Is Gunjan's behaviour Normal?

Hi! Nice post! 🤗

Her behavioral change to me is something really good. Honestly, I like this changed GUNJAN better! Out of the Chashmish shell, finally.

Mayank lately, hasn't really consoled her, I agree. But they still have been there for each other and that in itself is more than enough.

Samrat is being ill treated, I will be stick to this. The guy doesn't deserve being ssssssssssooooooooo lonely! I pity him. 😭

-Kanky

Thanx Jiah for replying....Yeah the reason for the change is gud, but trying to be sum1 u arent is wrong i feel.
I always wanted gunjan to come out of her shell and she did to an extent but this change i feel wierd to accept it..i dunno y. This change is not gud, its hurting me sumwhere.

Well i dont knw abt mayank, his presence ermm thts my question actually.
She is the one whose supporting him...and its not happening the other way.
Infact she has taken it upon herself to be with mayank always....thts like going blind, not thinking abt herself.
I think sumwhere Gunjan Died along with Nupur.😭
I agree with u abt samrat.
Its pretty late...logging off for now G'Nite😊

Originally posted by: VampirePrincess

Thanx Jiah for replying....Yeah the reason for the change is gud, but trying to be sum1 u arent is wrong i feel.
I always wanted gunjan to come out of her shell and she did to an extent but this change i feel wierd to accept it..i dunno y. This change is not gud, its hurting me sumwhere.

Well i dont knw abt mayank, his presence ermm thts my question actually.
She is the one whose supporting him...and its not happening the other way.
Infact she has taken it upon herself to be with mayank always....thts like going blind, not thinking abt herself.
I think sumwhere Gunjan Died along with Nupur.😭
I agree with u abt samrat.

Bolded Agree and I think she can cme bak wid Samrats help and Mayanks as well lets hope the CVs dont do smething stupid like Aish-Sam cause thats gonna be relli sad and i think that the left over SaJan fans that watch the show will leave to

Originally posted by: VampirePrincess

Hey Guys

Most Of us have noticed and expressed our displeasure in the way samrat is being treated, but after today's episode, i feel that Its Not only Samrat whose Lonely, Even Gunjan...

So easily i said that Gunjan and Mayank had each other in these 3 years, didnt know that these words will be nagging me one day.

Have Mayank and Gunjan really supported each other? Yes but in what way?

Gunjan is trying to keep a positive attitude towards life, just like nupur.
for Gunjan- Nupur became an inspiration.
Gunjan has set herself the way nupur used to be.
And that is why Gunjan has changed. That is why we are wondering abt her nature...n her wierd behaviour.

But amidst all this, in the scene where gunjan was talking with Nupzi's photo, i saw a lonely gunjan, Mayank didnt act as a healer....Its gunjan whose supporting him, I havent witnessed even a single scene where mayank is consoling Gunjan...have u guys? did i miss out anywhere? He usually agrees with her...thts all.

Gunjan lives in her own artificial world, honestly does anyone act so bubbly and chirpy on their dead sister's bday?
Even i celebrate the bday of my late cousin alone, but not like gunjan....not so happy n u knw...that was wierd actually.

I was quite shocked when she asked mayank about the gift, is the girl sane? really m like i dont like to say this but i question her sanity on this day.
What do u guys think..m really surprised by her behaviour😕

zeejay, brilliant post!!!!
Something has been nagging me the last couple of days about Gunjan and you put it into words. We have discussed earlier that Gunjan is lonely, in pain ... as you said, Mayank has not been consoling her, she has always been consoling him, being the stronger one for him ... right from the first hospital scene ...

Yesterday what clicked was the colors that Gunjan has been wearing ... bright bold colors, the colors that Nups used to wear always ... Gunjan was always o r almost always in pastels or softer colors ...
and her use of 'BY God' ... ok, that one could be coincidental ...

and today, you're right, the way she was so excessively chirpy and bubbly ... it was not normal or natural ... it was as though she's playing a part, that of her sister ... keeping her alive ...

and then go back to her dialogue with Nups picture ... main apnon ke liye tumhare tarah banne ki koshish kar rahi hun ...

What you're saying is very right ... it's as though she's on the brink of a break down, because she's trying to be something she's not ... trying to hold on to Nupur, unable to let her go ... because of her own guilt feelings ... that nupur died, when she, Gunjan, should have died, so she's trying to keep Nupur alive ... by BEING nupur ... as much as she can ...

and that is also why she's running away from Samrat ... because if she meets Samrat , it's not just Samrat she meets, it's Gunjan ... and she's trying to kill Gunjan ... so that Nupur can live ...

I dunno if the CV's are thinking this deep ... but if they are ... it's gonna be tough to get her out of this ... and again, only when she can find herself again, find gunjan, let go of nupur, can this happen
and this can only happen when she finds Samrat again ... the person with whom she could be secure, confident, confident about being gunjan ... being herself

hope i made some sense here

hon she is not okay...she is pretending.....because inside she is just as messed up as Samrat....but for her sister's sake she is trying her best to cheer up Mayank....but then what else is new?...this is how gunjan has always been....always puting her own pain away for other people.....

@Diya...Smart thinking..wonder where you come up wid all this from 😉

jokes apart...she is definitely in some sort of delusion..where she is recreating some one else vis a vis herself...someone she so hopes was still around...and in the bargain doesnt mind losing herself...or should I say deliberately LOST herself...and is scared..to face her past in the form of excel and Sam that reminds her of the GUNJAN..she locked up..or thinks died in that accident.. hence she is clearly running away from him..not coz she blames him but she blames both..and cant stand the risk of facing either ...THE SAMRAT and THE GUNJAN...that would completely throw her at the edge..

and I see 2 options..of a dramatic breakdown..through meeting samrat..and facing her worst fears..ending her spell of denial..or a slow progressive melt down...through rohan and ash..by re-living the old spirited days of youthfulness..that can bring her out of her self imposed exile from Individuality

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

@Diya...Smart thinking..wonder where you come up wid all this from 😉

jokes apart...she is definitely in some sort of delusion..where she is recreating some one else vis a vis herself...someone she so hopes was still around...and in the bargain doesnt mind losing herself...or should I say deliberately LOST herself...and is scared..to face her past in the form of excel and Sam that reminds her of the GUNJAN..she locked up..or thinks died in that accident.. hence she is clearly running away from him..not coz she blames him but she blames both..and cant stand the risk of facing either ...THE SAMRAT and THE GUNJAN...that would completely throw her at the edge..

and I see 2 options..of a dramatic breakdown..through meeting samrat..and facing her worst fears..ending her spell of denial..or a slow progressive melt down...through rohan and ash..by re-living the old spirited days of youthfulness..that can bring her out of her self imposed exile from Individuality

I like the 2nd option better .. because right now I dont think sam is in a condition to get her out of it .. he himself is so lost .. unless he finds himself again, he wont be able to make her meet herself..and unless he makes her meet herself .. she wont be herself again ..

so I can see option number two happening for a long time..and option number one wud b the end of it all ..

Gunjan has alwqays been very caring for others....and now that shes in such a mess herself she will still put an effort in making others smile!...its her nature!!!