While making a choice....

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While making a choice....do not forget to live your dream!

Dream.....

A condition or achievement that is longed for; an aspiration....it was for Mayank to be a successful man one day and free her mom of all responsibilities.
One that is exceptionally gratifying, excellent, or beautiful.....it was for Nupur to become an actress one day and also to meet her prince charming.

Mayank worked towards his dream every single day. He studied hard, excelled in academics, was extremely focused. Nupur, on the other hand lived her dream every day by believing in herself and hoping that one day her dream will become a reality and all she needed was a chance.

We all probably start to dream when we are not influenced or affected by the outside world and nothing else corrupts our imagination. As life goes by we start making choices, some practical ones some emotional. Slowly, these choices take over the dream that once gave meaning to our lives.
Mayank's aspirations took a back seat when he fell in love. His focus shifted and his priorities changed. He turned into someone he was not, "Raj" a fantasy of his lady love yet, he found solace in her happiness. He was now living a dream that was exceptionally gratifying, excellent and beautiful but he forgot that being completely caught up in this one he is forgetting the dream that he once aspired for.

It was different for Nupur. She never had to choose one over the other. She had a certain image of her prince charming and Mayank didn't match that at first but he surely was the guy who challenged that image. He was someone she could fall for regardless of it and she did. In spite of the specifications which were more of decorated version to her dream of finding love, she was very clear about Sam not being the one when Mayank asked about him at Mishra palace. Although Sam was exactly the kind of guy she dreamed about. Instead she was getting drawn towards Mayank without even realising it herself. Guess in matters of love, heart knows exactly what it wants. Nupur's second dream of becoming an actress never got sidelined either. It was something that always stayed with her and did not get buried under responsibilities or her falling in love with Mayank, even though he had no interest in films or anything filmy which of course didn't stay that way for long. Unfortunately, she saw her dream crashing. She was deeply hurt and lost her motive. It was shown beautifully. But, as Mayank said this will give way to new ones.

I believe that when u have a dream and you do everything possible to make it a reality yet, it doesn't fulfill..... you have destiny to blame but if you let your dream suffer for the choices you made, there comes a day when you look back and you have no one to blame but yourself. Your life looses its meaning and you are left with nothing but sadness and guilt. That's how it was for Mayank today. He had hopes, dreams and aspirations. He had goals set for himself and just like that he let them all go. His dreams were his identity and he lost it and nothing can be more painful than that.

I can understand the disappointment and sadness Mayank's character feels right now. His whole life flashed in front of him and he was shocked at himself for letting go of something he once lived for. His self confidence is all time low. He is a guy who believes in himself and once he sets his mind to something he will dp anything to achieve it. He let himself loose it once but this hurtful realisation will make him more determined and focused than ever. something he needs to do for himself. If he doesn't he will never be the same mayank ever again. I wish his mom was here as just her presence gave him strength.

This being a reality of life and something we all can relate to I can just say you should never let go off your dream. If it gets fulfilled....it's luck and hardwork, If it breaks.... it's destiny dream again but, if you leave your own dream behind...... there is nobody you can blame but yourself as those unfulfilled dreams may be forgotten but are never lost only the opportunity to fulfill may and you will be left wondering all your life....... WHAT IF?......

Feel free to share your views about it as i'm sure we all can relate to it in some way or other. Sorry for scaring u guys with such a longgggggg post......

Muskan

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Muski, wonderfully said...........and welcome back..............😊

Ok, dreams and aspirations as u rightly said are a person's identity, the things that shapes up his. her personality................. you be the way u see urself in ur dreams..............

Mayank Sharma, was a focused guy, he had his goals set, his path chalked out and he worked diligently towards it..............day and night........ Falling in love was not a part of his plan, but he did....... it was another transition of his character, and there was nothing wrong in it. But then, somehere down the line he started losing his focus.............his determination.......

And i dnt think Nupur is to be blamed in this, she never asked him to change for her, it was a choice he made, and that was his mistake.

I can so feel his guilt and pain now.............he realises that this is not what he wanted to be...........he wanted more and he deviated from his goal path..........But knowing him, having realised that, he wll work with double zeal and achieve all that he wants...............he will make a better life for himself, his mom and his wife.

Coming to Nupur, she has always been a dreamer, and her aspirations were not specific, but vague............to find her prince charming, to be famous............to be something........
She found her soulmate in Mayank, and that was like her dreams being fulfilled.........as Muskan said.........
But now that her ambition to be an actress has been broken, she feels there is no more dreams left for her, no paths............yes, i can understand her feelings too........its like her entire being has been shaken...........but she will find new dreams..........surely she is a telented girl.......and she just needs to introspect and find that thing in her.........

I agree when Muskan said, that whether u get what u aspire for is luck, but one should never give up.........................

Edited by annie07 - 15 years ago
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not seen yet will post my comment tomorrow

but happy to see you in Forums 😆


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The main thing in ones Life to achieve their goals while making decisions we have to keep track on that

Mayank now realized that he lost his focus on his goals seeing Neel He is in state of regretting that he wasted time and lost his focus but now he can concentrate and achieve that nothing is lost for him now he can get into right track of achieving goal but for Nupur she is totally shattered her dream is lost now she c't get on to that any more first she should accept that and them move on thinking that this is not my destiny one thing left to her is love and making mayank to realize she is there for him and giving moral support for him

Mayank is always clear and focused his goal is realistic and for that he has to study and gain more knowledge but Nupur her goal is ambiguous she is dreaming of one thing one and doing another to became an actress she have to attend admissions this is just a luck that Neel came to their colg yah but she lost a golden opportunity if no Neel there is no much difference for her in life she is happy and think that I want to be an actress that it to achieve one must be clear and should work for that mayank is doing that and he can do that now also and even Nupur she can achieve that if she can attend auditions in colg why c't outside? If she thinks that she is married she should have thought of it before doing that he happy with her decision of getting married to Mayank so she have to leave her dreams now and set new goals and try to like mayank's life rather than searching for herself

So I feel while making decisions we have to think about our goals and dreams if we fell that were right and we need to go for it them we shouldn't think that I made a mistake one day if one think like that something is lost in life

Mayank have right focus but Nupur she d't have so she can now think of that leave it and try to achieve her another goal to become a good whife

I think I am in mixed feelings and messed up this one and confused you even I c't clearly understood what I am feeling how can I explain lolz……

Lolz...think my longest comment ever 😆

Edited by susmi-lovemayur - 15 years ago
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sorry muskaan. but i cant share anything as u said everything perfectly and i m not a good one with this! keep it up ... i can understand mayank very well.............
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Muskan, welcome back.... and great topic as usual.... you beautifully wrote and echoed the exact same feelings that I had after watching recent MN scenes.... you put them in better words....
I'll post my same thoughts that I posted in Tanu's topic yday....
Reality bites.... that's what I would call today's MN scene.... it was reality bites for each of them.... Nupur realized that her dream of becoming an actress is skipped away and it's hard to watch it someone else living that dream right in front of your eyes... no matter hoe big is your heart to let go of those dreams for your sister, you are still human and it's gonna hurt you deep inside... because you didn't even get a chance to opt for your dream.... that's harsh reality bites for Nupur...!!
She is mad and hurt and comes to her ultimate comforting part of her life... her husband... who is her only living dream.... her only reality that is beautiful than a dream....what else would a simple girl would want?.... a loving and caring husband.... a perfect soulmate.... but when she comes and talks to him about Neil and his attitude, Mayank comes across his own reality bites.... he realizes that he himself used be such focused guy with attitude like Neil. Mayank too once used to be a planner, an achiever....who knew very well what he wanted from life...and set his goals accordingly..... but his reality bites are more harsh than Nupur's.... he lost his dreams, his focus, his goals in the day to day struggle of married life and student life and part-time job. Getting such responsibilites at a very early stage in your life can take it's toll... and that's what has happened to Mayank... MN were forced to marry at early age because of the circumstances... they held strong for each other after marriage.... she became part of his life...and her world became his world... isn't that marriage supposed to be?.... you accept each other's world...no matter how different it is from yours... Mayank used be a loner, focussed guy... and now Nupur's world...her friends, her family became his world... but in the process, he became just a part of the gang... with too many things happening in life...day to day struggle, he lost touch with his goals.... his promises that he made to himself... for better future...better career...taking care of his Mom.... he lost the touch with his dreams... and that reality is very harsh.... more than broken dreams... because he hasn't worked towards fulfilling his dreams yet...
She lost her dream due to destiny.... and that's harsh.... but he lost the touch with his dreams and goals... he did not work towards them.... that is even more harsh reality...
I hope Mayank Sharma gets back in touch with his goals... and takes his wife's hand in achieving these goals.... for they are part of each other... and their dreams are one... Nupur is right in her own way, that if we have love in life, we don't want anything more... because love itself will take you to new heights... if you believe in each other, love each other and if you care for each other's happiness, then you will see the dreams together and fulfil them together.....
MN journey is very interesting ahead... let's hope for best... I wish creatives don't play with MN characters again showing Nupur immatured...and showing Mayank regretting his marriage....
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heyy muskan
wowwww what a post .......u said it all .....its hard on mayank's part taht he lost the dream which eh worked for day-nite he was focused & determined towards that ........wanted to achieve that dream ........where he worked also on it .........
they shown his self releasation very well ........
i will write more on this ....give me sumtime to gather a thought on it .......
as u said everything .........& even jess also stated this same yest in my post
will edit more 😊
Edited by loving_bird - 15 years ago
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totally agree with each and every word of urs...
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Like always ,It was wonderfully written post Muski.& thank u for coming back .......i m really happy!!!!!🤗

I can't agree with u more....U should never let go off ur dreams ..may be opportunities of fulfilling it never comes itself knocking at ur door..but that shouldn't be an exacuse .life is like that, it will hv it own turns & twist..but its upto a person which path he should go.He can always go for the easy way, compromise & forget his dreams & later regret .or he can work hard ,make opportunities for himself..for fulfilling his dream.......

& i believe mayank sharma has taken the 2nd way.& it just what we expected him to do! he lost his focus from his dream for sometime.& thank god unlike others, he realized it very soon in his life....so he still hv his chances to achieve all he wanted to achieve in life!!!! His realization hit him hard today...it was disappointing for him& he was upset abt how things of life hv changed him so much that its hard for him to accept that he is the same old mayank!!!!but it was much needed....& i know a person like him will not waste more time regretting abt this fact rather he will try his heart out to achieve his dreams now!!!!!!!

&nupur......She was always a dreamer with full faith on herself...but .its hard time for her.She was so close to her dream .but lost it...& this was her only dream ..............as the other one is already fulfilled.......So, sudden emptiness is surrounding her right now....she just need to deal with this situation..She still can try to catch her dream & i strongly wish she do so.I just cannot support the idea of her let her dreams go off! she shouldn't . but the reality is different for her now.So, she need to hv a .career .(not dream)...first ., for herself & for Mayank.for their life together..& she should go for it to fill up the empty place of her heart.who knows she may find out a hidden talent inside her & just become successful..& yeah! if she work hard & ..has talent...somehow she will reach to her dream also...but needed she never forget it.....
So, all in all ..Both of them r going through a difficult phase ..& this is so real for a couple that i m waiting eagerly to watch how mayank & nupur face this situation ! I always love the reality factor abt this couple & I think it will be treat to watch their journey together to achieve a better tomorrow for themselves!
thanks once again muski.......for this topic & for coming back to the forum!!!!!!
Edited by Mou. - 15 years ago
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wow, I just love this topic. So beautifully written. You said everything. MJHT is showing reality of life. I can understand how mayank is feeling right now. When you have goal and you don't achieve for some reason it really hurts. Mayank and I have so much in common. I love to study and have goals but my grades went down cuz all my friends keep telling to relax and chill. When I look back to the way I was such a studious student in college, but I laid back and took everything easy. Classes I could have aced, but didn't. I am getting myself back to track such like mayank. It is fasciasting when don't achieve you want to achieve, you yell and upset with people around you.
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Hail Muskan maatey!!

Muskan is back so its understood Mayank Sharma is also around :D

OOPS..I wasnt supposed to sound happy here uh? 😆 Between I m really busy I havent finished packing yet :( I just peeped into IF n What do I see ?? a topic from u 😲 now now...how can I let go of a topic by u Muski 😆

The problem is ..u said it all in the topic, so I m left wondering what do we say??

Today When Mayank finally realised that he had completely deviated from his goal in life.. it was interesting to see..he could see that from being focused about a career and working towards such a goal ...he had fallen in love with a girl and had eventually married her. However, though this was not the dream he first had, I m sure its not any lesser than any dream he has. The only point that bothers him now is that he lost focus on his very first set of goals.. Interesting how that works, but then he is still young and its only a matter of getting his determination back and he would be back to being the same ambitious young man who had definite dreams about his life and the will and determination to pursue it.

Nupur, however has had a near heart-break, a chance to follow her dream, the one closest to her heart has been totally been lost. She however did marry the man she loves! So, her one dream is already fulfilled, I dont think that the "Raj" fixation is of any importance as Mayank has more often than not been over and above her expectations of finding a perfect "Raj". However, she is at a stage where she probably can either look for another chance or pursue other dreams
I think it happens to the best of us as well,, some dreams are not meant to be, that doesn't mean we stop dreaming, like mayank says. we can see other dreams and pursue them.

Ok, I m sleepy as hell, so excuse me if that one lacked clarity ..

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