Kool's Commentary : Mar 19 PR - Page 23

Addenise, I hope i didnt scare u 😳 not all families r like that. just a few. nd we cant blame the gud ones bcoz of the bad ones. but u shud think abt this as Kool said😊

Thanks guys...literally crying now...ya we do love each other very much...but being american...it was a shocker when he said his parents hung up phone on him..then had a huge show down over me, after he told them about me...who i am.....for me it was a strange experience..we r more open minded...my fam was all cool with him until they heard what went down..so now his side has caved into his ultimatum, either me or he wont marry.....mine dont even wanna hear about me marrying him..and the ironic thing is both of us come from a close knit family...i still live with my parents...surprise na...lol..but true..and i always credit that to my mom's west indian background...she is trinidadian...so everything goes through family discussions.....now i am torn between him and my family...i dont wanna hurt him...and i cant go against my fam...so i am like totally depressed and helpless...which is making me sick...cause he on side telling me to do this..they r the other side..saying this....freaking me out....

Addenise, i m very honest with my friends nd i always bring them out of their fantasy world.i totally understand ur siutation.

u r hurting him nd this is hurting u as well. this is the truth. u r torn now?! what will happen later if things stay the same.u r both torn. i m not saying get out of the relation. if u can handle it nd make it better then go ahead. love is great. but ask urself honestly nd ask him too. can u both handle this nd work for the relation? if not then this will b more hurtful. i know u dont want to hurt him more so think abt it. truth always hurts but its better in the future.

for u 🤗

oh God i m going to lecture u now 😳

nd abt the fighting part. this is just disrespectful the way u 2 fight. obviously there r fights nd arguments in every relation. but these kinds of fights r not right. i think in any kind of relation respect in the 1st most important thing nd then trust nd then comes love. love without trust nd respect is nothing.

u know my sister loved her husband the most in her life. even more than our parents. nd today she feels so bad for him bcoz in all this mess he is hurt the most (credit to him nd his parents. my sister is not perfect but she tried her best)

i m not criticizing u so dont mind anything i m saying.

Originally posted by: unknown18

Addenise, i m very honest with my friends nd i always bring them out of their fantasy world.i totally understand ur siutation.

u r hurting him nd this is hurting u as well. this is the truth. u r torn now?! what will happen later if things stay the same.u r both torn. i m not saying get out of the relation. if u can handle it nd make it better then go ahead. love is great. but ask urself honestly nd ask him too. can u both handle this nd work for the relation? if not then this will b more hurtful. i know u dont want to hurt him more so think abt it. truth always hurts but its better in the future.

for u 🤗

u r welcome nd feel free to talk here or pm anyone😊 nd its gud to cry sometimes. nd remember ur parents want the best for u nd they know u the most. same goes for his parents. nd always hav faith in God. everything will b fine. i will pray for u.

take gud care nd goodnight 🤗

the questions u ask him, ask urself too.u need to decide what u want.

Originally posted by: unknown18

u r welcome nd feel free to talk here or pm anyone😊 nd its gud to cry sometimes. nd remember ur parents want the best for u nd they know u the most. same goes for his parents. nd always hav faith in God. everything will b fine. i will pray for u.

take gud care nd goodnight 🤗

the questions u ask him, ask urself too.u need to decide what u want.

no need for thanks.i m here to help as i had been through what u r going through nd my sister too.

there is no harm in compromising but changing urself completely nd losing ur identity is wrong. u seem like a very nice girl (nd a lot of ur views r similar to Asians/desis). think what is gud for the ppl u love so much (ur family nd that guy) nd also think abt urself.

goodnight 🤗

Originally posted by: addenise

Thanks guys...literally crying now...ya we do love each other very much...but being american...it was a shocker when he said his parents hung up phone on him..then had a huge show down over me, after he told them about me...who i am.....for me it was a strange experience..we r more open minded...my fam was all cool with him until they heard what went down..so now his side has caved into his ultimatum, either me or he wont marry.....mine dont even wanna hear about me marrying him..and the ironic thing is both of us come from a close knit family...i still live with my parents...surprise na...lol..but true..and i always credit that to my mom's west indian background...she is trinidadian...so everything goes through family discussions.....now i am torn between him and my family...i dont wanna hurt him...and i cant go against my fam...so i am like totally depressed and helpless...which is making me sick...cause he on side telling me to do this..they r the other side..saying this....freaking me out....

kools, we do hurt each other...to get even...my tongue is so sharp....i hurt him the most..then i am messed up after...i hate hurting him and my fam...

thanks guys...we r really trying to work it out....i have also decided it is either him or no one...which is not going down well with my fam......thanks again..

hey i am just now reading this post..i am trini too