Kool's Commentary : Jan 11 PR - Page 48

Originally posted by: pari87

Varsha di, I have been watching BV too! 😛

I felt the same that Anandi needs to realize her priorities now. Even in that, she is taking her husband for granted by making him serve up her maika walas all the time. In her case, the complication is also the presence of ex-husband at all times. She should now realize that her in laws are not going to be comfortable with her placing maika above them all the time.

Oh dear GMTA Not only she is being inconsiderate to Shiv's personal needs but taking her sasural also for granted...Her mayka is her previous ex Sasural...Ex husband is still around...Boundries need to be followed here..

Anandi asking her chhoti ma for going to her mayka for sankranti where her ILs wants her first sankranti with them...She should choose her current ILs as she already had her first sankranti with Jagya's family ...There should be no discussion abt this..😃

The balance is highly necessary and most times I see my mother had to pretty much give sasural a little more priority over maika when there were conflicting events or situations. I have to do the same when I go to India. Husband's house and parents become your first family after marriage. Maika is very important too, but you cannot be over-involved in maika also especially when brother and sister in law live there and they are main caretakers of maika. It's like, how would Sulo like it if Manju was always at her mother's house and paid no heed to sasural issues. She used to get a lot of flak for that before. Vandu never overtly concerned herself by being in maika all day long even though she had a terrible marriage and atrocious MIL. she still gave priority to sasural when it was time to give them and yet was present during maika's troubles for Manav and Archana, without ever really interfering in their lives.

Same here Pari...Every time I went to India it was my ILs first and his family or friends...It took me almost 20 yrs to have one trip all by myself to go back to my roots and visit my family and relatives..I understand that when we go as family with kids we need to do things together..ILs initially needs little more attention to make them feel wanted by their DIL...Sulo has encouraged this behavior into her faltu namoona daughters and now GD Purvi..

Savita has taught her kids well, but Sulo simply has taught them nothing. Sulo should never have married off Archana or Purvi fi she wished for them to stay stuck to her pallu forever.

Yep Archu and Purvi are still stuck to JPBP Sulo's boosoms until they leave this earth. 😆

These sort of mothers are really not wishing happiness for their daughters...They are ruining their marriages...I stay out of my Bro-SIL's business so my SILs love me over my 2 meddling sisters...elder one meddles in elder bro's life and younger one in younger bro's life...Sad both bros are no more and SILs really dont care for these 2..I respect my boundries stay out of what does not concern me so they appreciate me for who I am 😃

Originally posted by: Kools

Even i liked the Manju Punni scene Varsha ...for me the only 2 scenes worth watching were the Ovi Arjun scene and the Manju Punni scene. What Manju and Punni r going through

is the typical realistic tussle between the view points of 2 generations ...the generation of Manju's time believed marraiges brought everlasting security and were for life ...whatever she was , and like Punni even she loved the good life , she remained married to Vinod , was loyal to him and never went to her rich maika leaving him coz he was a mere TC . She stuck to her love marraige for life .

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Another case of multiple personality disorder or a bipolar in PR LAnd😆, my opinion absolutely

Edited by Kalapi - 13 years ago

How weird is this, a so call negative character looks and appear real😆, and another negative character Manjusha, appears the most balanced mom in PR Land😆….maybe in PR Land 2 + 2 is 5😉 , my opinion absolutely…