If you were Archana what would you do?

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sherma

@sherma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

i wld not support arjun to be my SIL,for either of my daughters,how much evrer my daughter luvs him or he luvs her,dis reason wld be enough he 2 timed bth my daughters,

unless my daughter(purvi)is pregnant wid arjun child or arvi are already married,but its not the case

but nw wen arch agreed for arvi marriage,she shld tke care of ovi feeling too,tat doesnt means cancel arvi marriage,but just delay it.

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Neeti

@hARSHA_Neeti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: cocololo123
If you were Archana what would you do?
As we all know that Ovi asked Archana to give Arjun to her and she would give her "family rights"
Today we all say that Archana brought Manavs family purvi and arjuns wedding card to tell ovi her decision. We all agree this wasn't the best way to tell ovi, so my question to all is how have told ovi?
please no bashing Archana or anyone character on this show. I just want to know if you were in Archana position and you daughter asked you what ovi asked her mother what would you do?

well i think Archu selectd d most crisp & compact way to tell ovi her decision...

i know it was rude , but d way Ovi placed her demand was also not correct... it was complete bargain of love which ovi tried to do...

& to a gal like Ovi , if u tell her something sensible she's not able to follow it, i think either she has sum prblm in "hearing" or "understanding".
Coz it has been 100 tyms Arjun himself & others as well ahve told her dat Arjun loves purvi yet she doesnt understand dis line @ all.

So to such gals who r so stubborn, it is ryt to directly(though lil harshly) yet it shud be a direct & straight 4ward way to tell ur decision...
& Archu did exactly same... So i wud do d same if i wud have been in her position...

coz if u try explainig ovi, its futile, or if u personally tell her ur decision she wud definetly create more drama & crap... so it was wise of Archu giving her descision thru marriage card.

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sushkita10

@sushkita10

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: naava

But Ovi did not try to committ suicide...arm cutting is very much in the forefront these days and is done as a way to alleviate the intensitiy of the emotional pain, not to kill oneself. I think Ovi's pain was two fold...one for losing Arjun, but the other, in her deepest child's soul, she wanted her mother Archana to rescue her...and when Archu could not, (and i said could not, not would not) Ovi couldn't bear the pain of losing both again. She asked something no mother could ever give you, forcing a man who didn't love you to abandon his to be wife and marry her), but still, she's not in her right senses so in her convaluted way, thought maybe Archana would do it since she knows deep down how much her mother loves' her.

These children are so so messed up from Manav and Savita's hate teaching and depriving the children of their mother and then blaming it on the mother...From SAvita on down they need help...not just Ovi.

naava ur post is absolutely👏👏👏i like ur post.u told my thought

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Safiqa

@saf2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

If I were Archana, I would have supported Arjun-Purvi and that's because they both truly love each other...whereas Ovi's love is one-sided...and also Arjun would never have agreed to marry Ovi just because I (as Archana) told him so...(don't know about Purvi, though)

I would not have send the invitation card to the D's...I know Archana didn't have any wrong intentions but it seemed rude at that time...I would have just told Ovi about my decision...like Archana said Ovi was striking a deal with her and even if Archu would have supported her, what was the guarantee that the others will accept Archu??? 18 years of your life cannot just be forgotten...

By the way, I didn't get it why did Ovi tried to commit suicide without locking the doors or windows, ...anyone could have easily gotten in and saw her doing it and that too in the kitchen where people are usually always supposed to be around ...😕

But Shruti and Anki acted really well yesterday...👏 for them...!!!

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Ashlaika

@Ashlaika

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Read all the posts... and I dont want to comment on what I would do in Archu's place. I don't even want to imagine being there.

Naava, Janhvi, Jai, Arjunalis (I think I got that right) - enjoyed reading ur posts.

Also, Im with the few who thinks Archu did right thing by telling everyone at once. If she had told Ovi alone and had the same reaction... what then? They would have probably told her "WHY are you talking to Ovi alone?" You do and ure damned and you dont and youre damned as well. So...

However, this is for Jai - I really don't want u to pluck Archu from PR... she would be too old for u hun 😆. AND... Ull never own her heart cause it would always belong to Manav. Find a girl who will only be URS! 😉.

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

I would never like to take all bakwas of savita. Of course Supporting arjun-purvi is my first priority as they both deserve each other. I would never like to tolerate unwanted crap of deshmukh as I m living there coz of court order so indirectly I m doing favor to them.

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Safiqa

@saf2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Ashlaika
Read all the posts... and I dont want to comment on what I would do in Archu's place. I don't even want to imagine being there.

Naava, Janhvi, Jai, Arjunalis (I think I got that right) - enjoyed reading ur posts.

Also, Im with the few who thinks Archu did right thing by telling everyone at once. If she had told Ovi alone and had the same reaction... what then? They would have probably told her "WHY are you talking to Ovi alone?" You do and ure damned and you dont and youre damned as well. So...

However, this is for Jai - I really don't want u to pluck Archu from PR... she would be too old for u hun 😆. AND... Ull never own her heart cause it would always belong to Manav. Find a girl who will only be URS! 😉.

@bold - possibly you're right...Archu is like doomed ...Ovi would have talked rudely with her anyway...it's very harsh for a mother...but still considering Ovi's situation, it did seem rude of Archu at that time to me...

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Ashlaika
Read all the posts... and I dont want to comment on what I would do in Archu's place. I don't even want to imagine being there.

Naava, Janhvi, Jai, Arjunalis (I think I got that right) - enjoyed reading ur posts.

Also, Im with the few who thinks Archu did right thing by telling everyone at once. If she had told Ovi alone and had the same reaction... what then? They would have probably told her "WHY are you talking to Ovi alone?" You do and ure damned and you dont and youre damned as well. So...

However, this is for Jai - I really don't want u to pluck Archu from PR... she would be too old for u hun 😆. AND... Ull never own her heart cause it would always belong to Manav. Find a girl who will only be URS! 😉.

@ bold...yes i think tht's what would have happened...and you r right ..archana can never do the right thing ..

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Jaishankar

@Jaishankar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Thank you Naava dear for such wonderful compliments..you are a sweet heart dear and your analysis was perfect especially on Ovi dear 😛.

@Shyamala dear thank u re..yeah Its a tough balancing act and I would not want to be in Manav's shoes,in fact I wish that no one gets to be in a situation like Arman..Feel so so so bad for them and their kids..

@Ash...hahahhaha well Ash age does not matter when it comes to Archu...so I can manage on that..

But so true Archu is only for Manav and no one else..😆

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Julie

@JulieD

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

First of all, I agree with Archana's decision of not agreeing to Ovi's demands. She knew it was wrong and that Ovi's love is one-sided as Arjun does not love her. So WHY then can't she also use that analysis when it comes to Sachin's demands? Couldn't she also say no to him and let him know that he cannot force Manav to love Shrawani and make such a demand? Why is she sacrificing her own flesh and blood children's happiness? That whole rubbish fake crying crap she gave to purvi yesterday about how her daughters hate her, etc. Archana it is YOUR OWN FAULT that they hate you because despite your great sanskaars, you apparently were never taught HONESTY.

It really irritates me when she tries to make it sound as though Manav cannot accept her or her daughters hate her despite all she is doing and trying when at the end of the day, she is divorcing Manav and wants Alimony. What does she expect them to do or think or feel?

So please Archana, speak the truth or shut the hell up!!!!!!

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