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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: ashakd


Jen ben, mumbai ki hawa la gayi aap ko. 🤣 loved the sayiaaan silence, thats more for your other A list heroes , does not work for anant, usko silence, hawa, kuch pata nahi, he needs all actions and words.




Hehehehe... Anant needs Ranbir for everything 😆 Otherwise, his akal never works properly! Girls, we can offically call Ranbir his better half as he seems to bring out the best of Anants puny brain 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
Hey Tanu...hows you dear? hows exams gng?
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: laddoo598



Maine dekha hi nahin ajka episode..😆 Although I did hear the faint sounds of K3G AAA horror BG coming from the living room..

And what is this I hear? AnYa were having a silent conversation? Silence is so not their thing!😆

Jaao balike, go watch the episode, ur dil will be khush 😆 Oh yaah ghatiya BG was there again🤢 And yeah, AnYa were trying to pull of the classic "bina bole dil ki baat" but we were all saying "sayian no understand silence ke bhaasha"😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: 4shilpad


But ladies, this is definitely not the case in India where loads and loads of women stick through bad marriages because of the social stigma attached to divorce, because they know their families - brothers, fathers will not support them, because they have no assets of their own - even if they do these are practically controlled by the men - and they have no skills most importantly no confidence or support to strike out on their own. People like Baba would prefer that their daughters, grand daughters suffer hell in marriage but never break it - the message that needs to go out to everyone is that divorce is not shameful and needs to chosen as a path sometimes when a marriage is not tenable.



True Dat Shilpa..CVs are walking a very fine line here..They can't glorify divorce, nor can they give off the message that divorce is some tyranny that no acchi Indian girl should ever commit..I hope somehow the message comes out loud and clear - Marriage is not something you ever take in vain..You should keep trying your best to make it work..But if your partner shows no sign of redemption then it is better to let go instead of suffering in silence..

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Posted: 14 years ago
@Jen..Ranbir as Anant's better half surely sounds better..they atleast have better understandign nowadays...😉😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Shilpa..Hey..This is Nidhi here..I guess we are interacting for the first time today..And I was about to say this " Also most of us support Renu because her case is very clear - Gautam was cheating on her and was not even apologetic about it - in fact he blamed poor Renu for it. But what about Mohan - his is a clear case of incompatibility- he is so unhappy in his marriage - what is the solution for people who are in his position- should he just live his life unhappily - but we all have only one life..."

Why are we only talking about women..there are loads of men out there who suffer in silence life long, stuck with a wrong partner.


@Tanu..I so agree with you..CVs are working on a very fine line here..These issues need to be handled with utmost sense.They have all the ingredients ..Renu, Mohan, Nimi and AnYa..If used to full potential , a true nayi soch can come out...😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Jen: Silence ki Bhasha samjhe na indeed..Wonder why none of them hung up and checked for bad signal..😆

@Urmi di: Hey di..I am not very good, bombarded by studies..Stupid exams!
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Posted: 14 years ago
@4Shilpad - Sorry, IDK your name, is it Shilpa?
Well, I agree to everything that you just wrote but just to put my point forward, I'd say that I guess ,since the wedding is approaching, the CVs are right now trying to show the orthodox mindset of the Bajpai's before the wedding and how it is changed by Anant and Navya together to bring in the Nayi soch. They've clearly demarcated today the difference in the thinking between generations 😊
Edited by nicky99 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
@jenny this time Anant understood the silence thats why the argument and this is what Anant is he always speak up when he smells the wrong thing not like navya just gulp it the writer always had a gud script but the scriptwriter always failed to put it exactly into scenes now it has been shown up perfectly as the scriptwriter has changed and he understood the story and script perfectly
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: 4shilpad


But ladies, this is definitely not the case in India where loads and loads of women stick through bad marriages because of the social stigma attached to divorce, because they know their families - brothers, fathers will not support them, because they have no assets of their own - even if they do these are practically controlled by the men - and they have no skills most importantly no confidence or support to strike out on their own. People like Baba would prefer that their daughters, grand daughters suffer hell in marriage but never break it - the message that needs to go out to everyone is that divorce is not shameful and needs to chosen as a path sometimes when a marriage is not tenable.

Also most of us support Renu because her case is very clear - Gautam was cheating on her and was not even apologetic about it - in fact he blamed poor Renu for it. But what about Mohan - his is a clear case of incompatibility- he is so unhappy in his marriage - what is the solution for people who are in his position- should he just live his life unhappily - but we all have only one life...

I was also very happy with today's episode but I think the looney point of view got more screen space than nayi soch - which is what is reflected in the forum also. Perhaps this conversation will need to continue in the serial...

@bold, Shilpa i agree on one hand this is true for a lot of dependent women, for whom ging back to their parents or brothers is nothing but shame and in some cases even adding more burden to the family. It is the support from the family which is most important so that the girl can take the step and live her life.
On the other hand there is an increasingly growing independent society where divorce at the slightest provocation is a welcome choice! No other choice exists there!
So what do you say, there are both the things happening, I come back again to that balance of compromise and adjustment? How much and to what extent shud you tolerate? and what is the support system?

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