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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: sunheri

All Manav had to do was call his Aie immediately and tell them that Archana found sachin and we will bring him in an hour ....any adult would do this ...its common sense.Instead of accepting his fault he lays a guilt trip on her ...or Archana she should have told or she would have called to let savita know that she found sachin in the market ...I think savita was right in slapping her and she should slapped manav too!!!!

The most laughable part was Manav talking about his HAQS as a KAKA ! Did he even remember little Sachu ?He was nowdays dancing only with his saalis and showing this thirty two white teeth all the time .
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Umi .........the CV BLOOPER of butchering Manav's character was also done during sindoor scene and engagement scene . Im just so SAD today , telling his mom to GO like that . His success , his goodness , nothing will make me happy anymore .



Di, He didnt shout at her like the last visit(when savita had thrown food).
He wasn't anger at all. He is so feeling lost that his wish of making his mother understand their plight,archu's nature and going back to deshmukh house all was at stake.
He too showed his dejectedness in all this. They are situations when children get anger with their parents attitude and Behaviour. Out of anger we would say why did you do this,Y cant understand mom when someone else is able to. He too is human prone to mistakes.
Di, dont think he cut his relationship just because archu got slapped.It was not the case. He felt lost that nothing could make his wife and mom to be together.Thats why he behaved like that.

Surely when hears about his mother''s problem ,he will be at home at that minute. And we will surely see ARMAN making it for the faults done or make it for the bad happened due to their Kismat.

Surely we will feel happy by seeing Deshmukhs comfortable and Happy.

Di,a request.Please do insist in your commentary about wish to see happy Deshmukh family scene. And I dont want sav to forget evreything and then make it up with archu.
with her eyes opened,as she is always,I wish to see things getting better.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: umayal



Di, He didnt shout at her like the last visit(when savita had thrown food).
He wasn't anger at all. He is so feeling lost that his wish of making his mother understand their plight,archu's nature and going back to deshmukh house all was at stake.
He too showed his dejectedness in all this. They are situations when children get anger with their parents attitude and Behaviour. Out of anger we would say why did you do this,Y cant understand mom when someone else is able to. He too is human prone to mistakes.
Di, dont think he cut his relationship just because archu got slapped.It was not the case. He felt lost that nothing could make his wife and mom to be together.Thats why he behaved like that.

Surely when hears about his mother''s problem ,he will be at home at that minute. And we will surely see ARMAN making it for the faults done or make it for the bad happened due to their Kismat.

Surely we will feel happy by seeing Deshmukhs comfortable and Happy.

Di,a request.Please do insist in your commentary about wish to see happy Deshmukh family scene. And I dont want sav to forget evreything and then make it up with archu.
with her eyes opened,as she is always,I wish to see things getting better.

Umi dear thats the ONLY part where I wud differ with u . It indeed was ANGER ..........it was cold fury at the fact that his mom had slapped his darling Archana .
When Manav gets angry with HIS OWN .........its cold fury . See how he walked out when Archana told him she wanted to work .
The cold fury led to the BITTER CONTEMPTUOUS talks .
Darling I have cONSTANTLy requested to show happiness of Deshmukhs . They are only focussing on Karanjkars .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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You know, I did not watch the episode back when the Kaka was alive, but I heard he used to really scold Savita. For the type of person he is, in this matter would he support Savita for what she's going through or would he have supported Damodar for humiliating Savita?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox

You know, I did not watch the episode back when the Kaka was alive, but I heard he used to really scold Savita. For the type of person he is, in this matter would he support Savita for what she's going through or would he have supported Damodar for humiliating Savita?

He wud scold Savita for her mistakes but he was sensitive and fair too . He wud have notivced the scared confused look on her face .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Folks,

Feel bad for Savita. Damn that dumb Damo cant he see that his wife is acting not nornal for once instead of blaming why doesn't he do something about it !!!!
Besides Sachu is really cute!!!😃 The way she is longing for her son it was really sad . I sometime feel even though Savita is behaving really bad against Archu its just major mis understanding and will sort out soon and after all she is a Mother and no mother can wish against a son's happiness even though her son happiness is Archu ,she knows it but she is not able to accept it even though I think in her inner heart she has accepted her. I think the major think that pisses Savita about Archu is her Mahantha which she hates. I think she believes its her natak and she is faking it.
I think these are things that would get healed as time goes by and when Manav starts spending some time with his mom and ad instead of his sasural. I am so pissed the way sometimes Manav is like spending more time in K's house than his and ARchu has to remind him of going to his mom that is so stupid. Its like Manav has lost his thinking process and surrendered to Archu , I might be wrong but its not been rightly shown.
And now a days he is more focussed on Vaishu and Varshu (Well paradox for all the hammering's they have thrown aginst him he can forgive them in a just quite amazing,well its ok to shown Manav as Mahan but cant Manav been shown having some self respect ,all this anger comes only against him mom but nothing against K's. ) and has amazingly forgot that he has his sis named Vandu. He has not even inquired how she is !!! Well its good that he is supporting Vaishu through tough times as she needs it but I think he needs to also check on his sis as well.
Savita may be blunt but I think she ebbs out everything and keeps nothing in her heart.In spite of her dis liking K;s she went and saw Sulo when she was unwell and actually brought a smile in Sulo face and amazingly the K's never invited her to the pooja nor did Mahan Manav.
Now a days Manav attitude towards his mom is not great whatever or how ever she may be she is ur mom and its ur duty to take care of her which I dont think he is doing. Some one has to remind him that he has mother and he needs to go and see her(I feel even Sush wont be too pleased with way his role model Manav is being depicted towards his mom ).Its quite amazing that what Sulo sees that something might be wrong with Savita is not seen by Manav. He is only getting angry for savita blasting Archu but never for once realizing that his mom is acting strangely. A son should be knowing his mom more that any one else and here its not the case.
So I think Manav now needs to really show his responsibly of being a son and take care of Savita . .It might take time but Savita I feel has accepted Archu in her heart but she does not want to show it. Hopefully Manav would do something for once without listening to others for his mom!!!

PS:Between the Arman scene today was well Archu was behaving like Anki and Manav like Sush !!! 😆
Edited by Jaishankar - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i haven't watched the epi yet but read the WU's and commentaries... it looks like an interesting one to watch.

...but i continue to be perplexed. Perplexed at most of the comments not the show. I think the CV's are doing a good job of showing the dysfunctions of a household where there is mental illness and abuse. I think Manav is doing his best to deal with a sick situation. He has had no role models to know how to, or to recognize the extent of the illness but gets pulled right into it. This happens in alcoholic and abusive families and other situations of illness. I can see why he is attracted to the K's...even with their problems, Manoar and Sulo present a united couple, and Manoar's love for Manav doesn't go unnoticed. Manav was raised by two very dysfunctional and sick parents...Savita is ill period...but definitely not because of Manav. Her greed expanded from gold to people and her manipulation of everyone around her should not be patronized. Yes, one can feel sorry for her but to blame the son who has tried so hard as the cause of her illness is totally unfair

No one is more supportive of honoring parents or traditional values of family structure than i am, but tough love sometimes does more in the end. Allowing and condoning abusive behavior will NEVER change or correct the problem, it only exacerbates it.. I say kudos to both archu and manav for trying to deal with it in the best way they know how.

Sachu, as we all noted earlier, should never be in this household anyway...shame on Shravani for giving him to Savita, and shame on Savita for stealing and coercing Shravani to give him to her. I hope in the end Shravani will return to rescue her child. (this new baby is adorable)

I hope Vaishali means what she says and now is willing to say the truth...it's time.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Manav was raised by two very dysfunctional and sick parents...Savita is ill period...but definitely not because of Manav. Her greed expanded from gold to people and her manipulation of everyone around her should not be patronized. Yes, one can feel sorry for her but to blame the son who has tried so hard as the cause of her illness is totally unfair

Manavs parents may be dysfunctional but r in no way SICK . . They r quite normal . The chawl is replete with SUCH families only . Chawl culture is being shown and chawl culture is SUCH only 75 % of the time . . The greed has NOT expanded from gold to people . The grief she experienced has NOT gone away and never will . Which people did she swallow ? Her anger is ONLY at ONE person ................not PEOPLE . Thats Archana . However lovabl she may seem to Archu fans , Archana has come with a COSTLY baggage ..............her hypocritical family .
I see Savita often manipulated by Damodar , she is a MOST transparent character . Manipulators r like Rasika .........they manipulate quietly .Neither has she pretended to like Archana nor did she use the secrets of Archana's sister to get back at Archanas mother or the haughty sister .
So u see , no one is patronizing ANY ONE here or blaming unfairly .
Fair Unfair is subjective concept after all . In my eyes Savita is a sorry victim . Her mental state is not self made ...........her son Sachin died due to the machinations of the Karanjkar Bahu . The impact was very severe .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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And also kools the way she was scared after hitting Archu in a rage when Manav was asking "so u hit Archana " was kind of sad to watch. Really shows she is sick and needs help. I know Manav understands his mom is sick but he also needs to understand that coz of her sickness she is behaving in a weird way and instead of getting angry on her he should take care of her like a child and that is a responsibility of a son.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Between the Arman scene today was well Archu was behaving like Anki and Manav like Sush !!! 😆

Jai Shankar I am SO happy to see u replying today in my commentary . This comment of urs was made by a very dear friend of mine ...........HOPE . I had agreed instantly and on Monday Im gonna bring it up in my commentary . Coz NO ONE behaves like this in lower middle class Marathi culture on a chawl terrace .Its not Archu Manavs sober characters we see but Ankita Sushant . I cud NOT bring up this point coz My commentary was focussed on Manav today .

I am very glad Ajit is gonna clear his name ........Ajit will bring Dharmus Sachaai out .


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