Is Varsha really over reacting? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Tulsey

You are so right Kool, I had expressed exactly what you have written in my previous post. Varsha has given Satish NOTHING and on top of that Nakrah....

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

What I cant understand is why girls like Varsha get into marraiges in the first place if they dont really want a marraige at all . Even in that Pratigya serial we see the heroine not wanting to consummate her marraige for eternity

Is Marraige a joke or what ?If such girls r not interested , why enter in it at all? They make simple matters so complicated ......I need more time...........Wait Till I come around..........Im not prepared yet ..............these silly girls are nothing but cheap imitations of Western soaps

What is the man supposed to do , wait till these Maharanis come around ?What if the shoe was on the other foot and these girls were made to wait ?At such times these educated females create a ruckus and run around preaching feminist Haqs this and that . But how about taking a good hard look at how unreasonable they themselves behave ?Aakhir Chahti kya hai aisi females ?

Understanding husband , good father in law , an Okay mother in law [ in the not bad category if not good MIL category] wealth , love ............Varsha has got a good deal in life . She shud learn to value it especially after witnessing the debacle of her elder sister . Elder sister is worried due to this reason only .She knows what she has lost and how lucky her younger sis is .And frankly if things worsen and even Varsha goes to maayka , will that poor Vaishu get married ? As it is she wants to marry that fat , rude Marwadi in desperation .

Originally posted by: eshi786

I agree with the fact that Satish has stood by her and she should forget everything for his sake, but even if she forgives BA, there is no guarantee that she won't create more problems for Varsha in the near future. If something comes up, then again she WILL NOT trust Varsha, which will cause even more problems. That way what guarantee is there of ANYTHING in life ? She shud accept the apology to put things behind and not put Satish in a difficult position as he removed her from a difficult position when Ashwin trapped her . When one marries does one have guarantee that the husband will be faithful for life ? Look at Urmi and Ashwin . Yet one marries na? Did Satish have any guarantee that being understanding would bring Varsha around one day ?No , it was perfectly possible that she would continue like this for years together .Yet he did not force himself on her . One accepts apology from a person coz an apology denotes conscience . On a human level it becomes necessary to respond to that conscience by going at least half way . Fine , she cannot forget so easily , I understand, then she shud at least not make such a public issue of it for the peace of her own house and Satish's sake and get along in life coz THAT is hER life NOw , By HER CHOICE.

And did u guys notice BA attitude. I say sorry so accept it dammit. Maafi maang rahi thi ya bheek de rahi thi. 😆 Yes she is an arrogant , egoistic woman . But at the same time itni buri bhi nahi hai . There r worse mother in laws in the world anffor Satishs sake she did accept Varsha although Varsha had been very rude to her unecessarily before marraige.

And please lets not compare Manav's case with this case cuz Ajit planted the evidence against Manav, which is y every1 including Varsha blamed him, but BA had no evidence against Varsha. In addition, deep inside she knows Varsha's character. She knows that Varsha never lies. Remember that time when she said tumhare isi nature ki wajah se main tumhe apni bahu bana rahi hu kyuke tum koi baat dil mein nahi rakti sab saaf kehdeti ho etc. Why not compare Manavs case ? The issue there was of TRUST in jamaai . Manav had saved Manohar's life before marraige , had even told them truth about his education himself before marraige at the risk of getting his own marraige to his dream girl cancelled .........such a guy wud lie so much was accepted in a jiffy by the Karanjkars on the basis of whose word ? That kameena Ajit .........whose first hand experience they themselves had for a long time .They had seen how rotten he was , how he had tried to trap a rich girl in marraige. So what if he showed evidence , didnt they owe it to manav to at least hear his story and check that evidence out ? Ashwin got to her first so she believed his story first as he was an accomplished con man . If Karanjkars cud believe a crude , unbelievable con man like Ajit and a PIMP whom they didnt know from Adam above Manav who saved them time and again , at least Ashwin was a suave conman who camoflauged himself really well .Hell , his own wife fell for it , Bhavna is just a simple elderly woman .

So now what happened? Anyways, the bottom line is even if Varsha forgets everything just for Satish (because thats the reason I think she should forgive her not because she deserves it), then she will come up with sumthing new. BA ke paas tantrums ki kami thodi hai.

On the other hand, if she stays arrogant and stick to her self respect/ ego (b/c she is at borderline), then she will loose Satish cuz in ekta's show sons are mostly with their mother. LOL.

Therefore, dono taraf se haar Varsha ki hi hai, but BA ke tantrums vs. Satish ka saath. What weighs more? 😉 Satish weighs more . Varsha has not married Bhavna , she has married sAtish . This wont affect Bhavnas life , this stand of hers will affect her married life with Satish . The forgiveness shud be given not coz it really is from the heart , but as a practical necessity put everything behind and get on in life , keeping the larger perspective in life as stretching things too far over an issue that has already resolved is sheer foolishness .