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4shilpad

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Posted: 14 years ago

#571

Originally posted by: nicky99
@4Shilpad - Sorry, IDK your name, is it Shilpa?
Well, I agree to everything that you just wrote but just to put my point forward, I'd say that I guess ,since the wedding is approaching, the CVs are right now trying to show the orthodox mindset of the Bajpai's before the wedding and how it is changed by Anant and Navya together to bring in the Nayi soch. They've clearly demarcated today the difference in the thinking between generations 😊

yes, I am Shilpa. Yes today's was an episode that justified the serial - but I think this conversation has just started. Hopefully Anant will come up with a rejoinder. Poor guy! What a life! What a family! His father is constantly threatening to throw him out of the family and/or to hit him. how does he take it? doesnt he ever feel like leaving them and striking out on his own

Thank god, Nimmi reassured him.

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Noaddict

@Noaddict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#572

@Shilpa..But then couldn't incompatibility be worked upon??Is that such big an issue that calls for calling it quits.??Like someone after a month of marriage says that he/she cannot continue with her/his partner coz they think that they are incompatible??Isn't this the easiest way out, without even trying to get on the same track??

@Tanu And I so agree with you here, Rama has always given chance to her marriage..its Mohan who needs to put a rest to her insecurities.

Edited by Nidhi82 - 14 years ago

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Nicky

@Richaarora

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Posted: 14 years ago

#573

Originally posted by: laddoo598
@Nidhi: Great point! As I said, both the partners need to work together to make a marriage a success..While one falters, the other should be there to support, while one makes a mistake, the other should forgive..But if the one in wrong never shows as any sign of change then it is better to let go..

When we talk about Mohan, I really don't know whether he has put in his 100% into the marriage..To me it looks like he has shut Rama out of his life..At times, it seems like she is more interested to make the marriage work then him..She gave up on the whole Shagun-Anant thing just for him..But he has yet to show any kind of "interest" in her or their marriage..Rama as a person is very very insecure and maybe if Mohan showered love and attention on her then she may reform her ways for better..

But from my experience with the show, I feel ladies like Rama can't ever get their brains sorted! They always crave for more than what they have. Not just for herself but also for her dear ones like Shagun as if she doesn't consider her in-laws to be her family and that's exactly why she wants everyone out there to land in trouble. Why does she develop such instant grudge against a person, I fail to understand! We have all seen how Renuka has always interacted sweetly with her but what does she reciprocate? Making faces and calling names..

I guess there's no use of working towards the relation when you know how your partner is going to react..

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4shilpad

@4shilpad

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Posted: 14 years ago

#574

Originally posted by: appu_12
@bold, Shilpa i agree on one hand this is true for a lot of dependent women, for whom ging back to their parents or brothers is nothing but shame and in some cases even adding more burden to the family. It is the support from the family which is most important so that the girl can take the step and live her life.
On the other hand there is an increasingly growing independent society where divorce at the slightest provocation is a welcome choice! No other choice exists there!

So what do you say, there are both the things happening, I come back again to that balance of compromise and adjustment? How much and to what extent shud you tolerate? and what is the support system?

I think that marriage is a very serious commitment and a successful marriage needs a lot of work but if you feel that you have given your very best but its not working, you are not happy, then you should consider your options. I feel Roomni has said it very well in her post - pls see

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2656465

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manjha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#575

Originally posted by: Nidhi82
@Shilpa..But then couldn't incompatibility be worked upon??Is it that such big an issue that calls for calling it quits.??Like someone after a month of marriage says that he/she cannot continue with her/his partner coz they think that they are incompatible??Isn't this the easiest way out, without even trying to get on the same track??

@Tanu And I so agree with you here, Rama has always given chance to her marriage..its Mohan who needs to put a rest to her insecurities.

@Bold Which is why i think that two people should be given loads of time to know each other well and be open because if you arent urself, then the other person will never know. Like thats for Mohan and Rama, their marriages were decided. They cudnt say yes or no. While as AnYa, have been together and know each other well (actualyl not really but lets just say they do 😆) and they know each others personality and how compatible they are. It depends on everyones situation when they got married and on what basis they got married on seperating regarding compatibility. Example if a couple like AnYa said they arent compatible after 2 months then thats not justified at all!!

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soapliker

@soapliker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#576

@ all I am loving this convo.

Nidhs you raised a valid point. Today's gen if things do not go bad think immediately of divorce and that is not rite . But I feel for the older gen. They feel that they have no say but to stay married. Is that rite. I am not talking of marital affairs. I am talking of incompatibility, lack of communication etc . What about OM and DA Sr. I feel for her coz he is forever barking at her and she is taking it all in. Is that rite.

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Nicky

@Richaarora

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Posted: 14 years ago

#577

@Shilpa - IKR! This question must have popped up in his mind many times as to why can't he leave or reply back. But somewhere it's also true that the base of the story lies in between. It's about how Anant and Navya try to be modern yet traditional in their methods and try to 'stay uniquely Indian' Leaving their homes won't be the right message to the viewers, how to tackle the situation will be 😊

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ZOHR

@coolzohr

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Posted: 14 years ago

#578

hi guys n sorry 2 disturb u all but

i cant understand how can thew cv's do so much injustice 2 the bajpais how can the whole bajpai's character change ..guys do u remember the 2nd epi whn baba understood anant's problem n again tht ice cream wala scenario even thn baba supported anant but what has happend now??/why r the cv's shaping anant's family 2 an over negetive exent n navya's family 2 an over positive extent...i think very soon Anant will also bcome negetive if this type of story line continues

what so ever i m very disappointed with the cv's 4 making a family tht was sumwhat real into an over conservative family ..i knw tht they wanna follow their tradition but dont v follow our traditions thn y r they shown as the 1's who r always wrong..guys dont u think this is an injustice 2 the bajpaai's..as well as the show

SORRY 2 SAY THIS BUT THIS SHOW HAS LOST ITS CHARM

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laddoo598

@laddoo598

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Posted: 14 years ago

#579

@Nicky: Rama craves for more because she really doesn't have worth cherishing in her life..Her in laws are monsters and expect her to cook, clean, serve, bear children and keep her mouth shut..Basically she is a refined version of a maid..And her hubby seems the least bit interested in her as he has already made up his mind about the fate of their marriage without even trying at first..She has every reason to feel insecure..Yes, because she has that evil streak in her, she deals with her insecurities by resorting to bitchy antics..

Edit: I can't believe I am defending witchy witch..😆

Edited by laddoo598 - 14 years ago

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appu_12

@appu_12

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Posted: 14 years ago

#580

@ Nicky- hey u r right, Mohan did try, he wanted to start everything fresh with Rama after that Shagun kissa and the false preggo alarm! But however much he tried I think Rama is too cheap to understand his mental level. She again went back to her usual self of jealousy and insecurity. I think they are indeed very incompatible, wavelength doesnt match at all.

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