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Aaru77

@Aaru77

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

aahana and yashi, diya mads cant agree to more what u guys said

Exactly with ash she is same as gunjan who has a the inner strength to go head and accept what comes her way.. But just like Samrat when she away from the present she is holding to her past which she does not want to accept and which she reinforces it by living like Nupur.. and yesterday's Majan scenes just conveyed that, she is living as Nupur would have and wanted , she is keeping her alive by doing things which Nupur would have done---- as she says in her convo with nups photo i am trying to be like u to make people happy. She becomes Nupur to the world with a view that she strong and face them. her Scene with rohan justifies that she did behave like nups and again her confrontation with ash that like her di she is worried abt her..

And i think that's also the reason for her shifting btn jiju and mayank. Jiju will break her, while with the name mayank she maintains the distance from being related to him and Nupur. just like u know that person in two different ways like for eg i have my best friend as my boss .. so when it comes to work we maintain that distance to keep emotions at bay... so when she is emotional down she shifts to jiju where she finds a security of support to hold her emotions.. remember the last scene of the crossover episode..

And for mayank reaction on her behaviour is just that he is not able to understand the reason... of her change at times.. and hence has been unable to help her..

Its just that she has to break down emotionaly and accept that nupur is dead and that can be done only by samrat. and thats only possible when she see him and faces him , vents out to him..

Edited by aarthi.ramani - 15 years ago

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devilofkindness

@devilofkindness

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

in the scene where gunjan was talking with Nupzi's photo, i saw a lonely gunjan, Mayank didnt act as a healer....Its gunjan whose supporting him, I havent witnessed even a single scene where mayank is consoling Gunjan...have u guys? did i miss out anywhere? He usually agrees with her...thts all.

so true .....u said it !!!!

but as far as my view goes ....gunjan is lonely and is still trying her level best 2 b chirpy ....but now samrat is the one who has no one by hisside.

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Aani

@EkPaheli

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Posted: 15 years ago

#53

guys perhaps i think thou not a sisterly thing i just remembered this poem i had read in school ... somewhere on the same lines of this track's context ... may be i am crazy but i totally loved and adored this poem in school and hence i suppose it came back to me today 😳😳

u may think i am crazy 😆 but couldnt resist

Home They Brought Her Warrior Dead
by Alfred Tennyson

Home they brought her warrior dead:
She nor swooned, nor uttered cry:
All her maidens, watching, said,
'She must weep or she will die.'

Then they praised him, soft and low,
Called him worthy to be loved,
Truest friend and noblest foe;
Yet she neither spoke nor moved.

Stole a maiden from her place,
Lightly to the warrior stept,
Took the face-cloth from the face;
Yet she neither moved nor wept.

Rose a nurse of ninety years,
Set his child upon her knee—
Like summer tempest came her tears—
'Sweet my child, I live for thee.'

i think this poem basically explains the need to accept our grief mostly ... the widow over here is numbed by the news of her husband dying but her child is the shock - the reason that jolted her back to reality snapping her - and also with the tears acknowledging that despite the grief she has to live and move on - her child now her reason for living

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mads

@mads

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: aahana86
guys perhaps i think thou not a sisterly thing i just remembered this poem i had read in school ... somewhere on the same lines of this track's context ... may be i am crazy but i totally loved and adored this poem in school and hence i suppose it came back to me today 😳😳

u may think i am crazy 😆 but couldnt resist

Home They Brought Her Warrior Dead
by Alfred Tennyson

Home they brought her warrior dead:
She nor swooned, nor uttered cry:
All her maidens, watching, said,
'She must weep or she will die.'

Then they praised him, soft and low,
Called him worthy to be loved,
Truest friend and noblest foe;
Yet she neither spoke nor moved.

Stole a maiden from her place,
Lightly to the warrior stept,
Took the face-cloth from the face;
Yet she neither moved nor wept.
Rose a nurse of ninety years,
Set his child upon her knee'
Like summer tempest came her tears'
'Sweet my child, I live for thee.'

i think this poem basically explains the need to accept our grief mostly ... the widow over here is numbed by the news of her husband dying but her child is the shock - the reason that jolted her back to reality snapping her - and also with the tears acknowledging that despite the grief she has to live and move on - her child now her reason for living

ahaana this poem is sooo BEAUTIFUL .. I remember crying buckets when I'd read this back during my school days .. its sooo soo beautiful that thers no words for it ..

its like, she is numbed the the news of her husband and she has lost ALL the will power to live.. because what can she live for, when a part of her is gone? her soul is gone? and then when the nurse places the child on her lap she realises, that God has still given her a chance to live..via that child, thats a part of HIM .. a part of THEM..God snatched away her reason for living, but gave her a new reason to live instead .. she wud live him via her child ..and she wud give her child all the joy that thy both had thought of giving her .. and she can only accept her husband's death when she realised her reason of living ..

this poem is sooo beautiful..thanks soo much for putting it here 🤗 its gotten me all nostalgic..

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Aani

@EkPaheli

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: mads

ahaana this poem is sooo BEAUTIFUL .. I remember crying buckets when I'd read this back during my school days .. its sooo soo beautiful that thers no words for it ..

its like, she is numbed the the news of her husband and she has lost ALL the will power to live.. because what can she live for, when a part of her is gone? her soul is gone? and then when the nurse places the child on her lap she realises, that God has still given her a chance to live..via that child, thats a part of HIM .. a part of THEM..God snatched away her reason for living, but gave her a new reason to live instead .. she wud live him via her child ..and she wud give her child all the joy that thy both had thought of giving her .. and she can only accept her husband's death when she realised her reason of living ..

this poem is sooo beautiful..thanks soo much for putting it here 🤗 its gotten me all nostalgic..

aww mads🤗 thx hun .. i know the poem is so lovely that despite all these years i could still so recollect it 😳

i rem i loved this so much it really moved me to tears as well so glad ... that u felt i wasnt crazy for posting this ...cause somehow today in this situation it just came to me

like that widow feels she has lost her reason of living and her will to live which numbs her so much ... that despite all the efforts from everyone around her they couldnt break her and get her to agree to the truth - which was needed badly - as is the case with Gunjan today - the loss of her Di has numbed her so - that she hasnt cried even once nor a single tear has been shed by her to date....

and like the widow she needs to cry - cry badly - cause it's what will make her pain decrease - and like that Nurse who is shown to know what was needed to be done as she had seen life and was a wise and experienced woman - here Sammy will need to do something as well drastically - only he'd have the capacity to make her realize - the reason of her own existence, her living even without her Di 😳

Edited by aahana86 - 15 years ago

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mads

@mads

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Posted: 15 years ago

#56

^^ yup u said it ahaana .. and thats the reason of his living too..like he said the other day when he met her .. reliving her ofher pain and grief .. whether or not they get back together, is something he isnt thinking abt..right now, he jus wants to relive her off her pain ..

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Swetha

@Sweka

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#57

A very good post! From what has been shown, Gunjan is all chirpy to lessen the burden of Mayank who has lost his wife but heart of hearts, she is lonely and you're right, even I don't remember Mayank consoling Gunjan but yes he did try to convince her to forgive Samrat. But somehow I don't really like the idea of celebrating Nupur's birthday in this manner. According to me, I don't think doing so is going to make Gunjan or Mayank feel any better!

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Aani

@EkPaheli

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: mads
^^ yup u said it ahaana .. and thats the reason of his living too..like he said the other day when he met her .. reliving her ofher pain and grief .. whether or not they get back together, is something he isnt thinking abt..right now, he jus wants to relive her off her pain ..

exactly mads .. man that scene had so moved me to tears 😭😭😭😭

god he was broken so much himself yet he knew what had stopped him - not the urge to get back together - no the need to console her and relieve her of the huge pain and grief she's carried all along

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Swetha

@Sweka

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: aahana86
guys perhaps i think thou not a sisterly thing i just remembered this poem i had read in school ... somewhere on the same lines of this track's context ... may be i am crazy but i totally loved and adored this poem in school and hence i suppose it came back to me today 😳😳

u may think i am crazy 😆 but couldnt resist

Home They Brought Her Warrior Dead
by Alfred Tennyson

Home they brought her warrior dead:
She nor swooned, nor uttered cry:
All her maidens, watching, said,
'She must weep or she will die.'

Then they praised him, soft and low,
Called him worthy to be loved,
Truest friend and noblest foe;
Yet she neither spoke nor moved.

Stole a maiden from her place,
Lightly to the warrior stept,
Took the face-cloth from the face;
Yet she neither moved nor wept.

Rose a nurse of ninety years,
Set his child upon her knee'
Like summer tempest came her tears'
'Sweet my child, I live for thee.'

i think this poem basically explains the need to accept our grief mostly ... the widow over here is numbed by the news of her husband dying but her child is the shock - the reason that jolted her back to reality snapping her - and also with the tears acknowledging that despite the grief she has to live and move on - her child now her reason for living

Its a beautiful poem Aahana😊 Thanks for sharing😃

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AnotherAdmirer

@AnotherAdmirer

Rocker

+ 6

Posted: 15 years ago

#60

When I posted this thread, i didnt know that it will turn out to be so beautiful by such amazing replies..!
I was basically confused with gunjan's behaviour,but after reading each and evry1's reply here, i can understand gunjan so much better...!
Thanx guys!😊
Hats Off to all of u!👏👏

Edited by VampirePrincess - 15 years ago

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