arjun-ovi

Originally posted by: merrydock

i dont agree with you. Arjune and Ovi are married but they are not a couple. Marriage is not just a union of two people but a union of two hearts. PurviArjune didnt seperate of their own choice, but were cohersed into sacraficing their love, by ovi for the sake of Archana. how can that he right.

and how can a marriage last when one partner's heart and soul in not involved is this marriage.

it is only a pretentious relationship which has no heart or soul. why should it last.

if Ovi truly loves Arjune, she should see the pain he is going through. how can she live day in and day out seeing the man she claimes to love, be miserable. by pretending that everything is fine and she is very happy doesnt make it so. if Ovi truly loves Arjune she should release him from the bematelabe bond and give him back his love Purvi.

Originally posted by: sherma

how much i know marriage is a union of 2 familes,bth the families are now happy

they wld also b happy wen arjun-purvi wld have gotton married but arjun-purvi backout

arjun-purvi seperated with their own choice,it was nthing dne for ovi

purvi did for archu

and arjun for purvi

i am not with marriage and relationship breaking like this,its not a guda-guddi game,

its Marriage

my parents had a arrange marriage-they hardly knew each other,but gradually they fall in luv

same can apply in arjun-ovi case,evn arjun shld except ovi as her wife and move no

it was his choice,he cld ahve slap purvi or shld have said boss not interested in being a sacrifical goat,they knew wat were they doing

Originally posted by: angelz6

I never understand why are you so hell-bent on making us accept Arjun & Ovi Purvi & Ovi both are wrong .. If Ovi's selfishness can be overlooked & forgiven just becoz she loves Arjun truly and did all the SAAZISH to have him with her then why cant is be the same for Purvi , she sacrificed Arjun coz she loved her mom wanted her happiness.

Originally posted by: pp29

That would technically be the right thing to do. But I don;t think they will ever show Arjun to be able to love the woman who disregards his feelings like they mean nothing and then schemes to get married to him, having previously resolved to almost psycho behaviour like suicide and blackmail. That;s a very dark past to ignore if you ask me. However, since he hit the hammer on his own feet, he deserves to pay for it too. But, I think, he understands why Purvi did not get married to him and understands her need for her aai;s happiness as she never forgot to mention it ot him all the time while they were getting engaged. And then ofcourse, Ekta has shown this to be "pavitra rishta' between these two lovers who are as naive and dumb as they can be. So purely by the whole idea behind love and sacrifice and selflessness, (which beats me), they will show eventually these two to re-unite amidst a lot of unbelievable circumstances yet again and people will rejoice. If marriage was a serious institution to be followed, ARMAN would not have existed considering their long standing history of mocking marriage and vows and mistrust to eventually throwing it away in the name of sacrifice and responsibility ( Shravani).

Sadly, this is all about love and not marriage,. Either way, neither Ovi deserves this happy marriage based on how self-centred she is shown throughout and nor does Purvi considering she threw away her one chance at a happy married life with Arjun. This unnatural absurd wedding sequence has truly spelt disaster for the show and it's viewership.

Originally posted by: sherma

evn during armaan thing i was against it cause shravni had devoted her life and time for deshmuk,but it was shravani who back out and manav-shravni werent married tat time

Originally posted by: sherma

i totally beleive in marriages,commitment,relationship

,i read the written update today where there was sum wiered comments on ovi

but i dint find her doing anyting wrong today

ovi did watever for arjun her love

purvi did for archu

purvi luvs archu more then sulochana

if there is a best daughter award,purvi will surely win and ovi wont b in the nomination list too

but if there is a choice who luvs arjun more,so it will b surely b ovi

if arjun-ovi wldnt have married,still arjun-purvi getting back wld b definetly b a yess

but not now,purvi got them married

marriages cant b broken like this

i have seen somany couples who are in luvless marriage have a superb marriage life

Originally posted by: shreya2094

im sorry i ve to disagree wid u here...marriages r definitely no joke n i too value it equally ...u had stated abt ur parents' arranged marriage n em eventually falling in love wid eachodet...but this isnt d same case here...d man is already in love wid soneone else n love is no joke either...how can anyone expect him to forget his true love?? n moreover this was by no means a true marriage...no blessings frm elders(they recieved blessings nly later n tht too not whole hearted blessings as everyone was aware of d truth) n it was basically a deal btw 2 ppl...it wasnt a match made in heaven...ovi cant be shown any pity as she knew abt arjuns feelungs already n if she truly loved him she wud put his happiness first rather than her own