Is Gunjan's behaviour Normal? - Page 7

Hey Zeejay! 🤗 🤗
Awsome post dear.. M glad that the topic turned out to be soo beautiful and deap..
You know, there is nothing left for me to add on.. My lovely sajan friends covered it all and in a beautiful and mature way.. Hats off to them.. 👏
I would just like to say this to those who think that may be we are thinking way too deep and the CVs are not thinking in the way we all are.. I agree to some extent.. But when SaJan are concerned, CVs have never disappointed us.. And thanks to mads for pointing this out too.. :)
They have ALWAYS shown us what we DID want to see.. Be it SaJan's understanding, emotional bonding and their essence.. In my opinion, they have ALWAYS done justice to Sajan tracks and thats why i am still HOPING from them that they have something GOOD in store for us..
And I think that whatever we are analysing here about Gunjan's condition, it is true and the CVs are thinking THAT deep this time.. I dont know why, but i am having vibes that CVs are REALLY trying to show us the IMPACT of such life changing incidents and the different ways in which people react to such incidents.. Hope that my hopes dont go down the drain.. Fingers crossed!
Love,
Sum..

NOT SURE!!!!!!!!!!!!! DUNT WANT MAYANK AND GUNJAN 2GETHER!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: aahana86

guys perhaps i think thou not a sisterly thing i just remembered this poem i had read in school ... somewhere on the same lines of this track's context ... may be i am crazy but i totally loved and adored this poem in school and hence i suppose it came back to me today 😳😳

u may think i am crazy 😆 but couldnt resist

Home They Brought Her Warrior Dead
by Alfred Tennyson

Home they brought her warrior dead:
She nor swooned, nor uttered cry:
All her maidens, watching, said,
'She must weep or she will die.'

Then they praised him, soft and low,
Called him worthy to be loved,
Truest friend and noblest foe;
Yet she neither spoke nor moved.

Stole a maiden from her place,
Lightly to the warrior stept,
Took the face-cloth from the face;
Yet she neither moved nor wept.

Rose a nurse of ninety years,
Set his child upon her knee'
Like summer tempest came her tears'
'Sweet my child, I live for thee.'

i think this poem basically explains the need to accept our grief mostly ... the widow over here is numbed by the news of her husband dying but her child is the shock - the reason that jolted her back to reality snapping her - and also with the tears acknowledging that despite the grief she has to live and move on - her child now her reason for living

aahana, what a beautiful poem, I remember it from my schooldays and it never fails to move me ... and it's totally in context, hun ... because the sense of loss is the same for any loved one, be it parent, sister, brother or love ... and you need HOPE to carry on, a reason for living ...

Tnaks for posting this!!!

So true yaar! She just needs to GET REAL and GET OVER IT! Sheesh! It's supposedly been three years! She can't live in a fake world! No offence but Gunjan doesn't even have her own life right and she's advising others...? Hmmm....I also questioned her sanity today....