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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Between the Arman scene today was well Archu was behaving like Anki and Manav like Sush !!! 😆

Jai Shankar I am SO happy to see u replying today in my commentary . This comment of urs was made by a very dear friend of mine ...........HOPE . I had agreed instantly and on Monday Im gonna bring it up in my commentary . Coz NO ONE behaves like this in lower middle class Marathi culture on a chawl terrace .Its not Archu Manavs sober characters we see but Ankita Sushant . I cud NOT bring up this point coz My commentary was focussed on Manav today .

I am very glad Ajit is gonna clear his name ........Ajit will bring Dharmus Sachaai out .

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Jaishankar
And also kools the way she was scared after hitting Archu in a rage when Manav was asking "so u hit Archana " was kind of sad to watch. Really shows she is sick and needs help. I know Manav understands his mom is sick but he also needs to understand that coz of her sickness she is behaving in a weird way and instead of getting angry on her he should take care of her like a child and that is a responsibility of a son.

Thats what angered me too ...........cudnt he SEE how unnaturally SCARED she was ? Is she the TYPE to be scared this way ? Archana sensed it , but Manav didnt ?

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112642

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

i havent watched the episode yet, but read Tanyaz wonderfully detailed update.

i am ANGRY at manav. he is mad that his mom cant accept archana. but HAS he DONE anything to put archana in a postive light? no. he has FLUNG archana's goodness (which does more harm) in SAVITA's face.

BUT my question is savita's accepting of archana going to MAKE everything ALRIGHT?? is manav's love for his mom DEPENDENT of her acceptance of archana??? if then WHAT kind of LOVE is that???

i am deeply hurt, angry and upset at cvs for showing manav in such a cheap light. LOVE shouldnt be dependent on ANYTHING. it should be FREELY given.

manav forgot that when archana LEFT him, his MOM stood by him. he FORGOT that she nutured him and LOVED him when NO ONE else would.

tommorow, if savita and archana have a disagreement what WILL manav do? say he wont LOOK at her FACE till she agrees with archana? WHAT TOXIC LOVE.

its teenage BEHAVIOR at its best, and INSOLENCE on manav's part for taking his mom's LOVE for granted.

MANAV is so HYPCRITICAL.i am angry at baap- beta for thinking that 2 year old relation is MORE important than 30 year old relation.

damodar: this woman STUCK by you; seeing him at his worst. HOW can he favor archana over HER?? no matter how "good and sanskaari" archana is, the least he can do is be neutral.

manav: YOUR MOM's relation with archana is BETWEEN them. protect your wife WHEN SHE NEEDS it, but DONT interfere between bahu-saas.

your mother HAS gone through the worst thing a woman can ever go through: she BURIED HER SON. No mother wants to do that. that kind of HURT and PAIN takes TIME to heal. HE cannot FORCE his mom to heal and accept archana like he accepted the K-KLAN. NOT DONE.

the worst, manav LIED to injustify the SLAP.

CVs. stop disrespecting the bond between mother and son. it shouldnt be held down by anything else.

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sowmya

@Not_a_fan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

I have tried to write my opinion on this episode for sometime, but I end up deleting it coz I dont want to be offensive. So I will only say that when a mother's heart aches, it does not bode well for the child. A mother protects her child even before it is born and that is the strongest protection ever, and if you lose that protection and bond, the mother will suffer the most, but the child will suffer as well. Looks like Savita is forgetting everything and will probably not know or understand things very soon, but Manav will know and understand and that is when he is going to suffer.

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112642

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

PS:Between the Arman scene today was well Archu was behaving like Anki and Manav like Sush !!!

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as much as i love arman and sushita, heir romance scenes leave me uneasy its not Archana and Manav.. they get morphed and doesnt come across as genuine..

plus middle class people DONT behave like that...

their hugs and kisses outside in the terrace is not done at all, and their feeding each other is against their shy characters

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Jaishankar

@Jaishankar

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#26

One thing is for sure when Manav finds out about his mom sickness he is going to break totally and I think Archu is the need of the hour for support he is totally going to be lost and feeling so guilty he is going to be in so much pain!!!Damn so very emotinal epis are going come up thats going to being the best of Sushita and savita!!!

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
........... Which people did she swallow ?
1. She swallowed Shravani because Shravani's family could bring wealth. Then when that failed, she consumed her to the point that she manipulated her to give up her son.
2. She consumed Sachu because of greed ...she didn't want him for his benefit, that she could teach him and raise him better,....only because of her selfishness
3. She constantly tries to consume Manav, wanting him only for herself
4. She consumes to this day Sachin, using his death as a manipulative tool ..trying to make everyone feel " sorry for her".. Damodar also lost a son, Manav lost a brother, but only Savita is allowed the grief.
5. I think her real beef with Archana is that she can't swallow her. (in addition to her insane jealousy)
6 Savita;s greed for people is that she wants everything for herself..it's her way of control..she doesn't want them for their happiness...only her own.

Savita and Damodar -the D house - exhibit all the symptoms of severe alcholic households. It is indeed sick by any standard. Children of these households are taught directly or indirectly they are the cause. This isn't sick? Blaming someone else is always the name of the game in this type of dynamic.

....her son Sachin died due to the machinations of the Karanjkar Bahu .
Sachin died because a car ran into him as he was running down the middle of the street. It was Shravani's father who had rejected him. It was not Achana's fault.

While fair and unfair may be subjective in some cases, how can it ever be fair to blame the victim of someones greed and anger to be the cause of it.

Sorry Kools, i love ya' and i know we always disagree on Savita, but i had to say something. Hope you will welcome the dialogue. You speak strongly, i hope you welcome my strong words also- i say them in love :) We do agree on many things ...but like always, on this issue,...agreeing to disagree is the best solution for us. 😊 ps. we do better with food and recipes maybe.😉 🤗

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bips

@bips

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#28

^^ naava,

My views :-

1. Sachin died because of his own foolishness. He was drunk, and run over by a car. We all face disappointments but don't get drunk and wander around recklessly. The situation was because of Manju but how he responded to it was his own action. Had he had a car, he could have killed someone because he was drunk and reckless

2. Savita hasn't "swallowed" anyone. How can you dispute the fact that she loves her son. Is she greedy ? ..... Yes, Is she selfish ? Yes ..... But does she love her sons above everything else ? YES

3. She didn't use sachin for her benefit . In case people are turning him to a saint, let me remind you that he himself was not exactly an outstanding honest citizen. He initially flirted with shraavani for money only. Its much later that he fell in love with her

4. She has always, ALWAYS defended manav in front of everyone. She is the ONLY one who has never doubted him. What irritates me most is that manav is uber cold towards her. Fine, he feels she wronged him/ archu. But shouldn't that standard hold for his pyaari saalis, that have insulted archu darling again and again and again

5. Damodar and manav lost too, but do we as viewers ever see them grieving sachin ? We feel "sorry for her" because she is the only one who is shown grieving sachin. We never see anyone else remembering him or giving a damn about his 'aakhri nishaani

6. i won't dispute about shraavani. She was ill treated and used by pretty much everyone

............ What i hated about today's episode was Manav's absolutely chilly tone. I would have preferred had he yelled and gotton angry. This was a tone which one uses with a person they don't give a damn about. And his 'i'm not your son anymore' was just callous and cruel

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Mandy

@mandy0310

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#29

Damodar is disappointing, he has seen that something is not right with Savita and should focus on finding out the problem instead of getting mad.

It was great seeing Varsha working and happy, I am glad she took the job instead of sitting at home depressed.

Vaishali, if she has no problem with the truth coming out now then she needs to expose Dharmesh once and for all. Enough of hiding and feeling suffocated around him, tarnish his reputation and hold your head up high. He is the one who should feel ashamed and have people talking about him, not Vaishali.

Manav, it isn't that he doesn't care about his mother or isn't concerned about her health because he is but it hurts him when Savita calls Archana names and insults her repeatedly. Manav has tried to reach out to Savita but she doesn't try to meet him halfway, it is always about her. She is too selfish and consumed of hate to see anything but what she wants, what she needs. What about what Manav wants? What makes Manav happy?

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unknown18

@unknown18

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

Kool, agree with u.

The SON Manav died today.

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