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unknown18

@unknown18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#91

oh yes kala tiika for u Kool nd ur MIL!!

well most of the eldest siblings i hav seen nd met are soooo irresponsible, lazy, nd not sensible 😕

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
God bless her . Such a perfect set of mother in law and a duaghter in law .....

No it is not perfect . I have my own faults , she has hers . I am over sensitive , she is short tempered , more so now with age . Too much of perfectionist while I am chalega ok this time this will do type . But since we lived together without option of becoming seperate , we gradually started understanding each other . I stopped judging her or getting impatient with her when I took interest in her as a person and tried to understand her life . Everything had an answer ....her quest for perfection , her strictness , everything . And i realised she was not bad , she had lived a hard life while i had led a pampered one . It wud have been so easy to classify her as bad but she was actually just different . Later I grew to like her . Recently when she came to us she told me ....ur still cooking in large quantities , ur habit of wasting hasnt gone 😆 Wont u ever change ?

And I told her wont u ever ? Still ur cribbing .😆😆 And we both laughed . But she made me reduce quantity next day and I meekly obliged .

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unknown18

@unknown18

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#93

oh so our Hitler uses some shakkar too 😆

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

Trailblazer

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Posted: 15 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

What offends me is the idea that they are showing that marriage can be broken in this manner for an outsider. Marriages are meant to stay together and fight problems together... the marriage shouldn't be broken to solve the problem. If tomorrow, some other thing crops up, will Manav divorce Shravani to marry another girl? NO! Doesn't work this way. If they show them breaking the marriage for a promise or commitment, then it gives a really bad message. What 'majboori'? Why such a loser attitude. Why not fight back against the circumstances? Why not look for solutions? Why not have a positive outlook? Why 'compromise' for the whole life for a promise? Why can't everyone (including Shravani) be a bit mature here??? Vaishali is as old as Shravani, I'm youger than her, but I dont think we have the same ideaology. Shravani is a fundamentally good girl and I think she will understand if anyone (especially her father) tries to explain her. What does she lack that she has to get married in such a way where she is looked upon as a burden by everyone? Even Manav is unhappy. Isn't that a blot on self respect as well????

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

Espacially this marriage where there is so much love between the two people ....it should last forever otherwise the creatives are sending a very wrong message here.

Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

Trailblazer

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Posted: 15 years ago

#95

It is good to use Shakkar . Archana uses it way more than needed . I told you na , extreme of everything is wrong . Shakkar should be used in the right dosage , then it will be very nice .

Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: unknown18
oh so our Hitler uses some shakkar too 😆

With her , yes . When she is around I become the 19 year old daughter in law she once had who quietlly did things the way she wanted . It gives me pleasure .

Elders r precious , and how many days do they have on this planet ? Once they r gone they never come back . No one is left to guide us as we r pushed into the role of the elder ! I can do whatever I want on many occasions but the special thing is to do it the way she wants or my mother wants or a grandmother wants .

Elders Rock . Of course there r exceptions to this but they fascinate me .

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#97

Okay I gotta run now... will be reading your replies via my cell but won't be able to reply.

Waiting for kools answer. You see kools, I believe that if I'm voicing my opinions through Manav 'he shud do this and that' and if he is called the chauvinistic peacock... I become the chauvinistic peacock too... I would never dream of Manav tricking Shravani to get the baby... and I certainly don't want Shravani to be separated from her baby either. I hope she gets married to a loving guy and has a happy life with the baby. She has suffered a lot and she needs this happiness. I will infact be angry with the creatives if they show shrvani giving away the baby to Archana Manav.

Thats all from my end today. Will be reading your replies even though won't be able to answer.

And yeah.. kools.. you've a lovely relationship with your MIL, reminds me of the relation btw me and my mother and sister... we fight a lot but we love each other for our finer points.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#98

I agree with u niki . Ur latest post I mean .And I think its very cute that u identify with Manav so much that if I call him a chauvinist peacock u think ur the peacock .........Oh niki I laughed so much my tummy ached .U have the cuteness of sheer youth and positivity .Truly .

Niki I think Rasikas threat today means she will use Shravni very very badly . She will start being nice to her ..........see how she targeted her on dancefloor . She will pretend to teach her how to get Manav back just like she brainwashed BHavna .Niki Rasika is vERY GOOD at brain washing . She will put rifle on Shravnis shoulder and shoot Archu .

What u said .......that if sum other girl is in trouble will Manav drop Shravi and rush to marry her is exactly what i said when hE screamed he wanted divorce without wanting to give it even the 3 month chance and constantly said like a parrot Tumne bahut der kardi to Archu ...........that marraige to Shravni for saving her is not the answer and had sHravni not been there he wud not have been averse to working on the marraige with Archu . Remember ?At that point u had said no no he genuinely believes all is over with him and Archu .

The truth is he didnt even stop to think why Archu came back coz he was focussed on the goal of saving the baby and Shravni . If Shravni was not there , even in anger he wud have wondered why Archu came back . But he just wanted to block that thought out of his mind then .

Toda u said accurately that Saving people this way can never be the answer .A positive solution must be arrived at , and why accept this defeatist , fatalistic attitude that now only Bappa will helpor maybe this is kismat or Bapaas marzi !

Unfortunately niki creatives wont show that positive solution they will show a dramaytic solution in which Shravni goes insane and harms Archu or dIES . Or yes , like Savita changes as Archu saves her at cost of herself .

And good night all , going to sleep , eyes r drowsy now .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 15 years ago