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Posted: 13 years ago
Also in masoom, naseeruddin shah loved shabana and never let her realise that she came in between him and supriya. its so much more difficult when you know your husband is in love with the other woman who is carrying his illegitimate child. its much harder to accept. roz you have to struggle with yourself to love and be a part of someone who is a part of the woman your husband would have left you for in a heartbeat. you can only make complete peace with it when your husband is reliable and loving and has made peace with his own commitments and choices. this will completely break ovi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Puji darling If Purvi ever cared for her Sister Ovi or her happiness she would have never accepted Arjun;s love or reciprocated it...There are thing u do and some you dont...And falling for a guy who is engaged to be married to your adopted mother's bio daughter is a no no...
I know Purvi did not start that...It was Arjun who fell in love first and kept pursuing Purvi...He was stupid but she did not have to be stupid...Than what can I say the Aaji Sulo and Aai Archu both encouraged her love for Arjun...So if mother and Aaji does not give a damn abt their bio grand daughter why would this adopted sister would???
Purvi only cared for her Aai, Baba Manav, Sachu dada and Soham dada...She never felt an oz of love for the twins as they were her sisters...
BF can betray one but sister should never..regardless of Bio or adopted sister 😳
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
saw the episode

I don't understand one thing

who are Archana and Purvi to control adult Vinod's sansaar

isn't his life his business , don't Archana and Purvi have their own sansaars

For so many years Archana didn't have a sansaar due to her kartoots and was living in maika boasting of Indian way of life

Now Purvi is living in maika and meddling in things that r none of her business leaving her ghar baar sab kuch without cause

she has a nice doctor husband who loves her slavishly , no in law kitkit , a spacious house , everthing , is leaving ur own sansaaar and interfering in another an Indian value

Archana wants to warn Manju about Punni

Has she asked her own daughter

why is her doctor husband liiving suddenly in Mumbai leaving his busy practice

why her tummy appears so big

why no one from the family was invited for the marraige and why it was so hush hush

Manju will take care of her own daughter , does Archana know her own

If Archana's daughter Teju can make her own decisions about her life by opting to marry a farsan delivery guy inspite of being a tycoon's daughter why cannot Punni make a decision of her life by opting to marry money irrespective of age or divorcee status

If Purvi can make a decision of her life by calling off the wedding at the last minute without even informing Archana why cannot Punni make a decision by calling off the engagement that she finds stifling and not in accordance with her life plans

If Archana's daughter Ovi can get married without the permission of her parents , why cannot Punni take a decision

When Archana herself refused the marraiges arranged by Sulochana not once but twice as her life decision was something different ...once with Satish and once with Jaywant ...why is Punni not entitled to that right

Archanawas 26 , Ovi , Teju and Purvi r mere teenagers , Punni is almost 30 ...bigger than all the four ...cannot she decide something without being judged

Why should Pradeep be subjected to a sham of a marraige like Onir who is not allowed to be a husband in a real sense but only allowed to press his wife's feet or be subjected to a court case like Manavv which i am sure Savita did not bargain for when she did this rishta

Does Archana know that her damad Onir sleeps down on the mat like a Ramu kaka while her daughter sleeps up like a contented queen ...mother have eyes like hawks ..does she know that

Many opt for the good life and money as

middle class marraiges r not for life anymore and often result in divorces . Many believe in a different thought process ...they believe money is one commodity that supports u through life so have alive in relationship and make hay while the sun shines . This thought process has its own risks like the man dumping u once the sexual attraction is over but some smart women get flats , cars , bank balances etc on their name when the affair is hot and before the man moves on .

I am not saying either thought process is good or bad . All i am saying is it is a thought process and it should not be judged . Such women opt for this than marraiges as they have seen so many affairs that they have lost faith in the institution and believe its better to be upfront than hypocritical .

Who is more hypocritical ...Purvi or Punni who clearly has toldher mom umpteen number of times of her disinterest in a middle class marraige and her love for the good life

Purvi has revealed Punni's secret to her mom ...that she is still seeing Mr Mittal while not revealed her own dirty secret to her mom that she is carrying someone else's baby but is married to another

Ovi Arjun scene was lovely. Arjun didn't even want to give her the sari himself , he was telling Onir to do it . Today instead of giving it in her hand he kept it in a chair . But Ovi not only accepted it with joy , she decided to wear it although it was not exactly her favorite color .

She loves Arjun beyond limit , like a woman . While Purvi's acceptance of the yellow sari was dutiful hers was throbbing with love .

See the difference in her attitude towards her pregnancy upon feeling loved , upon being treated like a woman . She wanted the child .

Nothing more to say .








Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Puji darling If Purvi ever cared for her Sister Ovi or her happiness she would have never accepted Arjun;s love or reciprocated it...There are thing u do and some you dont...And falling for a guy who is engaged to be married to your adopted mother's bio daughter is a no no...

I know Purvi did not start that...It was Arjun who fell in love first and kept pursuing Purvi...He was stupid but she did not have to be stupid...Than what can I say the Aaji Sulo and Aai Archu both encouraged her love for Arjun...So if mother and Aaji does not give a damn abt their bio grand daughter why would this adopted sister would???
Purvi only cared for her Aai, Baba Manav, Sachu dada and Soham dada...She never felt an oz of love for the twins as they were her sisters...
BF can betray one but sister should never..regardless of Bio or adopted sister 😳

Exactly I would have respected her more if she just left the city at that time so Arjun would stop following her.. because this will mess up Ovi's life and if not even that, fine they are 19 years old and dont know each other well to care for each other but what about her mother... didnt she think this will mess up her mother's family. Manav was already upset with Archana over this matter.

I think Archana should have worked with Manav and explained the situation of how Purvi is not at fault since she didnt know arjun's past but for what Arjun did, knowing that these 2 are sisters, they cannot trust him.. and no matter how much purvi or ovi loves him, he should be kept away from those 2.

and manav and ovi didnt care about archana or purvi so they would not even worry how they would feel but these 2 did... purvi was craving for her family... did she think marrying arjun will get her anywhere close to that...

by doing what she did, she made a fool of herself and of her mother who supported her over her own biological daughter which she should never have.
Edited by pujli07 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000



If Archana's daughter Teju can make her own decisions about her life by opting to marry a farsan delivery guy inspite of being a tycoon's daughter why cannot Punni make a decision of her life by opting to marry money irrespective of age or divorcee status

If Purvi can make a decision of her life by calling off the wedding at the last minute without even informing Archana why cannot Punni make a decision by calling off the engagement that she finds stifling and not in accordance with her life plans

If Archana's daughter Ovi can get married without the permission of her parents , why cannot Punni take a decision

When Archana herself refused the marraiges arranged by Sulochana not once but twice as her life decision was something different ...once with Satish and once with Jaywant ...why is Punni not entitled to that right

Archanawas 26 , Ovi , Teju and Purvi r mere teenagers , Punni is almost 30 ...bigger than all the four ...cannot she decide something without being judged

Why should Pradeep be subjected to a sham of a marraige like Onir who is not allowed to be a husband in a real sense but only allowed to press his wife's feet or be subjected to a court case like Manavv which i am sure Savita did not bargain for when she did this rishta

Does Archana know that her damad Onir sleeps down on the mat like a Ramu kaka while her daughter sleeps up like a contented queen ...mother have eyes like hawks ..does she know that

Who is more hypocritical ...Purvi or Punni who clearly has toldher mom umpteen number of times of her disinterest in a middle class marraige and her love for the good life

Purvi has revealed Punni's secret to her mom ...that she is still seeing Mr Mittal while not revealed her own dirty secret to her mom that she is carrying someone else's baby but is married to another

Ovi Arjun scene was lovely. Arjun didn't even want to give her the sari himself , he was telling Onir to do it . Today instead of giving it in her hand he kept it in a chair . But Ovi not only accepted it with joy , she decided to wear it although it was not exactly her favorite color .

She loves Arjun beyond limit , like a woman . While Purvi's acceptance of the yellow sari was dutiful hers was throbbing with love .

See the difference in her attitude towards her pregnancy upon feeling loved , upon being treated like a woman . She wanted the child .

Nothing more to say .



Brilliant post Kools! Loved it! :) 👏


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: pujli07

Exactly I would have respected her more if she just left the city at that time so Arjun would stop following her.. because this will mess up Ovi's life and if not even that, fine they are 19 years old and dont know each other well to care for each other but what about her mother... didnt she think this will mess up her mother's family. Manav was already upset with Archana over this matter.
Pari that was my Q from the get go looog time ago when Purvi dumped Arjun claiming she accepted Ovi's deal for her Aai's happiness..If she cared for her aai's happiness that she would have never accepted Arjun's love for her by dumping her engaged sister..ArMan were not on good terms and were going to be divorced soon...This dumping one sister for another would have caused Manav to be angry at Archana and lose all the chance they could have had in reuniting..But Purvi did not think abt it and nor did Arjun...He runed 2 families love, happiness, business and his childhood friendship with Ovi..
I think Archana should have worked with Manav and explained the situation of how Purvi is not at fault since she didnt know arjun's past but for what Arjun did, knowing that these 2 are sisters, they cannot trust him.. and no matter how much purvi or ovi loves him, he should be kept away from those 2.

Archana has always taken wrong decision and wrong time...Instead of working along Manav and staying firm at "Arjun not good for either her daughters" would have avoided this situation...Instead jhansi ki rani along with her aai Sulo supported Purvi by giving stupid deal to Arjun to proov his love for Purvi by earning misely Rs. 10000...Doing that he had to drop his family honor, name and be fatichar living in a chawl...If she had remained firm it would have gotten over in no time...Arjun would have had to accept the fact and Ovi or Purvi would not feel betrayed...Ovi eventually would get over Arjun if her own mother had been there for her heartbreak...But supporting Purvi she has betrayed Ovi and her feelings..
and manav and ovi didnt care about archana or purvi so they would not even worry how they would feel but these 2 did... purvi was craving for her family... did she think marrying arjun will get her anywhere close to that...

by doing what she did, she made a fool of herself and of her mother who supported her over her own biological daughter which she should never have.
You are bang on Pari...She has made her own mother and aaji look like stupid fools who supported her so called true, pure love for Arjun...We all know how true and pure her love was...😡

Fab posts Pari, Teju, Masti and kools..
I even liked the convo Manju had with her daughter today..She was genuinely concerned mother giving her daughter right advice...How is it Archana and Purvi's business to butt in Vinod who is elder bro to Archana who is even older than Manav...Why would Vinod-Manju need interference from Archana let alone from a teenager Purvi??? 😲 If I were Sulo I would not want my grand child or even my daughter interfering in my son-DIL's life..No one should interfere in someone else's life unless they are approached for advice or guidance...Sulo has promoted daughter's constant nose poking in son-dil's lives...So here we are Purvi meddling in Punni;s business..😡
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23


This show promotes such BS on the name of family and values and sanskaars. Archana and Purvi are both those women that simply nurture their maika more than husband or sasuraal or children for that matter. This is all due to Sulo's shameless reinforcement of their behaviors. As a mother Sulo, should be strong to tell her daughters to manage their respective sansaars and keep their lives separate. Instead, she keeps entertaining their random elongated visits and interference in her son's life all the time. I don't blame Manju for disliking these two so much.

As a daughter it is your duty to take care of your sasural and maika, but Purvi looks like she could care less for the husband and live with him liek a ghar jamai in Vinod's house forever. She doesn't even care to ask Onir if he is comfortable with this arrangement, simply makes decisions and walks off leaving him to follow behind her. Archana, simply loves to poke her nose in Manju-Vinod's affairs, whether or not they like it. If I was Archana, I would have simply given up on Punni. She is my niece, but if she chooses a certain life, so be it. I would not interfere unless my brother and SIL asked me for advice. But well, this mother-daughter duo first screw up their own lives, their husbands are mere puppets and their children are obv not raised properly. Then they have the gall to lecture other's kids and other people about parvarish, sanskaars and righteousness.

I wish Manju and Punni uncover Purvi's lie before hand and whack both these ladies along with Sulo for their kaands.

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Posted: 13 years ago
I am watching BV for last 2-3 wks..Even Anandi is going to mess up her marriage if she does not realize to keep balance between her old sasural which is her mayka now to her current sasural..
Indian society once the girl gets married and moves in with her husband's family she needs to make every effort in keeping the right tradiditions..
She can support her mayka but sasural too...by letting mayka take over it ruins her own marriage and relationship with ILs possibly husband too..
By writing this I no way am saying forget your mayka and only do what your husband or IL wants...Try to be fair and keep balance between the two..Give and take is the only way..
Even here in US one has to keep focus on what is more important? family plus having some holidays with them or none...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Varsha di, I have been watching BV too! 😛

I felt the same that Anandi needs to realize her priorities now. Even in that, she is taking her husband for granted by making him serve up her maika walas all the time. In her case, the complication is also the presence of ex-husband at all times. She should now realize that her in laws are not going to be comfortable with her placing maika above them all the time.

The balance is highly necessary and most times I see my mother had to pretty much give sasural a little more priority over maika when there were conflicting events or situations. I have to do the same when I go to India. Husband's house and parents become your first family after marriage. Maika is very important too, but you cannot be over-involved in maika also especially when brother and sister in law live there and they are main caretakers of maika. It's like, how would Sulo like it if Manju was always at her mother's house and paid no heed to sasural issues. She used to get a lot of flak for that before. Vandu never overtly concerned herself by being in maika all day long even though she had a terrible marriage and atrocious MIL. she still gave priority to sasural when it was time to give them and yet was present during maika's troubles for Manav and Archana, without ever really interfering in their lives.

Savita has taught her kids well, but Sulo simply has taught them nothing. Sulo should never have married off Archana or Purvi fi she wished for them to stay stuck to her pallu forever.
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Posted: 13 years ago
we have a saying...khali dimaak is shaithan ka ghar...sulo, archu, purvi doesn't have any responsibilities, they don't have to worry about anything as everything came to them in decorated platter, they actually don't have any problems, but the empty mind is creating all this masala on the the name of mahaan sanskars...and they create cyclones in people life around them...

why this mahhan purvi never told to her mom that once she made her dupatta fall infront of mr.mittal...

i liked manjusha's scene, but i didn't like one thing, punni's last match got ruined because of archu drama in various parties, but still manju never said anything to archu on this...archu did public thamasha in punni's sakarpuda that was enough for someone to stop the shaadi but that guy was fan of manav so everything went well, but then punni got slaps for exposing purvi-arjun affair, though she had a wrong video clip but what she wanted to tell was truth, what punni wanted to convey purvi was truth that purvi-arjun has affair...and punni's wedding was called-off...but never manju/punni/vinod never raised their voice...

from precap...i wish punni was going out to know the secret of purvi not for mr.mittal...
Edited by m_masti - 13 years ago

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