ekta showed that Arjun did have sex, so the amar prem theory of sex only with the amar partner comes crushing down, that is all😉
Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: hillydee


I have heard many stories of lovers breaking up and have sex for the last time. People have had sex with their mate for the last time and then leave and the other person did not expect it. It may not happen in India, but it happens in other parts of the world.
So, why can't a married couple do the same?

Lots of babies are conceived when the marriage is about to end. It is very sad but it is the reality.


Actually, this is very true. My frien here in US, her bro went for divorce like 3 times and everytime they patched for a baby was in the way. Finally they divorced, but we all gossip why they went on to create 3 kids, if they could finally divorce anyway...Hilly, you are so right...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Tonight's episode was good for the simple fact that it showed two people trying to save their marriage with little to no influence and/or interference from anyone else. I'm glad the CVs had Arjun make the attempt to save his marriage despite giving up Pari, good to know he does not look at this as a joke and does take this seriously

Ovi is one character who has shown a lot of growth, this is someone I used to think of as a spoiled brat but since her talk with Onir the change has been immense. I don't blame Ovi for wanting to find herself, it will be good for her and maybe for Arjun too
Onir, I still feel bad for the guy even though he was wrong to risk his career. I think Onir is a good guy and hopefully things will work out for him.
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Posted: 12 years ago


I believe you can love two persons at the same time, the only difference is the type of love. You can have the love you commit to, the ones you didn't necessarily choose (like arranged marriages) or you perceive you have found, and the one you only dream of(fantasy).

Is like they say in the west, men don't marry their fantasy( in many cases), they marry the woman they perceive is more real, more stable. A fantasy is just a fantasy. Yet, I don't believe in that. Why can't a fantasy become your reality? Men don't process like that, they separate the two and that is how we have infidelity, because they always want the fantasy no matter their reality.

People might say they have forgotten their first love, but sometimes it is not always true. You can still hold a torch or even still love them, while you are even married and love your spouse.

Sometimes, you may also mistake being in love with lack of closure. Lack of closure can be dangerous, it can make you believe you are still in love after being hurt, but the truth is you did not get closure and so you keep thinking "what if."
Closure in my estimation is the inability (whether through denial or after the sudden ending of the relationship), to accept that the relationship is no longer part of your journey, it was not meant for permanency.
Poor Ovi was in denial so she was unable to process that Arjun had moved on.

On the other hand, Arjun was also unable to process that Purvi was done with the relationship, because he was in denial also, and Purvi did not say " I don't love you," so there was nothing to say the love ends only the relationship ends. That is why I think his love could not end after the relationship ended. "What if," was his life and now a baby is added to the what if. "What if" Purvi had only chosen him over her Mother. "What if."

So, Arjun's love for Purvi could be processed as a "what if," and not a reality.
Purvi is Arjun's fantasy (what if) and Ovi is his reality(what is). that is how I would explain the two types of love. Of course neither are the real type of love that you should have. neither adds up to one.

I hope I don't confuse the hell out of you guys.

Just my Point of View.😃
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Well, why is there Q about Ovi's having sex? Multiple times hubby/wife has serious disagreement, and that disagreement is solved through sex. Somehow, I always thought that Men were more expressive that way 😆, than saying a simple sorry 😆. They can't say sorry taht easily for then their ego get bruised😆. Besides, see it was Arjun taking the initiative and Ovi didn't stop him😆.

Besides, Ovi is the wife, nothing wrong. She knew what she was doing😆. Hell, Ovi had sex before with Arjun, who knows might be even multiple times😆, so nothing awkward was there between them, nor was it their first time.😆..Certain section of the audience is just mad for Ekta showed that Arjun did have sex, so the amar prem theory of sex only with the amar partner comes crushing down, that is all😉

Kalapi I thank the Cvs for solving the mystery on whether Arjun ever had sex with Ovi, hence their baby. It never seemed like the first time today, or she would be blushing like crazy and nervous.😆 Thank you Ekta for clearing that up nicely.

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