Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#72|Rishita Bani Hero (RED ALERT) - Page 27

Unfortunately they are not going to get TRPs this way. It's a package with acting, direction, story, editing, camera work, screenplay etc.

The TRPs of the current topper were good, but they really starting increasing the day the FL took a stand for herself, despite all the drama that they show. For many viewers it was progression in the character and they started following.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

sigh.. Shiva is such a beautiful character.. I simply hate what the makers are doing to him 😡🤢

Exactly, he was sensitive.he was a guy who cried , who let his tears fall, who took care of the girl his brother left at the altar silently throughout without expecting anything in return.if I had to watch an angry young man hero who pushes and humilates the female lead, I can see that in every other show.why PS?

Originally posted by: firsttimehere

On a different note , the taunts and nonsense of past 2 episodes does exist . Even in 2021. Even in "decent" middle class families- the ones where girls parents want her to get married to since they are nice people . Even in educated , and socially classy looking families.

This shit does happen .

It brings back some very worst moments that I wish I had the strength to erase them off.

My mum was told the exact words of suman to maagin about sending raavi back in my regards by one bua saas on the next day of my wedding . And it wasn't a joke too. I remember how angry yet scared my mother was for me .She has been a teacher all her life and stood her ground when needed and for her to hear this crap from a very close relative of my inlaws on next day of marriage was maddening .

Episodes such as these can either connect with audience because of shared scenarios and get in the much needed trp or just repulse them to never turn on starplus at 7:30 pm ever.

I faced a different kind of prejudice but I haven't seen such insensitive ppl around me ever , neither in Maika nor sasural. Whatever the issue is , itna insensitive hoke and taunting way mein koi nai bolta publicly in functions .

When I had my 2nd daughter , ppl came upto me and said "plan a third child.. may be it's a boy","kya ho jaata doosra ladka ho jaata" etc etc ..pehle I didn't answer but ek ko kiya tha.."aur koi kaam nai hai mujhe , ladke ke liye bache paida karte rehna hai?" Then I complained once to my mil , whether these relatives r coming to congratulate me or afsos karne aa rahe hain saare ? After that day nobody dared to say anything..I had the support of my mil and my husband. For a mother there is no diff between a girl and boy , n it's none of their business to decide for me. Even my brother and my sister , are parents of a single daughter .

I believe they must show it in a positive way instead of making a tamasha out of it , like suman did. Like rishita took a stand for dhara , n previously on somebody's godhbharai, Shiva , krish , dev supported dhara , it was endearing..now they are trying to make it a point that having kids is the ultimate goal of one's life..and a woman's life is incomplete without it. Blah blah blah.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I think they are trying every trick in the book to increase trps.

Mohalle wali aunties humilating bahus for not having babies, suman going toward the grey side, suicide drama, the typical angry young man who manhandles his wife and humilates her due to his own insecurities, crying and helpless newly wedded girl who has no support and can't even talk to her own family peacefully for some time.

Sadly these things work on itv.

Nai. It won't work here. They won't get trps with this crap

Originally posted by: ThePirateKing

Unfortunately they are not going to get TRPs this way. It's a package with acting, direction, story, editing, camera work, screenplay etc.

The TRPs of the current topper were good, but they really starting increasing the day the FL took a stand for herself, despite all the drama that they show. For many viewers it was progression in the character and they started following.

I hope they sense this and show something sensible, Because the viewers of PS are not typical daily soap viewers.i know many people who have not watched TV for years connect with this show.hooefullt the ratings knock some sense into them.

If they increase then there is no hope.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Nai. It won't work here. They won't get trps with this crap

I hope soo.

Originally posted by: Transference

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AND, not that Bharo Maang meri Bharo is on my playlist! I specially used ear phones to listen to the song instead of playing Yeh Fitoor Mera 🤣loudly. Driver shocked, me rocked 😆

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Originally posted by: Transference

I hear you and hence I am very triggered by these episodes. Some personal experiences because I am childfree by choice!

Some lame-ass male relative of mine had made a dinner table conversation that - “Apko Bacche pasand nahi hai na isiliye you don't want kids.”

What followed was a vast altercation, and I remember some elderly female member dousing the fire, saying that how we should focus on the garam garam kachoris!

I got a lecture later that night: chup raha karo tum from the brigade of in laws.

Thank you for sharing your experiences! And I’m truly sorry people feel the need to comment on something so personal.

People make these taunts and never truly grasp the impact it has. My parents initially wanted only one child so they had me a few years into their marriage. Eventually, people started gossiping, including my father’s friends. They taunted both him and my mom to the point where they felt the need to have more children. I love my brothers and we are grateful for them. But my parents were not ready for the financial burden of a child, let alone twins. And they have their own beliefs when it comes to planning for children, deciding whether or not to keep the child, etc… I personally believe no child should be brought into this world unless parents are financially, emotionally and mentally ready.

Long story short, we spent a few years in severe financial crunch after the twins were born. Thankfully, my parents were able to get back on track sooner than expected and I am now financially independent. But thinking back to those years still gives me chills. Not knowing if you can afford your next meal is scary, especially for a child. I gave up on so many necessities and things I really wanted. I was only 10. My uncle paid our rent for almost two years. It all started with a taunt. My parents could have ignored them but not everyone is able to handle the pressure.

This was one reason why I literally stood up and clapped when Rishita spoke! Deciding whether or not to have children, how many to have, etc… is entirely between a couple. No one else has any business.

By the way, in reality, most of the baby boomers find only one solution to a marriage problem is kids. I have seen people boasting about compromise, kids being the basis of a marriage.

The major conflict of a generational change.

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