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Originally posted by: annie07

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Muski, wonderfully said...........and welcome back..............😊

Ok, dreams and aspirations as u rightly said are a person's identity, the things that shapes up his. her personality................. you be the way u see urself in ur dreams..............

Mayank Sharma, was a focused guy, he had his goals set, his path chalked out and he worked diligently towards it..............day and night........ Falling in love was not a part of his plan, but he did....... it was another transition of his character, and there was nothing wrong in it. But then, somehere down the line he started losing his focus.............his determination.......

And i dnt think Nupur is to be blamed in this, she never asked him to change for her, it was a choice he made, and that was his mistake.

I can so feel his guilt and pain now.............he realises that this is not what he wanted to be...........he wanted more and he deviated from his goal path..........But knowing him, having realised that, he wll work with double zeal and achieve all that he wants...............he will make a better life for himself, his mom and his wife.

Coming to Nupur, she has always been a dreamer, and her aspirations were not specific, but vague............to find her prince charming, to be famous............to be something........
She found her soulmate in Mayank, and that was like her dreams being fulfilled.........as Muskan said.........
But now that her ambition to be an actress has been broken, she feels there is no more dreams left for her, no paths............yes, i can understand her feelings too........its like her entire being has been shaken...........but she will find new dreams..........surely she is a telented girl.......and she just needs to introspect and find that thing in her.........

I agree when Muskan said, that whether u get what u aspire for is luck, but one should never give up.........................

I agree Annie that Mayank was extremely focused.....it was not only his dream, it was his way of life. If you see his aspiration and dreams shaped his personality and the moment he lost it he was not himself. He became a total new person. Yes, since love is a beautiful thing he changed for good but to what extent....he couldn't decide that. He let that feeling take him over completely. Later or sooner this realisation had to happen if you talk realistically.....considering the fact that they are just characters but it happens. As I said, nobody is to be blamed. But, once that realisation comes people do blame themselves for not being able to balance things out or still hold on to their dreams. And that brings guilt and sadness with it.

Originally posted by: talkativetaurus

sorry muskaan. but i cant share anything as u said everything perfectly and i m not a good one with this! keep it up ... i can understand mayank very well.............

Thanks for reading and replying..... 🤗

Originally posted by: -Jess-

Muskan, welcome back.... and great topic as usual.... you beautifully wrote and echoed the exact same feelings that I had after watching recent MN scenes.... you put them in better words....

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I'll post my same thoughts that I posted in Tanu's topic yday....

<div>Reality bites.... that's what I would call today's MN scene.... it was reality bites for each of them.... Nupur realized that her dream of becoming an actress is skipped away and it's hard to watch it someone elseliving that dream right in front of your eyes... no matter hoe big is your heart to let go of those dreams for your sister, you are still human and it's gonna hurt you deep inside... because you didn't even get a chance to opt for your dream.... that's harsh reality bites for Nupur...!!

She is mad and hurt and comes to her ultimate comforting part of her life... her husband... who is her only living dream.... her only reality that is beautiful than a dream....what else would a simple girl would want?.... a loving and caring husband.... a perfect soulmate.... but when she comes and talks to him about Neil and his attitude, Mayank comes across his own reality bites.... he realizes that he himself used be such focused guy with attitude like Neil. Mayank too once used to be a planner, an achiever....who knew very well what he wanted from life...and set his goals accordingly..... but his reality bites are more harsh than Nupur's.... he lost his dreams, his focus, his goals in the day to day struggle of married life and student life and part-time job. Getting such responsibilites at a very early stage in your life can take it's toll... and that's what has happened to Mayank... MN were forced to marry at early age because of the circumstances... they held strong for each other after marriage.... she became part of his life...and her world became his world... isn't that marriage supposed to be?.... you accept each other's world...no matter how different it is from yours... Mayank used be a loner, focussed guy... and now Nupur's world...her friends, her family became his world... but in the process, he became just a part of the gang... with too many things happening in life...day to day struggle, he lost touch with his goals.... his promises that he made to himself... for better future...better career...taking care of his Mom.... he lost the touch with his dreams... and that reality is very harsh.... more than broken dreams... because he hasn't workedtowards fulfilling his dreams yet...

She lost her dream due to destiny....and that's harsh.... but he lost the touch with his dreams and goals... he did not work towards them.... that is even more harsh reality...

I hope Mayank Sharma gets back in touchwith his goals... and takes his wife's hand in achieving these goals.... for they are part of each other... and their dreams are one... Nupur is right in her own way, that if we have love in life, we don't want anything more... because love itself will take you to new heights... if you believe in each other, love eachotherand if you care for each other's happiness, then you will see the dreams together and fulfil them together.....

MN journey is very interesting ahead... let's hope for best... I wish creatives don't play with MN characters again showing Nupur immatured...and showing Mayank regretting his marriage....

Thankyou Jess.... 🤗
Since I already wrote a lot about Mayank lol and u summed it up too i'll take up another aspect to it which even you mentioned. Nupur and their relationship as a married couple. Yes Nupur had a dream of becoming an actress but even after being in Mumbai she was not shown going for auditions or anything. She did leave her dream to destiny. Destiny was kind enough to give her chance which unfortunately did not work out. If this opportunity didn't came up what would have she done. Probably later in life went on for auditions. So what exactly changed? Yes this was a rare opportunity ....got missed ....call it bad luck but is Neel and his movie the only thing that there is. If Neel never came to college, her dream would have shattered??? No ....so it is not over for her too. If she wishes to still pursue her dream of becoming an actress she can, and instead of dreaming only..... can actually work towards it by going for ad film auditions, TV shows, or movies. So, yes she is hurt but it's still not over if only she sees it that way.

About their relationship.....Mayank has been there for her always. Post marriage sister fight....when she would shout at him he still would stand by her side, console her, help her. He badly needs her this time. Yes she is hurt over her dream not fulfilling but if she can forget her pain for Gunjan and stand by her side throughout i'd like to see her doing the same for Mayank in coming days.

This is a track i can very much relate to and the emotions of both M n N as well...

I worked my a** off for my dreams - 12 years of my life I lived n breathed those dreams then with a heavy heart opted to walk away. I thought I had lost "me" when I walked away and like Mayank felt that somewhere along the way maybe I lost my focus. And like Nupur felt the bittersweet burn of seeing others living my dream....

Originally posted by: loving_bird

heyy muskan

wowwww what a post .......u said it all .....its hard on mayank's part taht he lost the dream which eh worked for day-nite he was focused & determined towards that ........wanted to achieve that dream ........where he worked also on it .........

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they shown his self releasation very well ........

i will write more on this ....give me sumtime to gather a thought on it .......

as u said everything .........& even jess also stated this sameyest in my post

<em>will edit more 😊

Thanks Tanu 🤗
will love to read your thoughts on it.....

Originally posted by: Mou.

Like always ,It was wonderfully written post Muski.& thank u for coming back .......i m really happy!!!!!🤗

I can't agree with u more....U should never let go off ur dreams ..may be opportunities of fulfilling it never comes itself knocking at ur door..but that shouldn't be an exacuse .life is like that, it will hv it own turns & twist..but its upto a person which path he should go.He can always go for the easy way, compromise & forget his dreams & later regret .or he can work hard ,make opportunities for himself..for fulfilling his dream.......

& i believe mayank sharma has taken the 2nd way.& it just what we expected him to do! he lost his focus from his dream for sometime.& thank god unlike others, he realized it very soon in his life....so he still hv his chances to achieve all he wanted to achieve in life!!!! His realization hit him hard today...it was disappointing for him& he was upset abt how things of life hv changed him so much that its hard for him to accept that he is the same old mayank!!!!but it was much needed....& i know a person like him will not waste more time regretting abt this fact rather he will try his heart out to achieve his dreams now!!!!!!!

&nupur......She was always a dreamer with full faith on herself...but .its hard time for her.She was so close to her dream .but lost it...& this was her only dream ..............as the other one is already fulfilled.......So, sudden emptiness is surrounding her right now....she just need to deal with this situation..She still can try to catch her dream & i strongly wish she do so.I just cannot support the idea of her let her dreams go off! she shouldn't . but the reality is different for her now.So, she need to hv a .career .(not dream)...first ., for herself & for Mayank.for their life together..& she should go for it to fill up the empty place of her heart.who knows she may find out a hidden talent inside her & just become successful..& yeah! if she work hard & ..has talent...somehow she will reach to her dream also...but needed she never forget it.....
So, all in all ..Both of them r going through a difficult phase ..& this is so real for a couple that i m waiting eagerly to watch how mayank & nupur face this situation ! I always love the reality factor abt this couple & I think it will be treat to watch their journey together to achieve a better tomorrow for themselves!
thanks once again muski.......for this topic & for coming back to the forum!!!!!!

Thanks Mou....🤗
I agree with you.....sp. about Nupur as I mentioned the same thing in my reply to Jess. It's not over for her. Mayank's career and dream was the same though being in love made him forget that. He just needs to realise that he has to balance out things so he can have both. This might take a while as all he has been doing lately is being a boyfriend or a husband so this sudden shift will be difficult. Nupur's dream and career can be one too if she decides to go that way. Even if she doesn't she can still keep this dream alive while she finds a career for herself. Since she is in college right now the path to her career is same as Mayank's. All she needs to do is walk with him.

Originally posted by: mayurworld

wow, I just love this topic. So beautifully written. You said everything. MJHT is showing realityof life. I can understand how mayank is feeling right now. When you have goal and you don't achieve for some reason it really hurts. Mayank and I have so much in common. I love to study and have goals but my grades went down cuz all my friends keep telling to relax and chill. When I look back to the way I was such a studious student in college, but I laid back and took everything easy. Classes I could have aced, but didn't. I am getting myself back to track such like mayank. It is fasciasting when don't achieve you want to achieve, you yell and upset with people around you.

Hey Thanks for ur reply and for liking my post....
It is reality of life. Guess at a certain point we all choose or loose something over other. But sooner or later no matter how good or bad our choices have been we remember that dream we left behind. If u are lucky u get an opportunity to fulfill it....if u aren't then it's lost forever though it keeps hurting u all ur life. Like you, I can totally relate to Mayank's situation.
Thanks for sharing ur personal experience with me.... wish u all the best and i'm sure u will achieve what u once dreamed of.

great topic mukan ................i am actually loving this track in mjht ...............it is so realistic ........... and so sensible as well..........now coming to your post .............well mayank as we all know .........used to be a very focussed and dedicated person ........towards his dreams and carrier but yes his life did change after nupur 's entry .............and they fell in love and eventually got married as well................but in all this .......mayank did deviate from his goals his aspirations ....................and dat realisation dawned on himafterhe saw neil oberoi .................he too felt dat wat is he doing with his life ........................and dat he needs to get his focus back ............to fulfill his forgotten dreams ......................this was very much needed for a charcter like mayank and i am happy dat creativeshave shown this ........... now coming to nupur ..............nupur is a girl with so many dreams ....................she always dreamed of her prince charming ............her raj ..............a beautiful wedding and her sapnon ka mahal ...................though she did het the love of her life but her marraife was not as she wanted ................and futrher more her dream of becoming an actress also got shattered but dat isnt da end ...............and finally nupur realised it and now she is searching for a job as well................and i so want her to see her making a carrier and supporting mayank ...........both of them togteher making their life more beautiful better .............as mayank said unlessold dreams shatter how will we dream of something new ..................life is not a bed of roses ...............there are so many ups and downs .........ad oftern all are dreams dont even come true but dat shoudnt stop us from dreaming ............coz unless we dream of soemething , ho can we hope see it turning into reality ...........all i want for MN is dat ...............both should support each other in realising their dreams .................and i am sure dat with their love and support for each other they can overcome all the hardships theyre faced with ..................

yes dreams r very precious that can understand only who hav seen dreams in life.