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Posted: 13 years ago
#61
StandingAlone...Love this part of your post..touched..👏👏👏👏👏
A magalsutra & a pinch of sindur are valuable but its valueless if it doesn't even matter to one n one got it by sheer cheating.It may earn you a name or ur relationship but don't give you the rights or bring love along.

I do not want to explain anything more and diminish the essence of your statement..very well said..🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Fab post Varsha ...I want to add but busy in ganpati preparations


Kalapi we dinos r so alike ...i wanted to comment on the suicide thingie ...thank u for commenting

I feel a deep sympathy for anyone attempting suicide as it denotes severe mental pain .

The pain is so unbearable that one prefers losing life than bearing it .

This does not mean giving in to the person who attempts suicide demands .

It means understanding him or her and changing your approach .

Archana and Sulochana behaved all wrong and if I was Manav i would speak very harshy to her as I would believe that their approach led to her depression .

It is as wrong as pronouncing Varsha cured .

Kool, what i am going to say is nothing to do with what Varsha or Kalapi discussed..
I feel a deep sympathy for anyone attempting suicide as it denotes severe mental pain .
The pain is so unbearable that one prefers losing life than bearing it
not able to fully accept this part.. it is not severe mental pain.. it is chemical imbalance in the brain, makes u OCD and the next stage is suicidal thoughts..they should have taken Ovi to a psychiatrist and given her antidepressant.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ovi recieved Managal sutra and Sindoor in her maang by cheating but Arjun did both being aware of what he was doing...how does this make it wrong on any level? If Arjun thought that Purvi dumped him for mother's happiness than he had to know there was more to it..
He should have never said NO...Morning after excuses won't cut it...
Purvi made me do it won't work...
He did it all with fulll conscious and awareness..
It is legit and valid in court if anyone doubts it..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Ovi recieved Managal sutra and Sindoor in her maang by cheating but Arjun did both being aware of what he was doing...how does this make it wrong on any level? If Arjun thought that Purvi dumped him for mother's happiness than he had to know there was more to it..

He should have never said NO...Morning after excuses won't cut it...
Purvi made me do it won't work...
He did it all with fulll conscious and awareness..
It is legit and valid in court if anyone doubts it..

Those statements from StandingAlone only reflect what Ovi did.. Nothing about Arjun or Purvi..
Is that true or not?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vgiri

Those statements from StandingAlone only reflect what Ovi did.. Nothing about Arjun or Purvi..

Is that true or not?

Not really...It speaks how much or less Arjun and Purvi knew or loved each other...Obviously not much 😃
Purvi loved her mother more
Arjun does not want to see his own fault in this and all wants to only blame Ovi..but that will not relieve other party who did the damage to their own so called love..Its like Blaming Savita for ArMan's fd up marriage for 25 some yrs..
That is what I am saying here...Nothing more or less..
Marriage vidhi was done in proper way and sindoor-mangalsutra was put on by the groom on bride with awareness and full conscious...
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vgiri


</div>Kool, what i am going to say is nothing to do with what Varsha or Kalapi discussed..


<div>I feel a deep sympathy for anyone attempting suicide as it denotes severe mental pain .

The pain is so unbearable that one prefers losing life than bearing it


not able to fully accept this part.. it is not severe mental pain.. it is chemical imbalance in the brain, makes u OCD and the next stage is suicidal thoughts..they should have taken Ovi to a psychiatrist and given her antidepressant.



Yeah it is partly some level of mental strain, but that is not what triggers suicide it is more chemical imbalance. A girl like ovi who lives in a world of delusions needs serious help.
I have met some amazing people who live thru unimaginable mental stress but find the courage and energy to live their lives. Suicide is not a cowards way out but it is definitely sick person way out. You don't give a sick person their favorite toy and hope they get better it doesn't solve the problem. This is soap so ovi will be fine, but in real life people like ovi are just ticking time bombs.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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All of us know what Arjun & Purvi did.. What did Ovi do..
Either you can say, she took advantage of the situation or indirectly forced Arjun to marry her.
Why Arjun married her is not the question here.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well known fact Ovi put the deal to Archana she rejected it
Ovi put it forth to Purvi and waited
On the day of the marriage at 11th hour Purvi strategically and calculatively makes phone calls to both Arjun and Ovi, forces him to marry Ovi...ovi did not even know why she was being called by Purvi...Ovi had already given up...So now it is completley Ovi's fault that Purvi decides to make good on a deal at 11th hour by dumping Arjun and forcing him to marry Ovi??
No one has denied or claimed Ovi did not put the deal forth..
Kehta bhi deewana (OVI) (Purvi)aur Sunta bhi deewana (Purvi)(Arjun)
Put the blame where it lies...I am not in denial with who did what...ArVi fans have problem seeing what it is by blaming Ovi or having divorce or annulment...Marriage is not kids play dears.
I have said it b4 all 3 immatue adults want to play Marriage but have 0 maturity..Even the 3 elders 50+ mother, grand mother and groom's father had no maturity or else they would have seen the bigger picture b4 supporting Arjun-Purvi alliance...What it would do to Ovi, Manav and familes-business partnership...
I have never rooted for Arjun-Ovi jodi once he dumped her & broke up with her in all disgusting way
But now they are married and that has to be accepted as a mere fact.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Well known fact Ovi put the deal to Archana she rejected it

Ovi put it forth to Purvi and waited
On the day of the marriage at 11th hour Purvi strategically and calculatively makes phone calls to both Arjun and Ovi, forces him to marry Ovi...ovi did not even know why she was being called by Purvi...Ovi had already given up...So now it is completley Ovi's fault that Purvi decides to make good on a deal at 11th hour by dumping Arjun and forcing him to marry Ovi??
No one has denied or claimed Ovi did not put the deal forth..
Kehta bhi deewana (OVI) (Purvi)aur Sunta bhi deewana (Purvi)(Arjun)
Put the blame where it lies...I am not in denial with who did what...ArVi fans have problem seeing what it is by blaming Ovi or having divorce or annulment...Marriage is not kids play dears.
I have said it b4 all 3 immatue adults want to play Marriage but have 0 maturity..Even the 3 elders 50+ mother, grand mother and groom's father had no maturity or else they would have seen the bigger picture b4 supporting Arjun-Purvi alliance...What it would do to Ovi, Manav and familes-business partnership...
I have never rooted for Arjun-Ovi jodi once he dumped her & broke up with her in all disgusting way
But now they are married and that has to be accepted as a mere fact.

Varsha.. I do accept that they are married now..
But I really liked what standingalone said about marriage.. that's it..it is perfect for Ovi..cheers!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't exactly agree that Oi got a pinch of sindoor and a mangal sutra bu cheating anyone .

The deal was very upfront . Neither had she told Purvi do not tell Arjun nor had she told do not tell Archana .

Neither had she told accept it or else ...thats a threat for you or a blackmail .

She had totally given up on Purvi accepting it ...infact she told Punni this . That nobody is accepting it and the whole thing was a big flop .

Why accept it then ? She was rather surprised when the phone came .

A pinch of sindoor and a mangalsutra are symbols of a great commitment . They did the marraige in front of god .

What right did Arjun and Purvi have to do fun or travesty of God or a serious institution like marraige ?

I am hearing a lot about how Ovi is wrong and how she must be punished and how she must even die to get out of the great lovebirds' way but what about the mazaak , the joke they did , what about the punishment for that ?

Or should they go unpunished and be granted an annulment and go back to 'loving' as soon as they realize they made oops a mistake ?

Is it that trivial that one says oops ?

And then lights candles and smells roses and gazes at the moon ?

If their mistake desrves no judging and no punishment inspite of playing around with a godly instititution like marraige which society takes seriously why should Ovi's mistake not be pardoned? Everyone says na that Ovi getting a marraige after this means glorifying manipulation and selfishness ,...then what about this mistake of playing around with God ?

If Ovi wishes she can walk away with half of DK's wealth ...that valid this marraige is and that price Arjun will have to pay for his 'pyaar' and Purvi's mahaanta .

But Ovi loves Arjun and instead is busy trying to win him back by serving him while he runs with zero self worth after Purvi who keeps refusing him and expects him to stay in a loveless marraige for life so that her Aai can have marital bliss .



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