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it ws because of purvi dat ovi ws telling manav not to divorce archana...savita heard dis and ws talking to sachin abt that fake signatures..after heari.g their convo she came to know abt archana's truth...so moral of da story is dat a armans reunion is based on purvi's sacrifice..atleast dnt deny it..

Originally posted by: ashvikluverrr

it ws because of purvi dat ovi ws telling manav not to divorce archana...savita heard dis and ws talking to sachin abt that fake signatures..after heari.g their convo she came to know abt archana's truth...so moral of da story is dat a armans reunion is based on purvi's sacrifice..atleast dnt deny it..

Good going dear!!! And as I recall, a bunch of you who are bashing ARVI now were applauding Purvi for this exact same thing...as because of her sacrifice...Ovi pressured her family to accept Archana though they (including Teju I remember) were not ready to...and also reminded them that whatever she had done she was always there for them and nobody could deny she loved them all a lot...which got them all thinking...then Teju overheard Savita and Sachin talking about the signatures...and took it from there...which would never have happened without Ovi trying to uphold her end of the "Devil's deal" she made...

i dnt like purvi's decision to sacrifice arjun...and nw its like these ppl very saying dat purvi's sacrifice has nothing to do wid arman's reunion but dats not the thing..it ws bcoz of her stupid desicion..not liking da fact dat arjun is hurting and for dat purvi should suffer..but is is not right purvi's sacrifice had some positive impact on arman...????

Originally posted by: archverma10

Good going dear!!! And as I recall, a bunch of you who are bashing ARVI now were applauding Purvi for this exact same thing...as because of her sacrifice...Ovi pressured her family to accept Archana though they (including Teju I remember) were not ready to...and also reminded them that whatever she had done she was always there for them and nobody could deny she loved them all a lot...which got them all thinking...then Teju overheard Savita and Sachin talking about the signatures...and took it from there...which would never have happened without Ovi trying to uphold her end of the "Devil's deal" she made...

It is what it is Ladies and Gentleman. You all applauded and praised Purvi then for being the catalyst to trigger the whole thing. So we have 2 options here...1) either all of you are having a temporary memory lapse...or 2) we are dealing with a bunch of hypocrites...so which one is it????

It is Purvi's 'sacrifice' that got the ball rolling for ArMan reunion. That was THE catalyst!!!!

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Although Purvi's dumb actions did start the whole turn of events, the credit of Arman reunion and current state of happiness doesn't go to Purvi. If Teju hadn't gotten involved, and the story line moved on only through Purvi's sacrifice then Archana might have lived with the Deshmukhs, but she certainly wouldn't have been happy. Ovi wouldn't love her the way she loves her now, not to mention she wouldn't have been around much anyways after marriage. Archana would've still suffered through Tej, Savita, Sachin and Manav would've thought she wronged him. Purvi in no way is responsible for bringing out the truth, something she knew about and kept as a secret. The truth brought Archana's happiness. You can't take credit for something you did not do, Purvi's intentions wasn't to bring out the truth, it was to stop the divorce and make Archana move back in with the Deshmukhs.

first-u cant say dat purvi is not responsible for arman's reunion coz u vry well kno dat it it wasnt purvi den all dis wuld nt have started..kno tej is the one responsible..but purvi didnt saceifice arjun just to stop arman's divorce she wanted her mother to be happy in D clan..

second- although arjun decided to marry ovi first but it ws on manav dk's insistence...and purvi didnt knew abt arjun and ovi so she is nowhere to to blamed...aftr knowing dat arjun and ovi's engagement she tried to forget him.but arjum ws nt ready...aftr dat he provd his love gor her to her family..all wer vry happy wid their relation except manac and ovi..ovi made a deal..dat deal destroyd arvi..dat deal ws more den holding one at gunpoint..she emotionally blackmailed purvi...and purvi would not be happilt married to arjun wen her mother is suffering..so she decided to go on wid THE DEAL made by ovi which u feel is very normal..well seperating two lovera is not a normal thing..what she did ws cruel..

Originally posted by: bee5

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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

Although Purvi's dumb actions did start the whole turn of events, the credit of Arman reunion and current state of happiness doesn't go to Purvi. If Teju hadn't gotten involved, and the story line moved on only through Purvi's sacrifice then Archana might have lived with the Deshmukhs, but she certainly wouldn't have been happy. Ovi wouldn't love her the way she loves her now, not to mention she wouldn't have been around much anyways after marriage. Archana would've still suffered through Tej, Savita, Sachin and Manav would've thought she wronged him. Purvi in no way is responsible for bringing out the truth, something she knew about and kept as a secret. The truth brought Archana's happiness. You can't take credit for something you did not do, Purvi's intentions wasn't to bring out the truth, it was to stop the divorce and make Archana move back in with the Deshmukhs.

Archana was a bad mother to Ovi once when she tackled the Arjun/Purvi relationship. She was absolutely insensitive toward Ovi's feelings. At that time people said well it is out of her hands, it's not as if she can tell Arjun or Purvi to stop loving each other. Well now that these three "very intelligent" adults decided to make a big mess, her hands are truly tied. Remember marriage is a big deal to them, it's "pavitra rishta." She can't ask Ovi to break her marriage. Specially when she knows how much Ovi wanted this marriage. What has happened, has already happened, all she can do at this point is hope for the best. Archana hasn't forgotten Purvi, she is aware that Purvi is miserable but there is nothing she can do about it. Being mean to Ovi is also stupid considering she just got Ovi back. She knew about Ovi's proposal way before Purvi knew about it. She could've been mad at her then. She already placed Purvi's happiness over her family's happiness before, isn't it wrong to do that again especially when they just got her back? It certainly will not achieve anything. It's not as if Purvi is going to feel better if Archana gives Ovi cold shoulders.

If people are complaining that how come Arjun and Purvi are the only ones suffering but Ovi is not, let's look at the whole picture from an unbiased perspective, shall we? Ovi did not marry Arjun by holding Arjun and Purvi at gunpoint. She made a deal. A deal where she was getting something and giving Purvi something in return. Granted it's absolutely wrong but people make it seem like Ovi was a big bad villain who forcefully took Arjun away, and Purvi gave him away and Arjun, a grown man listened! All three of them are unhappy at the moment. Ovi is just as unhappy because she is married to a man who she loves, but doesn't love her in return and she does not understand that!! It's not like those other serials where two strangers are married and the wife feels someday her khadoos husband will come to love her in return. For Ovi, Arjun is someone who already knows her and loved her. In her mind he never stopped loving her. it was just that Purvi came between them. Arjun's current treatment, his indifference certainly hurts her, and it will get worse. The more Arjun realizes that Purvi is gone, he will get more and more bitter. She has built all her dreams around this man and it is not working out the way she pictured it. So all 3 of them are currently living in shattered dreams.

OK, let me recap the sequence of events...

Let me tell you something upfront.. I am against what and how Purvi did what she did to Arjun, but keeping that aside, let us get some facts straight..

If Purvi's 'dumb' actions, as you so nicely put it, were not done (not lauding her, just quoting you), darling Ovi would not have married 'her' Arjun, and Ovi, would not have ever asked Manav to accept Archana, for she feared that if not, Arjun will not accept her. Savita overhears this, and that led to her talk with Sachin, which Teju overhears and does the needful. Yes, Teju did the final act, but Purvi, whether we like how it was done or not is DEFINITELY the main CATALYST for this cycle of events. If she had not started the cycle, believe me, things would be where they were. And, be fair please, Purvi did not take credit for anything. She is just happy that her mother got her family back.
BTW, how do we know Ovi really loves her Aai. We have to wait and see how it pans out. You cannot just hate a person for 18 yrs, say those things that Ovi said to Archana in India, and suddenly start loving her in a day. I wonder, if Arjun was not involved, I mean, if she was not married to Arjun (and her belief that she needs to be with Archana, else Arjun might leave her), would she still show so much love to Archana? That is the question that has to be answered in time.
How do you say Archana was a bad mother to Ovi because she approved of Arjun-Purvi relationship? DId Arjun love Ovi? Was there any indication that said that Purvi broke their relationship deliberately? I was dead against Archana initially when she issued the challenge to Arjun. Yes, she gave him a chance believing he will never fulfill it. She did see that he genuinely loves Purvi so she approved of it. If she wants to be a good mother to Ovi, should she be unfair to Purvi knowing pretty well that Purvi and Arjun loved each other? Is that how it goes?
Now, who is asking Archana to be mean to Ovi? All that is expected from either of the parents is to make Ovi realize atleast the horrific situation that has been created for which SHE is the main catalyst. Yes, granted Purvi and Arjun were foolish to fall for it, each for a different reason. But, OVi is definitely the main reason this situation is as is.
yes, let us look at the current situaiton with a unbiased perspective.
You are right. All of them are unhappy because of the situation they created themselves. But, among all of them, there is no excuse for Ovi to be unhappy. Ovi Maam went into this with open eyes, knew very well what she was getting, dealed for him, knowing pretty well, Arjun is madly in love with Purvi, seen with her own eyes, still went heartlessly struck Purvi where she was most vulnerable and got him by crook. If she does not understand that Arjun doesnt love her, then more fool she is, because he has categorically said so many times..This whole idea in her brain that Arjun loves her, when he has never said so, Purvi came between them, which is not true, Purvi didnt do it intentionally and she acts so hurt by his indifference now, knowing he knew of the deal she made is WHAT makes her delusional. And people wonder how and why she is called as such.