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Posted: 15 years ago
#81
Most of the women would take Savita's after her sons death . their sympathies would be with deshmukh's family . so Savita's transformation was accepted by the viewers .

Archu was also a like-able character , but the protest is as the manhanta is going over the broad .

Shavani needs a friend , who would help her see the realty & what mess she got herself into . Savita is cunning , she is playing with the vulnerability of her ex-dil and her so called future dil.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I guess she WILL become a MISTRESS after she makes physical love without the marraige label and since currently she has NOT done it exactly , she isn't ? So the making of love with eyes full day long doesn't count , sticking wet to each other in umbrella doesnt count neither does sleeping with head on chest . Pardon me for wrong choice of words . I always believed it was the THOUGHT that counts

Thought counts very much but only if they are impure thoughts. And I don't think when they are looking at each other they are going through impure thoughts in their heads.

............and running after a man who threw u out and is still not commiting in a sINGLE word , was pretty pretty shameful wasnt it .

It didn't look like Manav threw Archana out on the day of divorce or on the day of Manav-Shravani wedding. Both times it was Archana who voluntarily walked out and stayed away.

Arien suffering is due to BAD KARMA . And we see Archana suffering just like Shravni. To date we have NOT seen her totally happy . Her state of denial when she came from Bangalore was hardly happiness .Giving up ur marraige coz ur pati is on a spree of dumping legal wives and becoming a hero by saving unwed gals was foolish karma which gave her the results..........now stand , watch , pine , and sUFFER .

Archana has looked happy and content since the divorce, don't see her suffering at all coz of her decision of divorce.

Becoming the other woman was HER karma, her own doing. So many people tried to make her see sense.

After seeing Shravani being engaged to Manav and being called DIL of Deshmukh house, after witnessing Manav putting sindoor on Shravani, after knowing that Shravani is in love with Manav and after letting Shravani believe that Manav belongs to her, if Archana had listened to so many people and stayed married to Manav then Archana would be doing wrong. It would be treachery.

FOOLISH KARMA cannot be called good karma at all. When u marry u make promise in front of God. She broke her promise to GOd so her act goes under Bad Karma, not good. That promise has some meaning.

Just because ultimately Archana called for divorce does not make her the only one responsible for divorce. In fact she is not at all responsible for this karma, its Manav, Shravani, Girishji and Savita who actually are responsible for the divorce.

Foolishness is not a laudable trait at all and currently what she is doing, sleeping on Manavs chest when he is engaged to another when she had option of calling his sister, when he is NOT commiting in any way, is again bad karma.

Archana had gone through great deal of trauma after finding Manav lying in his own blood on street, taking him to hospital and getting him treated. She had not slept properly for several days while looking after Manav. She was exhaused and dozed of and ended up with her head on Manav's shoulder. Its not like she was intently sleeping in that position. Archana's karma here is that she is looking after an injured and hurt person and this cannot be a bad karma.

Edited by Arien_03 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#83
the discussion has been goin back and forth and while I have been tempted to join and share my opinions (especially Arien's post) I hesitate becasue no one in this serial is acting rationally and so defending a character's choices are difficult to do based on logic.

In my opinion:

a) I cannot feel anger, hatred or disappointment towards Shravani however bad they show her becasue her actions are in line with a personality - a self absorbed spoilt brattish immature girl. motherhood does not wisen you up overnight. hard knocks in life do. I see beyond shravani's irritating visual traits and in her insecurity, I see her vulnerability. there are many that disagree with me and that is fine.

b) I am disappointed in archana and manav deeply - I think they set bad examples. these are two individuals who from early on in their youth have had to shoulder responsibility and had to be guidance counsellors for their younger siblings. thsi role, this early responsiblity made them mature, thoughtful people who thought before they acted (unliek shravani or varsha or sachin who are very immature and act before they think) YET after all their pondering, all their soul seraching all their maturity they came up with this illogical lame brained lose-lose solution. their attractiona dn lvoe for one another will not allow them to implement the sacrifice they are trying to make. which si human and in my mind understandable. AGAIN INSTEAD OF REALIZING their predicament and the hopelessness of their solution, they persist with the same solution and not only that they express their frustations on bystanders and peopel around them. Unfair I say. Their solution is ruining 4 lives and 3 families. Unfair again I say.

we all have our own point of view. what's important is not which angle we are looking at the problem but the fact that no matter which angle we look from- the solution is wrong. it is a lose-lose solution

If I am to fall in love again with these two characters and defend them again with passion then they must prove worthy of that loyalty. they must act their age. I do not want them toa ct immature or go the other end of the spectrum and act liek senior citizens ready to live their lives as retirees (which is what they are doing now).

they need to decide to reconcile, tell shravani te marriage will not happen and move on. Any other solution is unacceptable.

we can discuss their decisions till the cows come home yet all three of htem will be shortchanged by the current solution.

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Posted: 15 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: Arien_03

I guess she WILL become a MISTRESS after she makes physical love without the marraige label and since currently she has NOT done it exactly , she isn't ? So the making of love with eyes full day long doesn't count , sticking wet to each other in umbrella doesnt count neither does sleeping with head on chest . Pardon me for wrong choice of words . I always believed it was the THOUGHT that counts

Thought counts very much but only if they are impure thoughts. And I don't think when they are looking at each other they are going through impure thoughts in their heads.

............and running after a man who threw u out and is still not commiting in a sINGLE word , was pretty pretty shameful wasnt it .

It didn't look like Manav threw Archana out on the day of divorce or on the day of Manav-Shravani wedding. Both times it was Archana who voluntarily walked out and stayed away.

Arien suffering is due to BAD KARMA . And we see Archana suffering just like Shravni. To date we have NOT seen her totally happy . Her state of denial when she came from Bangalore was hardly happiness .Giving up ur marraige coz ur pati is on a spree of dumping legal wives and becoming a hero by saving unwed gals was foolish karma which gave her the results..........now stand , watch , pine , and sUFFER .

Archana has looked happy and content since the divorce, don't see her suffering at all coz of her decision of divorce.

Becoming the other woman was HER karma, her own doing. So many people tried to make her see sense.

After seeing Shravani being engaged to Manav and being called DIL of Deshmukh house, after witnessing Manav putting sindoor on Shravani, after knowing that Shravani is in love with Manav and after letting Shravani believe that Manav belongs to her, if Archana had listened to so many people and stayed married to Manav then Archana would be doing wrong. It would be treachery.

FOOLISH KARMA cannot be called good karma at all. When u marry u make promise in front of God. She broke her promise to GOd so her act goes under Bad Karma, not good. That promise has some meaning.

Just because ultimately Archana called for divorce does not make her the only one responsible for divorce. In fact she is not at all responsible for this karma, its Manav, Shravani, Girishji and Savita who actually are responsible for the divorce.

Foolishness is not a laudable trait at all and currently what she is doing, sleeping on Manavs chest when he is engaged to another when she had option of calling his sister, when he is NOT commiting in any way, is again bad karma.

Archana had gone through great deal of trauma after finding Manav lying in his own blood on street, taking him to hospital and getting him treated. She had not slept properly for several days while looking after Manav. She was exhaused and dozed of and ended up with her head on Manav's shoulder. Its not like she was intently sleeping in that position. Archana's karma here is that she is looking after an injured and hurt person and this cannot be a bad karma.

Totally disagree with u .Others like Manav , Shravni , Savita etc suffer due to their bad karma and Archna suffers due to others bad karma not her own is ur summary .I absolutely cant buy it , sorry . Everyone else is responsible for Archus fate except Archna herself !😆😆😆😆
Also I dont buy the EXHAUSTION excuse at all .In sleep one understands when one touches a human body .Truth is she enjoys being near him even in her sleep ,If he is not there physically , she hugs his ALBUM which has his photos . She is obviously very STARVED for his company .
She has taken a spate of foolish decisions ....divorcing Manav , calling Shravni back , now by marrying another man for compro [ future track if it happens] .........making EVEN THAT MAN miserable in the bargain by saying I told u first only na. She herself is responsible for her misery just as Manav and Shraavni r responsible for theirs .
As far as the State of contentment of Archu post divorce goes ..............we saw the content look on Shravni Manavs face too when they smiled at each other .Obviously they werent having problems till this girl once more reentered their life and rushed to take charge emotionally as usual by demanding to see Manju , talking of unspoken HAQs , Foo Foo , Shhera , Rain scene What not . Im sorry Arien I agree to disagree here .
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Posted: 15 years ago
#85
Coconut heads😆
Agree thr is no solution to this whole thing.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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mera dimag gol gol ghum raha hai...like this🤔 11th Oct😍
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Slaps wont do the trick for ArMan...hasnt Damo already slapped manav...anything happened?
They need to suffer frm partial amnesia somehow😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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meant to hit quote in earlier post , accidently clicked on'Like'....

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Totally disagree with u .Others like Manav , Shravni , Savita etc suffer due to their bad karma and Archna suffers due to others bad karma not her own is ur summary .I absolutely cant buy it , sorry . Everyone else is responsible for Archus fate except Archna herself !😆😆😆😆
I don't see Archana suffering at all and I made it clear in my earlier post. So according to you Manav is not responsible for divorce even if he gave promise to marry Shravani and got engaged to Shravani, Savita is not responsible for divorce even if she got Manav engaged to Shravani and forced him to put sindoor on Shravani, Shravani is not responsible even if she knows that Archana didn't want divorce and goes ahead with engagement and falls in love with Manav and fighting bitterly for her Haq after she gets engaged to Manav, Girishji is not responsible for divorce even if he pushed for Manav-Shravani engagement and emotionally blackmailed Achana....... All these people should be exempted for their actions which led to divorce and only Archana held responsible for divorce?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Also I dont buy the EXHAUSTION excuse at all .In sleep one understands when one touches a human body .Truth is she enjoys being near him even in her sleep ,If he is not there physically , she hugs his ALBUM which has his photos . She is obviously very STARVED for his company .

When did Archana ever sleep next to Manav before to suggest that she enjoys being near him in her sleep😆.....they used to sleep 6 feet apart on either side of bed even when they were married.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

mera dimag gol gol ghum raha hai...like this🤔 11th Oct😍



what's gonna happen on 11th Oct 😕

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