I don't understand..!!! - Page 2

@nikita
there's a big diff betn getting engaged nd being married isn't it? All I want is Manav to protect Archu frm any kind of humiliation atleast as long as she is in his house.....that's his duty.
Once they r legally divorced he can do as many puja nd rituals wid Shravni as he nd his mom wants no one wld complain.

@piya: I am not saying Manav was right in agreeing to sit with shravani. He was wrong. Shravani is not his wife and only a married couple can sit in the pooja.

All I'm trying to point out is that Manav is wrong in agreeing to sit with shravani, but he wasn't wrong in refusing to sit with Archana, especially when she was being asked to sit only as a replacement for shravani.

Atleast wait for two months...

I think the Karanjskar do not wish to interfere with their daughter's life any more . they feel guilty thatthey have wronged her and then it was that satish fiasco where Archana was angry with her mother to do something behind her back . And of course Archana clearly telling sal that manav is the most important person in her life . What can they do now .

Niki i completely agree with u..
but i just want Manav to protect Archu from his aayi as I'm sure Savita will blame Archu only for sitting with Manav for pooja.

@ nicky
I understand yr POV nd u r ryt bt such subtle hints r lost on Savita nd the Karanjkars as well maybe even to Archu....did u see her xpression she ws heart broken Archu still believes that she is his wife nd wants to sit fr the puja......which in a way bugs me coz she is bringing it on herself (humiliation) wat I wld hve liked is Archu to in a nice bt straight manner telling every one present there that since Shravni is going to be Manav's wife in days to cme nd everyone including Manav wants her to sit in the puja....then that's the way it shld be done....we all shld wait fr Shravni.

One word which summarize's the whole concept!

I agree with Ismita.

There is no earthly compulsion for only Manav to sit in a Satyanarayan pooja ...........Damodar and Savita could sit too . This shud ideally have been suggested by Manav , who shud have said I cannot do religious sacrilege like this , so AAi Baba u both sit . It depends on what vow Archu took .......that if Damodar returned alive she wud have a Satyanarain pooja offered or if she herself wud do the Satyanarain pooja . I doubt the latter coz being a traditional Marathi lady she knows that for that a couple has to sit and currently all that wud only lead to controversy and hurt .

I second Nikita in being committed to Shravni thing ..........it wud be the decent thing to do . If he has given commitment to shravni he has to stick to it and not lead her on . If he waited for Shravni that was really nice . He has categorically told Archana that they cannot get back together that he has committed himself to a higher cause .....the baby . Fine . Now the decent thing to do wud be to stay totally committed as any other move wud be unfair to a woman ........Shravni . My respect for him wud increase if he stays committed to her .

Archana seems to have reconciled to the two wives situation .........she doesnt seem to have any mind of her own or any self respect at all . When told not to sit she doesnt sit , when told to sit , she sits ! I mean where the hell is she as a woman in all this ? Letting Savita use her this shamelessly , is this rubbish doormat attitude 'unconditional love ' for Manav ?

Archna shud have REFUSED to sit for the Satyanarayan . I wONT SIT shud have been the attitude with a blunt SORRY to DAMODAR .

Manav shud have gone a step further and not just waited for Shravni but got up and walked away saying AAI BABA u both sit anyway since pooja is in Babas honour it befits more if u both sit .

Shravni is perfectly right in feeling hurt or disappointed upon seeing Manav Archu doing pooja..........see her face . It is the face of a normal woman having normal feelings . Savita first used her to get 7 lacs , then used Archna to get pooja done and save face . Then she will take seven lacs and evilly put poison in Shravnis mind that archu took advantage of situation when u were gone ..........and go scot free , getting the seven lacs and also becoming Shravnis well wisher .

The evil woman needs a public flogging if u ask me . Neither does she have respect for the Satyanarayan , nor genuine grief for son , nor love for Shravni . The money wasnt running away she cud easily have picked it next week by letting Shravni do the pooja .

Archna needs to sincerely stop being this involved in the Deshmukh scenario simply for the sake of having 'lovely memories' to take home [ What bloody memories yaar , r these any memories] and understand the meaning and spelling of self respect . She also needs a serious lesson in understanding that unconditional love doesnt mean loss of self respect .