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barbie2011

@barbie2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

#561

@Tanu..dont worry dear...sab acha hoga..Best of Luck sweety...

2Nidhi..i agree..ther are many men who suffer the same problem..i wonder how long can you try mending your ways and sacrifising your happiness..just to keep marraige alive..

does silently suffering all your life is a good option..

I am against divorce..and hate it when i read abt how people have started playing with the institution called marraige..but i also feel sad when i see people sufffering just to keep their marraige alive..without any support or care for their lives...

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manjha

@manjha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#562

@Nidhi I know a very close family friend of mine who had to suffer cus his wife was cheating on him constantly and for his kids sakes, he would keep quiet and all but then untimately, he had to call it quits cause she wud just use him and his wife was a physco. He was rich and she would just spend the money on herself and her numerous bfs!! it was sad and one of his daughters is my best friend so shes told me tons of things her dad had to face!!

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ashakd

@ashakd

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#563

sorry need to hit the sack, would love to part of the discussions, but????????????/ gud night dearies, and happy discussions.

Urmi shall catch up some other time.

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laddoo598

@laddoo598

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Posted: 14 years ago

#564

@Nidhi: Great point! As I said, both the partners need to work together to make a marriage a success..While one falters, the other should be there to support, while one makes a mistake, the other should forgive..But if the one in wrong never shows as any sign of change then it is better to let go..

When we talk about Mohan, I really don't know whether he has put in his 100% into the marriage..To me it looks like he has shut Rama out of his life..At times, it seems like she is more interested to make the marriage work then him..She gave up on the whole Shagun-Anant thing just for him..But he has yet to show any kind of "interest" in her or their marriage..Rama as a person is very very insecure and maybe if Mohan showered love and attention on her then she may reform her ways for better..

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4shilpad

@4shilpad

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Posted: 14 years ago

#565

Originally posted by: laddoo598

True Dat Shilpa..CVs are walking a very fine line here..They can't glorify divorce, nor can they give off the message that divorce is some tyranny that no acchi Indian girl should ever commit..I hope somehow the message comes out loud and clear - Marriage is not something you ever take in vain..You should keep trying your best to make it work..But if your partner shows no sign of redemption then it is better to let go instead of suffering in silence..

agree...with you...hope the serial is able to walk this fine line...love this discussion though 😊

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appu_12

@appu_12

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#566

Originally posted by: Nidhi82
@Shilpa..Hey..This is Nidhi here..I guess we are interacting for the first time today..And I was about to say this " Also most of us support Renu because her case is very clear - Gautam was cheating on her and was not even apologetic about it - in fact he blamed poor Renu for it. But what about Mohan - his is a clear case of incompatibility- he is so unhappy in his marriage - what is the solution for people who are in his position- should he just live his life unhappily - but we all have only one life..."

Why are we only talking about women..there are loads of men out there who suffer in silence life long, stuck with a wrong partner.

@Tanu..I so agree with you..CVs are working on a very fine line here..These issues need to be handled with utmost sense.They have all the ingredients ..Renu, Mohan, Nimi and AnYa..If used to full potential , a true nayi soch can come out...😃

Right Nidhi, I really felt bad for characters as Mohans today. Where do they go? Very very valid question? Today it was made so clear that Mohan has to live with this come what may, in a set up as the Baj[payees. But thats not fair, is it? But again for his right to live a fair life Mohan has to speak up, which he will not! Iam sure thereare many such souls who just live theirentire life with this agony.

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Noaddict

@Noaddict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#567

Originally posted by: Jen_IloveAR
@Nidhi I know a very close family friend of mine who had to suffer cus his wife was cheating on him constantly and for his kids sakes, he would keep quiet and all but then untimately, he had to call it quits cause she wud just use him and his wife was a physco. He was rich and she would just spend the money on herself and her numerous bfs!! it was sad and one of his daughters is my best friend so shes told me tons of things her dad had to face!!

Yeah..Jen it is a very sorry state when ur life is like that.But here I would support the husband..why suffer in silence when u have such a genuine reason to let go..

My only problem is when men/woman who thing divorce is the only and the best way out of the slightest misunderstanding b/w a relation...I give that a big no.

But some real issues like the one u mentioned, should have a separation as an answer.!!

@Asha..Bbye..Good night, see ya soon..🤗

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4shilpad

@4shilpad

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#568

Originally posted by: Nidhi82
@Shilpa..Hey..This is Nidhi here..I guess we are interacting for the first time today..And I was about to say this " Also most of us support Renu because her case is very clear - Gautam was cheating on her and was not even apologetic about it - in fact he blamed poor Renu for it. But what about Mohan - his is a clear case of incompatibility- he is so unhappy in his marriage - what is the solution for people who are in his position- should he just live his life unhappily - but we all have only one life..."

Why are we only talking about women..there are loads of men out there who suffer in silence life long, stuck with a wrong partner.

@Tanu..I so agree with you..CVs are working on a very fine line here..These issues need to be handled with utmost sense.They have all the ingredients ..Renu, Mohan, Nimi and AnYa..If used to full potential , a true nayi soch can come out...😃

hey Nidhi! my point was not so much about men and women but about infidelity and incompatibility. I think we accept divorce when there is infidelity but what about incompatibility?

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manjha

@manjha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#569

@Asha Gud Night!!

@Tanu I agree with Mohan and Rama! Rama has indeed tried hard and all but Mohan hasnt taken any effort to end it or to make it work. Hes just sitting there aimlessly and the two dunno where exactly their marriage is going. But also, there are times, when a couple is just not compatible and that IMO is the case for them but still, they need a mutual effort to see if it works. It can but sometimes, it just doesnt and its not in ur hands..

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manjha

@manjha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#570

Originally posted by: Nidhi82

Yeah..Jen it is a very sorry state when ur life is like that.But here I would support the husband..why suffer in silence when u have such a genuine reason to let go..
My only problem is when men/woman who thing divorce is the only and the best way out of the slightest misunderstanding b/w a relation...I give that a big no.
But some real issues like the one u mentioned, should have a separation as an answer.!!

@Asha..Bbye..Good night, see ya soon..🤗

Exactly, seperation is in a way really easy to use and all and IMO a privalage in todays society but now days, that privalage is just misused.