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Posted: 15 years ago
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@gaurimisha: Exactly what I'm saying, he should have refused to sit with either. That would have been the best thing to do.

I had stopped defending Manav since a few says coz I was myself angry with him. Even when he said yesterday that ok i'll sit in the puja with shravani I felt like banging my head against the wall. But today when he didn't agree to his mother's command of sitting in the pooja with archu, I was happy.

He did the right thing. Its not a case of Manav giving right to Archu to sit with her in the puja... rather its a case of Manav not having the right to do the puja with Arhu coz he was the one who got engaged before divorce. With what face could he have said, come and sit in the puja with me coz you are my wife. If he had said it, I would have thrown one rotten tomato at him.

And he said it at a time when even Sulochana and Manohar didn't find anythign wrong in Archu sitting for puja with a man who was engaged to someone else. The question here is not that Archu has the right and Shravani doesn't, but rather the fact that they were all simply using her and Manav didn't feel it was right. more than tradition and religion it was a simple question of self respect. Warna Manav kya mara ja raha hai shravani ke sath puja karne ke liye? Use kya bahut khushi mil rahi hai yeh sab nautanki kar ke???
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Sharavani will donate 7 lacs to some ashram and will say she wanna do this in name of Sachin and this would be one tight slap to Savita 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@niki: i think what he did today by saying to wait for shravani was right and you said it all. He has no right on archu he he has committed for some one else and it would have looked really odd. He can do such things only the day when he says that he love her and cant do injustice with her. Sometimes i feel its better he he marries shrav. As most of members want archu would move on with her studies and she does not deserve a jerk like him. Manav will live happily with baby and shrav will get what she wants. Its better for all. Huh. @piya: i do not think that shrav can sit in puja now because it will be bad omen. As per my knowledge one can have only one wife in hindu religion at one time. So if someone says shrav to sit in puja and as pundit said that this puja is only for married couples , pundit will say whats happening and it wil be apshakun to do half puja with other woman and half with other as this is only for married couples and one can half only one wife and then Shrav is not his wife at the moment. Plus bappa will not let that happen.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Nikita: Whatever I hav seen in the last few epi,it never occured to me tht Manav wud hav bothered abt Archu's self respect.
Your words have got me thinking...Initially I thot he was saying just for his mother..who was so insistent upon Shravani n him sitting together.
Manav is confusing me a lot,I failed to understand how can a spiritual boy hav such suggestions....but on the other hand if he holds his commitment for shravani n in a bid not to use Archu as a replacement,he suggested it...I agree he's not wrong
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@nishi
arre nahi Savita will kill her....or bettr get an heart attack...atleast ArMan will live in peace fr a few days 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@koolsadhu: I'll be frank with you, I was eagerly looking forward to your reply to see what you reaction would be on this issue. I am so happy that we agreed on this one.. this is one of the very rare occasions that we have a similar viewpoint when it comes to Manav.😆

You know koolsadhu, the fact that Manav said we should wait for Shravani came across more as respect to Archna rather than commitment to Shravani. He obviously DOES NOT want to sit with her... he will be betraying his God by sitting in the pooja with a thief in heart. But still when he gets the opportunity, his own evil Aai Savita says sit with Archu, (which he must have wanted from all his heart since he thinks of her only as his wife) he says no, since he has NO right to sit with Archu coz it was he who got engaged despite being undivorced. But no one, not even Archu's own parents, not even Damodar, point this out and object to it or stand up for Archu's self respect. The only person who does so is her husband, albeit indirectly!
Everyone is saying that he humiliated her in front of her parents, I feel the opposite, he prevented her from falling in her own eyes... didn't let her be used as a second wife or a replacement.. today again he proved that his love is not bound by customs or rules... he breaks the religious rules for Archu's self respect.... he doesn't let Archu sit in the puja where she shud sit according to religious rules since it would mean compromising on her self respect.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Piya i just want that women to punish badly may be all her wrong doings is not being in limelight but i want her punish from the BAHU whom she thinks is sonna dena ka ek insaan hai 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok, the replacement thing makes sense ...all that convincing from Nicki worked...Nicki why in medicine ?? you should have been a lawyer ....😆
But , he should have said no to the puja and sitting with Shravani when his mother suggested initially as it was another humiliating and painful experience for Archana .
he does not care about Archana's pain whatso ever ...
I still have not given up hope that she will get over him one day ......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It's good that Archana is seeing manav's commitment to Shravani and the extent to which he can go to fullfill that commitment . And now looks like Shravani is falling for him big time . This will all help Archana to realize not to be a kabab mein hadi and move on in life .
All this unfair treatment from Manav will help her more to move on and I think she is showing some signs ...slowly but surely she will.
I would love Manav if he can avoid the 2 wives situation for Archana and just stick with Shravani .....
Of course the best thing would be to listen to his heart and do the right thing ..we all know what that is .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I do not understand what post of parents Sulo and manohar are? They very well know that manav is marrying shrav, yet they were happy that their daughter is acting very well as second woman in his life. I do not know what creatives are trying to prove us? They are showing this puja to counter the engagement just as they showed that sindur thing. And if damodar wants both of them to reunite he should be making manav understand it. At least it will give him more senses that he is doing wrong and it will increase chamber of reunion too. Because it has to be only manav and manav who have to stand us for archu himself and now i am sure about it because i do not think shrav will do anything unless manav does something.

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