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Kools reporting from base : Savita Slaps Archana in PR . Saturdays r my busiest days . So I will only give my comments today , by coming straight to the point coz I believe CVS read the commentary . And since all sympathy is gonna go to ARMAN today I wish to make MY controversial view point to be known . No humour today coz episode is intense in last scene . I will go STRAIGHT to last scene only . Fantastic acting between Mother and son . Hats off to Sushant Rajput and Usha Nadkarni .........the scene ANGERED and PAINED me . I request Manav fans to forgive me in advance today coz what I have to say for this character called Manav has to be said , as I believe in speaking my mind . .
Manav felt ANGER and PAIN to see Archana slapped .........it was in his question TUNE ARCHANA PE HAATH UTHAYA . A calm , cold , pained , contemptuous question to his nervous , dithering mom . The slap was given NOT in hatred for ARCHANA PERSONALLY but to the remark SOMETHING MAY HAVE HAPPENED TO SACHU . The Slap was to THAT POSSIBILITY . Something happened to Sachin her son ..........but NOTHING will happen to THIS SACHU was the crazed woman's GRIEF that came out in the form of that SLAP . One Sachu I lost but second Sachu I CANNOT EVEN BEAR THE THOUGHT OF LOSING HIM was that SLAP . Archana was NOT even in Savita's mind when she slapped her ..........she wud have slapped ANYONE who wud have said that LITTLE SACHU MAY HAVE BEEN KIDNAPPED OR LITTLE SACHU MAY HAVE DIED .
Whatever Savita told Manav later ........that I wudn't HAVE SLAPPED U was not true . She lied to hold on to him . It was PATHETICALLY PAINFUL , that lie that she uttered to appease her son . Its SAchin all the way ...........Sachin who DIED , Sachin whom she sees in Little Sachu and Sachin whom she now hangs on to in the form of her LIVING ONLY SON Manav . Savita wud have slapped even Damodar for uttering possibilities that Little Sachu cud DIE Or be Kidnapped or LOST TO HER FOREVER .
The answers given to the cold, systematic queries of Manav were the frightened ditherings of the tremendous insecurity created in her tired old mind by TWO MEN who were HERS once ..........DAMODAR and MANAV . ARCHANA HATES ME AND IS JEALOUS OF ME . Why ? Why has this fact sunk in that tired old brain ? Coz these two Men CONSISTENTLY praised Archana to the skies and told her SHE IS BETTER THAN U . U HAVE TO SIT AT HER FEET AND DRINK THE WATER .
It brings forth HATE that kind of GOADING . Baap BETA did it in plenty ...........Beta did it AFTER marraige . So it HURT MORE . She tried telling something to Damodar today morning but Damodar DIDN"T LISTEN . He dismissed her off as PAGAL .
Beta who has become BUSINESSMAN in TRUE SENSE now gave a cold calculated answer to his emotional wife yesterday . You see guys the Wife , foolish though she is , is not a bad person AT ALL . Very emotional at heart and has the capacity to SENSE PAIN . Also has the capacity to be FAIR in her mind ..........remember how she insisted Shravani's baby shud be given to HER ONLY when Savita had said U two get married and look after Sachu . The WIFE is NOT a business woman YET . BETA has become PAKKA businessman though IT SEEMS . He said LETS NOT RAISE HER EXPECTATIONS , HUH ?And OPTED OUT of going to the alternate night dinner . Beta did NOT bother to INFORM her well in advance though . She cooked EVERYTHING like a pagal for him . And waited with a Pagal expression on her face . And when he did not come , did PAGAL talks with her grandson .......U DO MANTRA TANTRA on KAKI coz she takes all people AWAY from me . Ever since she has come in my life , I LOST PEOPLE . Two years back I had EVERYTHING . Now I have ONLY U .
With a half crazed look in her eyes the old lady talked ALL DAY to the little chap , not really understanding that the little fellow did NOT understand anything she said . She fed him , bathed him , and took him shopping and talked to him all day and when her tired Brain went BLANK coz nowdays she BLOCKED a lot of her Mental Pain silently by swallowing it , she FORGOT him and LOST him .
The BETA laughed contemptuously and coldly at his mom and told his WIFE in front of the woman ..........YOU KNOW ARCHANA , THIS WOMAN .......MY MOTHER LOSES EVERYTHING COZ SHE DOESN"T ALLOW ANYONE NEAR HER . SHE LOST SACHIN , LITTLE SACHU and DROVE ME AWAY TOO . MOM do me a favor .........GO . I am nOT UR BETA from now on .
That KILLED the old woman . She was CRACKING but somehow till then she was glueing the pieces with effort , now she completely CRUMBLED . Coz what the BETA did was he told a woman who had borne immense PAIN of a dead son .........THAT UR RESPONSIBLE for all these 3 losses .
It was CRUEL . It was twisting a knife in a mental wound so deep , so festered , that the STUPID BETA did not even know how DEEP he twisted it .
Archana's sufferings have often been compared to Savita's on this forum . But yesterday someone made a very accurate remark .............For the mistakes Archana did [ like walking out on Manav] we can say Archana was PUNISHED ENOUGH . Things became better for Archana eventually . But we can NEVER say Savita was PUNISHED ENOUGH coz Sachin is NEVER gona comeback . Things can NEVER be better .........her punishment and grief r both ETERNAL in nature .
Savita was right . Archana HAS come between her and Manav after all ...........but its not ARCHANA who has done it . Its MANAV who has brought Archana between them . Archana is blameless .
He returned tonite after hearing the convo between his mother and Sachu coz ARCHANA was criticized .
He coldly cut off relations forever today coz his mom slapped Archana , not him .
He constantly tells his mom its thru ARCHANA i will keep relations with u and She cries out silently KEEP THEM WITH ME INDEPENDENTLY LIKE BEFORE . She was not there when u were in my tummy for nine months ...it was just the two of us . And thats the way it shud always be SON .
She would have eventually accepted Archana as she loves her son far too much . But BEFORE accepting her she wanted ASSURANCE that relations between herself and her son were INDEPENDENT by themselves , UNINFLUENCED by the CHANGES in his life POST MARRAIGE .......namely the WIFE .
But the son , NOT known for his sensitivity , did not understand what his mother wanted . Like a BUSINESSMAN he insisted on SELLING A PACKAGE DEAL and later decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH and THAT HER EXPECTATIONS NEEDN"T BE RAISED .
Today he twisted the knife FURTHER by bitterly commenting that he brouht SACHU home with HAQ as a KAKA . I forgot I don't Have the HAQ he said ith a bitter smile , laying GUILT on his broken mom . There was no one there to ask the son REALLY ? Didn't SEE u going EVER to inquire after him EVER SINCE u REMARRIED , so u ACTUALLY REMEMBER u have a nephew and u have so called HAQS ? Oh WOW !!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thought u were too busy EXERCISING the HAQS of a JEEJOO !
Maybe the two HAQS overlapped ? Hmmmm ? But GOOD that u remembered u had a HAQ ! OMG !
Ideally Vandu shud have said this to DADA Manav . I read a comment somewhere saying SHAME ON VANDU for not taking cognizance of Savita's problem . Was confused . WHY ? The poor girl is battling with her own problems caused by her dear brother's OVER INVOLVEMENT with his SAALI 's problem ........rumors r RIFE in society that her BROTHER is having a dirty AFFAIR on the SLY with his own SAALI . She is fighting those rumors and tackling her HEAD EATING SAAS . Like a normal Indian girl she visits Maaika occasionally only to visit her mother and has no idea of these recent developments . Last time her STUBBORN brother ORDERED her to take care of the SAALI and went with WIFE to see his mom when she immediately wanted to go . She does not visit Maaika ALL THE TIME like the KARANJKAR SISTERS . Why blame her ?
Can we please see DAMODAR redeemed from CHAMCHA sasur to PROTECTIVE Husband and giving MANAV a HARD , HARD SLAP ? For driving Savita over the EDGE ? And admitting HIS role in the mistake ? I LOVED Damodar once u know .
So much the Slap to Archana hit Manav where it hurts ! The Mom was THROWN out of his life forever ! But The dialogue to Sulochana who slapped him THRICE was I DON"T WANNA LOSE U !
But thats coz he doesn't mind being slapped HIMSELF ! He DOES mind when someone slaps ARCHANA though say the viewers . AH ! Such LOVE ! 👏👏👏👏
Then shouldn't the SAME ANGER be shown towards Archana's sisters too ? Coz they both treated Archana shamefully ! Not just Manav mind u , they have disrespected Archana as an elder sister many many times ! But I see Manav RUSHING to envelop them in his arms and FORGIVING them !
Today BETA MANAV was not ready to give the bank address of his old home even to open an account ! It seems he didn't want his MOM"S obligation or help ! OMG , SUCH SELF RESPECT ! But he didn't mind taking VARSHA"s OBLIGATION of standing GUARANTEE for him ..........Varsha who has insulted him SHAMEFULLY in the past ..........why ???? Coz she is Archana's sister . OMG the BETA feels SICK to take a Mom's reference but doesn't mind the SAAli's reference ? How the SOCH today has changed !
Its like the Mothers give birth to SONS to see them SOLD OFF to HIS SASURAL . The point of the GARLANDING in the ceremony is actually the point where she RELINQUISHES ALL RIGHTS . The bank guarantees for him from then on r his IN LAWS .
I will NOT call him a NALAYAK BETA or a FAALTOO Beta . I will request CVS to show a scene where He goes to meet Savita bit she turns him away or tells people to tell him to GO AWAY . I wud request CVS to show that Savita's anger against Archana TOTALLY GOES coz she realizes who the REAL CULPRIT is . Just like Vaishali has MISPLACED anger on MADHURI not DHARMESH ...........Savita too shud realize her MISPLACED ANGER .
Oh yea .Before I wrap up I want to comment on TWO COMMENTS that caught my interest recently ...........
What has Savita done but HOUSEWORK ? She has NOT made any sacrifices for Manav ! .........I guess our Moms were worthless then coz they were housewives . The immense sacrifices they did , the tireless work they did was NOTHING compared to the working women . Pardon me . Dismissing a mom's job as mere HOUSEWORK was a little difficult to digest but I did it .
Both MOTHERS and MOTHER IN LAWS Shud not be BULLIES . Agreed . But what should we call Archana who was ordering Madhuri to leave Mumbai so that her darling sister should never be able to see her face again ? What was SHE being ? A MOOT question !
Oh BTW I don't blame Archana for raising her voice at all . It was NOT petty yelling like Varsha does , she told the woman a simple truth , thats all . Kudos to Archana .
Kools signing off late today . Don't tell me I didn't warn u guys , my comments r CONTROVERSIAL today .Don't expect ANYONE to agree with me .😊😊😊
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