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manjha

@manjha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#581

Awesome discussion girls!! Sadly, super sleepy so will hit the sack! Great to have a healthy discussion 😃 Goodnight jaans!! Love you!!

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4shilpad

@4shilpad

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Posted: 14 years ago

#582

Originally posted by: Nidhi82
@Shilpa..But then couldn't incompatibility be worked upon??Is it that such big an issue that calls for calling it quits.??Like someone after a month of marriage says that he/she cannot continue with her/his partner coz they think that they are incompatible??Isn't this the easiest way out, without even trying to get on the same track??

@Tanu And I so agree with you here, Rama has always given chance to her marriage..its Mohan who needs to put a rest to her insecurities.

Of course incompatibility can be worked upon...like I said previously, I feel that marriage needs a lot of work and you need to put in that work ...so a decision after a month of marriage would appear frivolous to me... but after u have put in that work, if its not happening, its not happening. I think the contexts are very different. In India even now, almost no one would go for a divorce within a month of marriage, its just something that will not happen in the average marriage - here the problem is that people stay in bad marriages whereas I suppose in some other countries, people go for divorce at the smallest provocation - I think that both extremes should be avoided. But its also important to understand that there cannot be objective assessment of whether going for divorce is the right decision for that person - this is a very subjective matter. If a person seriously feels that it is not working for them, we should take that into account.

Regarding Mohan and Rama, I think we are seeing them after several years of marriage, possibly Mohan has tried...we dont know.

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soapliker

@soapliker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#583

Originally posted by: laddoo598
@Nicky: Rama craves for more because she really doesn't have worth cherishing in her life..Her in laws are monsters and expect her to cook, clean, serve, bear children and keep her mouth shut..Basically she is a refined version of a maid..And her hubby seems the least bit interested in her as he has already made up his mind about the fate of their marriage without even trying at first..She has every reason to feel insecure..Yes, because she has that evil streak in her, she deals with her insecurities by resorting to bitchy antics..

Edit: I can't believe I am defending witchy witch..😆

Tanu but has Rama given any indication to Mohan to show that she is interested in him. she is forever witching about him. She was goody goody for couple of week but she herself said that she got a headache from it as it is not her nature and went back to her original self in Kanpur.

And in this case they are not like the kardashians, they have been married for almost 3 or 4 years and still are not compatible.

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Noaddict

@Noaddict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#584

@Isha..That is the exact point I wanted to say.I don't support bajpayees nor do I feel that Renu has done something wrong.It is just the marriage which people take so lightly these days.

@Tanu..😆Defending witchy witch..😆..Khush to bahut hoge aaj tum..hai...😆

@Jen..Good night.😃.Sweet "A" dreams...😆

@All..Chalo, me too logging off..Have fun..A very lovely discussion after ages..😃

Edited by Nidhi82 - 14 years ago

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soapliker

@soapliker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#585

Originally posted by: Nidhi82
@Isha..That is the exact point I wanted to say.I don't support bajpayees nor do I feel that Renu has done something wrong.It is just the marriage which people take so lightly these days.

@Tanu..😆Defending witchy witch..😆..Khush to bahut hoge aaj tum..hai...😆

@Jen..Good night.😃.Sweet "A" dreams...😆

@All..Chalo, me too logging off..Have fun..A very lovely discussion after ages..😃

Nidhs but the hard factor is where to draw the line and say it is ok to get a divorce and not become a stigma. Is it when we see Mohan and Rama's marriage or we see OM and wife or we see Renu and Gautam.

On another note a question that was bothering me since yesterday was why did M not tell B about Gautam's infidelity. Were they worried that the B's will think that their daughter cannot keep her man in rein and happy.

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barbie2011

@barbie2011

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Posted: 14 years ago

#586

Originally posted by: laddoo598
@Nicky: Rama craves for more because she really doesn't have worth cherishing in her life..Her in laws are monsters and expect her to cook, clean, serve, bear children and keep her mouth shut..Basically she is a refined version of a maid..And her hubby seems the least bit interested in her as he has already made up his mind about the fate of their marriage without even trying at first..She has every reason to feel insecure..Yes, because she has that evil streak in her, she deals with her insecurities by resorting to bitchy antics..

Edit: I can't believe I am defending witchy witch..😆

@Bold..i was feeling the same tanu..since you started talking from Rama's perspective..i was like..arre aaj Rama ki tarafdari main dalil pesh ki jaa rahi hai..kya baat hai.😉😆.

but i agree to what you say in this context..she has surely put in her efforts to save and make the marraige better...

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Nicky

@Richaarora

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Posted: 14 years ago

#587

@Tanu - I don't think she should feel insecure. Mohan can't seem to find interest in her ONLY because of her age-old stupid tactics! Give me one good reason as to why would a married woman in today's world feel jealous of another married woman working in her husband's office without any valid reason behind it? But no, Rama witchy witch gets jealous about stupid things na 😆

Oye why are you defending witchy witch? You should be on our side and not hers 😆 (Just kidding)

@Ujjaini - Exactly! He did give her one chance to improve herself and start afresh again but no Rama doesn't bother about her own relation. Instead she's ready to create troubles for others and act like a sadist then 🤢

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soapliker

@soapliker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#588

Guys I too will have to log off and ttyl. Loved the convo today.

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Mridula

@imnowhere

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Posted: 14 years ago

#589

Is there anyone who is raving on the episode...
Ok,Ok I know I am late. But I was actually getting equipped a torch in order to set the looney house on fire😡
Anyone accompanying me?

Edited by mridula.shome - 14 years ago

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appu_12

@appu_12

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Posted: 14 years ago

#590

@ all -on alighter note, did you guys how true SS(M) was today, that takkar was so out of place and context😆, I just rememeberd him when they showed that. Poor actors!

good night girls! Navya always gives us food for thought, in whatever form it is!

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