What was Dhara expecting?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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That is the question of the day for me!

What exactly was she expecting to happen from that talk with Raavi? Why was she trying to apologize on the behalf of Rishita?

Like Raavi literally lost everything to Rishita and she's STILL the one getting blamed for trying to come between them when no one even knew that Rishita even existed!! I would be super upset and mad too if someone tried to tell me to not be upset over something that literally changed the course of my whole life.

Like obviously I understand that Raavi needs to try and get past all of this and of course it frustrates me to no end that she keeps using the same examples to rebuke Dhara-Shiva but the girl is repeatedly taking hits left and right!

Like I think I understand where Dhara was trying to go here but this is just frustrating that she keeps trying to get Raavi to understand Rishita's side.


If someone else has a different opinion, please let me know! I do not know what else to take from this scene and I really want to know how others reacted to this.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don’t know. I was upset throughout this scene. Dhara wanted to comfort her but it really didn’t work. 😒

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Dhara is expecting Raavi to be her original self, cheerful, bubbly, happy-go-lucky after putting her through this misery. But I am very very happy that Raavi gave it back to Dhara, she deserves every bit of it for meddling and complicating Raavi’s life.

This is my synopsis of Dhara’s character for the past few episodes

Saturday's episode started with Dhara's gyan to Rishita ended with Dhara's gyan to Dev and it continued for most of the time todaysmiley29

Today's episode ended with Dhara's gyan to Raavi and it will continue tomorrowsmiley29

Who do the Cvs have next in line? Shiva, Krish, Gaumbi and the list goes on.

Soon the title of this serial will be changed to Dhara ki gyan- nayi soch, dekhnana buliye sirf Star Plus pur raat saade aat bahaje!smiley22

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I'm in two minds over this. There's a breaking point in a person and I feel like Raavi hit it. Dhara has had several opportunities to clear things directly but she didn't! It's super annoying. Apologising for something Rishita did is ridiculous when maybe you should start with yourself.


At the same time it freaking does my head in that Raavi isn't able to open her mouth to defend herself against DevTa. She is able to blame Shiva for it all, but not the culprits themselves. She's able to blame Dhara but not her Mausa-pa. She saw Dhara defend her quite fiercely yesterday, that should've counted for something but it didn't.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss_SR

I'm in two minds over this. There's a breaking point in a person and I feel like Raavi hit it. Dhara has had several opportunities to clear things directly but she didn't! It's super annoying. Apologising for something Rishita did is ridiculous when maybe you should start with yourself.


At the same time it freaking does my head in that Raavi isn't able to open her mouth to defend herself against DevTa. She is able to blame Shiva for it all, but not the culprits themselves. She's able to blame Dhara but not her Mausa-pa. She saw Dhara defend her quite fiercely yesterday, that should've counted for something but it didn't.


As they say, once you’ve hit rock bottom, there’s no way but up. Hopefully, this will be the last of this self-pitying, sad Raavi we see. Raavi is currently unable to see anything good about Shiva and Dhara.

Next time, I’m sure she’ll give a befitting reply to Rishita if she dares insult Raavi again. She just needs some confidence.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ananya269


As they say, once you’ve hit rock bottom, there’s no way but up. Hopefully, this will be the last of this self-pitying, sad Raavi we see. Raavi is currently unable to see anything good about Shiva and Dhara.

Next time, I’m sure she’ll give a befitting reply to Rishita if she dares insult Raavi again. She just needs some confidence.

Shiva and Dhara deserve to be questioned, not just accused. She deserves answers but it seems like she's made up her mind and she wouldn't listen. The thing is she should be doing that with a few others too. You'd think trying to suicide is a breaking point too? It isn't coming across like that to me. Her character is very confusing at times. We might be in need of her inner thoughts, and not just flashbacks with tears.


But like you said there's no way but up. Hopefully she's able to stand up for herself against everyone, not just against the selective few. (I still love her to bits 🤧❤).


Dhara is clearly so out of her depth, she needs to let people be, and stop trying to micro manage everything. Although even if she did good no one will see it (like Raavi didn't acknowledge her standing up for her). So it's like no winning either way as well.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Raavi is taking out all her anger and grief on the only 2 people present there who will receive it without retaliation. Is she subconsciously trying to be in control of something in all this mess?

As for blaming and reacting selectively, I'm hoping Raavi will come to see everything as it is once she's out of her misery. She needs to recognise that there are quite a few others who are accountable for all that's happened.


I loved how Raavi blew up at Dhara today. She was stating some very valid points and Dhara needed to hear that to come out of her hug-it-out dreamscape.


Honestly, I'm starting to lose interest in her character too. This gyaani baba thing is getting super irritating and monotonous. Dhara was a lot better before the leap. Being 10 years older doesn't mean you walk around spouting baseless philosophy. You would be wiser, not mahaan and unrealistic. I was pumped to see a spark of the savage Dhara when she scolded Rishita, but then it all went down the drain.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I agree! The worst part of the whole Dhara- Raavi conversation was Dhara trying to tell Raavi that Rishita ke baat ka bura mat manana! I was like Dhara how can you expect that? Rishita said some really horrible things and not everything can be easily forgiven! Even in a family if all things are let go and considered trivial, swept under the rug there will come a point where all these small issues will build up and lead to an outburst and this is not healthy at all!

Dhara needs to let people handle things on their own not go on her gyaan giving spree. And she always compares Shivi relationship with her and Gaumbi’s. It is nowhere close. They are poles apart. Also each relationship is different and she should give them time and space to blossom rather than interfering every now and then and throttling the relationship.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Dhara needs to stop her lectures!!! Period!!

I was so angry that she was apologizing on Rishita’s behalf!! Was Rishita sorry, what is wrong with Dhara.

She should have made Dev understand the need to apologize to Raavi not do it herself.

Dhara is grating on my nerves.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Namita-M

Dhara needs to stop her lectures!!! Period!!

I was so angry that she was apologizing on Rishita’s behalf!! Was Rishita sorry, what is wrong with Dhara.

She should have made Dev understand the need to apologize to Raavi not do it herself.

Dhara is grating on my nerves.



She is almost writing her children's exams so they do not fail. Is it right? Dhara' s approach is highly questionable. She is not letting her children give their life exams. She is somewhat coming as a dominating person but doesn't seem so due to her sweet approach. Rishita is definitely right in this regard.

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