Kool's Commentary : 2 April PR

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#101

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

If promises r broken or manipulated this conveniently there will also be chaos in society . By snatching away her child from her , tricking her , saying Ill now marry archu and bidding her good bye what good will Manav Archu accomplish ? They will always have guilt on their mind and never be HAPPY . Her curse will always lie on their heads . What kind of a love marraige will it be ?

And if promises r gonna be manipulated this way under the excuse of ultimaately these things change for betterment etc , words cease to have value .Whatever Manav is , till now he has not shifted an inch from his word and I respect him for that .

Kool,I dont want him to snatch her baby...nope.

I just wanted him to honestly confess about his feelings...to tell her and archu how he feels....I dont want him to build a relationship on falsehood....the way she's possesive, hearing such a confession will hav some imapct on her.

No,words wont cease to have value...they just need to be worked around.

He promised he'll take her responsibility by marrying her...I just want him to take her responsibility but not by marrying her rather rethinking some alternative.

U know Archu is also his responsibility,marriage is also a promise...isnt it?

Why should this promise hold all priority when it took him one day in jail to break another one.

I dont think if people take one new responsibility(shravani),they should let go of other old one(Archana).

Is marriage some kind of joke?I still hold it as the most imp promise any man can give a woman.

When u say Manav has never gone back on his words,I dont agree.

Even though he was very much married,he went ahead to promise marriage to another lady....he lost some of my respect on that day.Whatever the circumstances were,no one can deny,Archu was still his wife..he either could have waited for the final divorce or let Archu know his decision.

He did neither.Glaring example of Manav,breaking his marriage promises in his anger for Archu.

Promises shouldnt be manipulated easily but this is one extreme case...and it makes more sense to manipulate it here than suffer like bheesma pitamah....I never admire bhesshma for sticking to his promise....had he not,many could have been spared their lives and the war could have been avoided.Practically,human lives hold more importance than sticking upto one's promise.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#102

Marriage too is a promise . A promise much much bigger and much more important than the one Manav made to Shravani . But what to do ...just to keep his mother happy he has coniniently forgotten the most important promise of his life ... This is not done . He should pay for what he is doing to Archana . I know Archu will never curse him but God too will never leave a person who does something like that to another good human being .

Compared to his promise to Archana , his promise to Shravani is nothing ...

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#103

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
You are absolutely right about taking abuse from Savita lightly . I can only blame this on Archana's low self esteem ....
I don't know why she is so desperate to please savita ....

I dont think its low self esteem that makes her take those abuse.

The day she married,she accepted savita as her in-law and Manav as her husband...remember even after sulo not believing in her marriage,still she used to put mangalsutra and sindoor.

That day,she accepted Savita as her MIL.

Archu is a very lovely person.For her, MIL means she holds the same importance as her mother.Archu loved sulo dearly,she never blamed her mother for her lack of education or anything...even after varsha-engagement thing,u find Archu understanding her mother...she loves her mother so much that she can never hurt her or hold her responsible for anything,even though her mother may be fundamentally wrong in supporting Ajit.

Its this way with Savita...as Archu rightly says,people have different nature....savita is outspoken,does so many wrong things,but Archu loves her as her own mother...her love for savita isnt judgemental....she loves her bcoz she feels her MIL is like her own mother,overlooking the fact that she isnt that good at all.

savita's abuses dont hurt her bcoz she understands her pain...just like she understands shravani...she truly feels for these people.She wont ever rebuke savita,bcoz for her that would be disrespecting elders...loves her and doesnt think savita is wrong ,just a mother who is angry ,sad bcoz she lost her son....she understands savita's anger towards her even more than savita herself.

From Archu's POV,its like a mother dumping her anger on her daughter and the daughter understanding her pain rather than considering that as abuse.

Archu adds too much sugar but I find her a beautiful person,rare specimen,who is very understanding and mature....most importantly,her quality to love and accept a person without being judgemental.

Thing is she doesnt realise she's glorifying domestic violence😉

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Compared to his promise to Archana , his promise to Shravani is nothing ...

True.

Ethically speaking,he should stick to his marriage.

But yes,since he has done a mistake by misguiding shravani with another promise,he should stand up like a man to face whatever comes his way to stick to his ethics as well as what seems to be right for everyone concerned.

Savita is very wrong in wanting to let go of Archu so that sachin's child can be with the deshmukhs,asking Manav to sacrifice his happiness...and Manav is even more wrong in trying to give her this happiness...but emotionally he's right as a son..I would like to see savita caring some more for her only son's happiness than making him a 'bali ka bakra' for sachin.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#105

Manav has been very very very unfair to Archana . No two ways about it ...

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addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Manav has been very very very unfair to Archana . No two ways about it ...

Guys when i went to bed last nite kool's commentary was at page 9...was so surprised when i saw it now at page 14...i read every post....

Firstly Kool's, I pray to get a mother in law like urs or my mom...I am a combination of u and ur mom in law...ha ha ha...short tempered, out spoken...my mom says, i dont think before i talk and the sad thing.....saying sorry is like .." life in prison" ha ha ha ...so dont know how it will work out...

Tanya, u know how much i dont like manav now..but recently i dont have the guts to blast or blame him...his marriage broke cause of evil trouble makers..he prob felt that archana should have given him the benefit of doubt...but like kool's said, which gal just 15 days into marriage wont do same.

just like how archana got angry when he told her that she came with her bf (satish..which again was a result of evil trouble makers...manju sending satish there)..archana was so furious that she signed divorce papers...now he is realizing her worth, he cant get enough of her and really wants to remain with her but he is committed to his promise..

We all know (as per recent tracks) how Manav is really turned off by Shravani...no love there..to me he simply cannot stand being in the same frame with her....his expressions whenever she speaks or comes near him...i wont want my enemy to have for me..so my question is..."Would such a marriage be good for a kid's emotional health....I mean parents barely uttering two words to each other, maybe sleeping in diff rooms, quarrels.just no love?"..cause i feel he would really despise shravani if he has to go through with this marriage.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#107

Shravani is behaving in this aweful manner because Archana is around and gets very very jealous with her . If Archu was not there then Shravani would not be truning into this monster .

Most definitely she is not Archana . Looking at her actions like getting pregnant before marriage , not ticking off Rasika for her beloved Aie ...all these actions say that she is not as special a person as Archana . But as Archu says ' it is wrong to measure everyone with the same yard stick ...'.

If Shravani will stop being so hateful towards Archana and she her respect and some care then I think she will eventually have a reasonable life with Manav .

Ok , he cannot love her as much as he loves Archu and Shrav knows that but sllowly she can work on their relationship .

Even Manav knows that I can never find a girl as special as Archana ....but still he is divorcing her for Shravani .

The reason here is the kid .Manav and his mother want this child and they are ready to accept compromises as long as they get this baby .

It's a matterof choice for everyone . Manav has chosen to have the baby 's mother instead of Archana .....He would do anything for the child . If it means eventually having a nice relationship with Shrav , Manav will do that as well...

But if Shravani accelerates her hatred and jealousy for Archana then for sure she will loose Manav forever as it would make Manav want Archana 100 times more than how much he wants her now ...He will either go into a depression or he will just be stalking Archana in all his free time

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addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#108

Tanya he has compromised no doubt...but i cannot see to the extent of having a reasonable relationship with shravani..period..just not seeing that....it looks like he is taking out his anger on her now for a number of reasons...getting pregnant, coming between him and archana, being mean to archana...and she not being archana....ya..he is comparing them...

I feel it is better for the kid if they dont get married...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#109

Of course , this would be the best thing for the child that they should not marry . But try explain this to the baby's mother . She just wants Manav now . This child is a way of getting what she wants .

If they did not get married and Shravani puts the child's real father's name in the birth certificate then it would be the right thing to do .

She can tell savita that I am living in the same city , you can come and see your little sachin whenever you want . Also ask Manav to always be there for the baby as a loving Uncle .

She will have the best Uncle and Aunt for her child in the world and she can also eventually get someone who gives her the love she deserves .

But now these days , it is all about the sense of competing with Archana . I think Shravani is becoming obsessed with Archana and obsession is always dangerous .

Manav will never tolerate and accept her in this frame of mind .

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addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#110

I honestly feel that...and wish she does all what u stated...and no doubt manav would be a very good uncle...butttttttttttt...

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaa.....i think it is more a game for shravani....she is in competition with poor archana...i said before this gal is more obsessed with archana than even manav...ha ha ha....

Tanya, we r seeing that..he is not tolerating her at alllllllllll.

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