Kool's Commentary : Mar 19 PR - Page 21

Regarding your statement that you wud have told a younger sister the same thing with very well meant intentions........I have no doubt C . You see , my elder sister [ 18 years elder to me] is just like you and wud say same thing .

i dont know what the discussion is but i come here bcoz i like it and it gets me away from all the stress nd tensions.sometimes(well for the past few months it has been everyday) i feel soooo stressed that my brain just stops working.it goes numb. even if i try to study i wont b able to read even a single word. i will just stare at the book nd think abt the problems. in the end, i will hav a migraine. coming here stops me from thinking abt the stressful things.it gets me involved with my friends here. i know some things r meaningless but do we make friends for some meaning? i behave here just like how i behave with my friends. i will joke, talk non stop, sometimes i get serious, sometimes i start giving a lecture, sometimes i get emotional. everyone is so nice here. i hav a lot of stress but i dont discuss that bcoz i come here to go away from stress. i think its important for us to take a break from life and b stress free. if u hav a perfect happy life then maybe u wudnt come here or need any stress busters.

some posts in this forum r really meaningful. they might b related to PR or not. they really make me think.

i think 2 days ago i was reading the comments abt kids in the PR crazy comment corner. for the past few weeks i started to hav very bad feelings abt marriage(due to some reasons). but then i read the posts made by kool, tanya, fifi, tulsey (i think all these ladies made posts😕) they were talking abt their kids. it was so nice to read that. it made me think. marriage cant b that bad. when i read abt the wonderful moments they had with their kids, it made me look forward to marriage. i loveeee kids but these ladies made me fall more in love with them. (i know marriage is not everything for a girl but) they made me realize that their is so much happiness to look forward. life will b crazy sometimes (well most of the time) but there will b a few moments which u wil cherish forever. this was just one example. there hav been many other meaningful things (just abt life) discussed in this forum.

Sid i hear ya. I feel the same way. I also get so many different perspective on life by reading everyone's posts. i may not have much to contribute to certain topic because i lack experience but i have a lot to learn for other people. whether its about marriage, relationships, children. or just social norms. i'm really thankful to many posters for their perspective

yes sid i totally agree PR is just an excuse

@ Sid and All Else

yea sid and if u feel uncomfortable discussing it in public you feel free to pm me or kools or tanya (or anyone else u feel comfortable talking to) we are for you young uns 24/7

Kool, now i hav to run to the washroom nd cry as i cant let my mom see me crying 😭

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@ Sid and All Else

Icompletely see how interacting here would be a relaxing activity. I've had quite a bit of fun virtually "hanging out" on the Crazy Comments thread, for example. I do chat with my own real life friends onother social networking sites too, though probably not as often as mostothers do. I think you guys misunderstood me somewhat.... my question was specifically about the long arguments raging all day on Manav and Archana, which nobody seems to win and which seem to take up so much emotional energy. I found themvery heated and wondered what was to be gained from such an expense of energy. That's all.

Let' see, now, I believe the appropriate icon for my position right now would be.....

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C

no cee dont take it personal, this is just a chain reaction...if any of us here on this forum didnt have some sort of stress we wouldnt be here in the first place...I have lots of friends but lately i dont care to hang out with any of them..but here i am on IF everyday..maybe it is because i choose to interact with the friends without faces...

C

ok i m fine now😊

yea even through the PR discussions we end up saying something so meaningful (even a sentence).

well Kool, there has been lots going on. i always try to see the positive side. but lately i hav gotten too tired with everything. i just wish everything cud b normal soon. i cant share these fears with my mom or my sister or my dad (my brother is too young). they already hav so many problems. i m like everyone's mother right now in my house. so i hav to b strong. i m a strong person but i become fearful nd stressed too. but i hav to b in control so that i can take care of my mom nd my sister.

i will surely come to PR 3C(Crazy Comments Corner😆). i think its a beautiful place😊 i know no one will laugh at me. i agree we luckily hav a wonderful forum/group!!

yea it goes both ways. i know i m young but i hav experienced far too much in life (nd i know i will b experiencing more) nd i just shared my experience with u guys. we all learn from experiences (ours or others).

Fifi, Thanks 🤗

Kool a 🤗 for u too