What was Dhara expecting? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Felicie

Honestly, I'm starting to lose interest in her character too. This gyaani baba thing is getting super irritating and monotonous. Dhara was a lot better before the leap. Being 10 years older doesn't mean you walk around spouting baseless philosophy. You would be wiser, not mahaan and unrealistic. I was pumped to see a spark of the savage Dhara when she scolded Rishita, but then it all went down the drain.

Same!!!!! I like savage Dhara! Kumbh kay melay main kho gayi kya? I am hating the 'Bhabi you were right, you are always right!' lines. I hope the family finds space for things like, 'as an elder, I thought I knew but I was wrong, I made a mistake and I am sorry!'

And the younger ones instead of saying 'no you don't need to apologize,' accept their apology like 'thank you for your apology and I accept it!' it would be so much better than worshipping your elders like they can do no wrong! I get it Dhara and Gaumbi made the decision to raise the kids together and in that sense, the kids feel indebted but that was a decision made by 2 grown adults! That does not mean they can always do gyaans and not listen to the younger ones or allow them their own thought processes!

I am sick of "oh elders don't need to apologize" like hell they don't! Boundaries are very important and elders should always apologize for their mistakes too just like the younger ones are doing! Respect goes both ways!

Originally posted by: reginalsecret

One more thing, Dhara has spent 10 years with Suman who doesn't let one opportunity go waste when it comes to bajaooing her DIL. We know that it is in good heart and so does Dhara. But Rishita and Raavi have never been on the receiving end of Suman's taanas. Dhara doesn't want to give Suman an opportunity to do the same with Rishita which is why she is trying to make her understand. Not that it's working.

I see your point about Dhara trying to protect the girls but if they are old enough to get married, then they are old enough to understand what's going on and face the consequences of their actions too! 😈😃 I am all for Suman putting the girls in their place rather than 'dHaRa BhAbI mAa' 😈

I think we get sick of Dhara but let's be honest, no parent is perfect and I think everyone does give her the 'bhabi kay bina hum sab bhikar jatay' and 'bhabi is always right' lines! So she feels the responsibility of the family! And in trying to do the right thing, things go wrong and this woman gets blamed...EVERY SINGLE TIME! LOL

I ain't gonna blame her for everything but the girl does need to stop meddling! 😆 And someone rightly said earlier she wanted to right by Raavi and tell her everything but the brothers all stopped her and hid things from Suman too! And now Dhara is getting blamed! Hello...Gaumbi should bear the brunt of that one...he was a right prick to Dhara when she said she wanted to do right by Dev and Raavi!

But also Dhara expecting Raavi to get over her sorrows so quick is very insensitive, like chill 'dHaRa BhAbI mAa' Haata, sawan ki ghata! 😆