If you were Archana what would you do? - Page 2

Originally posted by: cocololo123

hahaha thank u my dear and thank u rest of my dears for such compliments 😆..I would surely ask my future wife (once I find her n get married) to let you all know if I make a great daddy or not..Need to find a Archu first 😆

Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

@ red Yup, better let us know whether PR is running or not!

@ blue you are so right, marriage is not a joke but these two have made a mazaak out of it. If not for their sakes, at least for their children's sakes they need to face the truth and come to terms like adults, to stay or separate even at this juncture, instead of playing cat and mouse games with each other. Really sad.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

hahaha Sure Janhvi dear may be I can hijack Archu from PR ...😆

Originally posted by: arjunaluis

Hai Jhanvi...thankfully someone agrees with me...i would have done the same thing archana did..by giving the weeding card in front of everyone to me archana made a statement to ovi which is girl this is happening deal with it...if archana didn't show it to ovi but talked to ovi..she will still be in denial (screaming u never love me you only love money so does purvi you want arjun's money) futhermore she will never listen to archana..she has never listen until today what would make her listen now...i feel the duty archana is talking about is her duty to ovi to make ovi realize..and that she did..that is why ovi went to her last resort trying to kill herself...

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Unfortunately being a Male gender ,I would tell u what I will do if I was Manav😆(keeping in mind only the current situation and not the entire context.I surely dont want to be in his shoes😆apart from the only consolation price is Archu of course🤣).

I would rightly pull up my socks,get tickets for Savita/Damo,Ovi,Tej back to Canada and send them back by the first-flight.(Sachu can stay back with me in case of need)

Meanwhile I will consult some on Ovi's depressive state and get some suggestions on how to get Ovi out of this mess..I will be with Ovi all the time,take her out somewhere meanwhile the D's pack the bags..

Sit with Ovi somewhere and slowly start talking..Before I take Ovi out,I would contact Arjun/DK n ask him to meet me somewhere and get a explanation of the events that unfolded.Once DK Arjun explain the facts ,it would clear out some facts and I would ask Arjun to tell the same that he does not love Ovi to Ovi on her face this time in front of me with all the facts.I will let Arjun know that I am angry on him n DK for hiding the important things and not telling on time and going ahead with the engagement fiasco.I would tell Arjun that it will take me some time to forgive him and that I am not against his wedding but I cannot come due to my daughter distraught condition.As her friend I would ask Arjun to ask him and talk to her straight on her face and let her know the harsh truth.Meanwile I will take Ovi out somewhere nice n calm place (ask Arjun n DK to come there after some time) , Start with talking about her childhood days,some good interesting memories (excluding Arjun),make her talk a bit more and then slowly tell her the side-affects of blind one-sided love. Once Arjun/DK arrive,will ask Arjun to tell straight on her face.Ovi will of course scream but being her father ,I would have to handle it.If things goes out of control take her to the hospital ,sedate her and make her sleep for a while.

Get instructions from doc,next day before she boards flight give her another dose.I would in fact send also Sachu with them to be with Ovi 24 hrs and take care of her and give her medications in time if anything suggested.Also contact some top medical folks in Canada and give contact details to Sachu to take her there if needed.

Meanwhile back here ,I will let Archu know that not to force Purvi over me and even though I care for Purvi cant accept Purvi as my daughter right now due to situation.I am not against Purvi and I wish the best for her and her wedding but I just cant come there due to circumstance.I will also sit with Purvi and let her know the situation and make her understand that she needs to stop chanting the Baba jap and move on with her life with Arjun and take care of her Aai.As a well-wisher I will always be there to help her in case of need but will ask her to move on n focus on her life and ask her to take care of her Aai.

Thats what I think I will try to do if I was Manav here..Sorry for the long post though😆

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Arjunaluis, I was thinking that too :) finally the truth has sunk in and that is why Ovi attempted to kill herself, that happened only because Archana told her straight to her face and showed her the invitation. That or the girl is too clever and trying this new ploy to get her mother to change her mind. Either way, Archana needed to put the truth boldly to Ovi,, that is her duty as a mother, tough love.

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

@ xodramalover : hahaha me writer of PR ah I would have so changed the landscape of it...😆...Thanks dear for the compliment..

@Arjunalis dear ,again wonderful points re..You sense each character reactions really well re..Kudos to you and thank you re for the compliment..😆