I guess she WILL become a MISTRESS after she makes physical love without the marraige label and since currently she has NOT done it exactly , she isn't ? So the making of love with eyes full day long doesn't count , sticking wet to each other in umbrella doesnt count neither does sleeping with head on chest . Pardon me for wrong choice of words . I always believed it was the THOUGHT that counts
Thought counts very much but only if they are impure thoughts. And I don't think when they are looking at each other they are going through impure thoughts in their heads.
............and running after a man who threw u out and is still not commiting in a sINGLE word , was pretty pretty shameful wasnt it .
It didn't look like Manav threw Archana out on the day of divorce or on the day of Manav-Shravani wedding. Both times it was Archana who voluntarily walked out and stayed away.
Arien suffering is due to BAD KARMA . And we see Archana suffering just like Shravni. To date we have NOT seen her totally happy . Her state of denial when she came from Bangalore was hardly happiness .Giving up ur marraige coz ur pati is on a spree of dumping legal wives and becoming a hero by saving unwed gals was foolish karma which gave her the results..........now stand , watch , pine , and sUFFER .
Archana has looked happy and content since the divorce, don't see her suffering at all coz of her decision of divorce.
Becoming the other woman was HER karma, her own doing. So many people tried to make her see sense.
After seeing Shravani being engaged to Manav and being called DIL of Deshmukh house, after witnessing Manav putting sindoor on Shravani, after knowing that Shravani is in love with Manav and after letting Shravani believe that Manav belongs to her, if Archana had listened to so many people and stayed married to Manav then Archana would be doing wrong. It would be treachery.
FOOLISH KARMA cannot be called good karma at all. When u marry u make promise in front of God. She broke her promise to GOd so her act goes under Bad Karma, not good. That promise has some meaning.
Just because ultimately Archana called for divorce does not make her the only one responsible for divorce. In fact she is not at all responsible for this karma, its Manav, Shravani, Girishji and Savita who actually are responsible for the divorce.
Foolishness is not a laudable trait at all and currently what she is doing, sleeping on Manavs chest when he is engaged to another when she had option of calling his sister, when he is NOT commiting in any way, is again bad karma.
Archana had gone through great deal of trauma after finding Manav lying in his own blood on street, taking him to hospital and getting him treated. She had not slept properly for several days while looking after Manav. She was exhaused and dozed of and ended up with her head on Manav's shoulder. Its not like she was intently sleeping in that position. Archana's karma here is that she is looking after an injured and hurt person and this cannot be a bad karma.
Edited by Arien_03 - 15 years ago