SG vs. MN vs. Criticism - Imp Pls Read - Page 2

Originally posted by: Gossip Girl

I see where you are coming from Gagan.

Can someone please explain why this particular individual was lurking there?

Mainly considering the individual was not even part of that place.

I really wouldn't visit a place that hurts my sentiments.

I have seen quite a few rude YT comments, but very people bother to report them, and the comments do not get deleted, unless there is harsh language i.e. swearing et al. When watching videos on YT all of us catch the comments, and at this point people are not hurt, yet when it comes to visiting a CC, which is considered to be filled with horrible and negative people members still visit this horrible place & claim to be hurt.

@Gagan: Exactly....the tone of the comment and the basis of it needs to be understood.....if ppl are unable to understand and just go around blindly reporting every little thing that 'hurts' them, what will be achieved??

As GG pointed out, what was this person doing lurking in our CC in the first place??? If they are oh so easily 'hurted' by simple basic opinions that don't even use harsh language like the one GG's giving examples of from YT...then why are they oh so busy stalking such a place??? Such is their ardent 'lowe' for it??? LOLL

And I find it amusing that ppl are so worked up over the MN spoof siggies.....I personally found those very creative and entertaining......and I'd like to point this out as a example of OBJECTIVITY....Ppl could use some sense of humor! ;-)

O wow! y am I not surprised at this? LOL. Gagan first of all thanks for the post.
From my part I always try to state my opinion in a way that doesn't hurt other ppl's sentiments --- even though I am very straightforward. I do make snide remarks, but only when one is made on me. You know the tit for tat game when I have the time, but next time I'll make sure I don't do that --- sometimes can't help its human nature. Even though none of the remarks above relate to me luckily, I'll definitely make sure nothing like that happens in the future from my side.

Words are a powerful tool --- some don't care about other ppl's feelings and use harsh and accusatory language. Its okay with me, but I don't like it when others r not respected for what they voice, yet respect is asked for oneself. I truly despise this mentality. Differences lie from person to person its simple to accept that notion, but hard to follow. Like something state it, don't like something state it, don't care about something state it, but there's no need to get into more frustrations over a trivial matter ---- its just a show. Thank you for bringing to my attention how to handle situations of this kind from now on. Report button will be in my sight.

Originally posted by: trouble_maker

Ok with all this Mohit discussion, I don't get why those who don't give a damn about SG, care about Mohit's acting. They may think that he's a weak actor...but the comment learn "some acting from Arjun"...that's just pure bashing. And I think it's pretty clear that bashing an actor is totalllly not allowed.

Sure, that is harsh. In this case it sounds harsh, since he is compared with Arjun (another lead actor from the same show). However, if it was SRK, then a lot of people might have taken it lightly.

Each actor has his/her role model. SRK has been an ideal role model for a lot of actors today, and will continue to be one for the future generation as well. There is nothing wrong to grow and improve, as an actor by looking at others. Aamir and Srk have been known to give tips to the young actors. Is that such a wrong thing then?

Originally posted by: trouble_maker

Ok with all this Mohit discussion, I don't get why those who don't give a damn about SG, care about Mohit's acting. They may think that he's a weak actor...but the comment learn "some acting from Arjun"...that's just pure bashing. And I think it's pretty clear that bashing an actor is totalllly not allowed.

Originally posted by: Gossip Girl

Sure, that is harsh. In this case it sounds harsh, since he is compared with Arjun (another lead actor from the same show). However, if it was SRK, then a lot of people might have taken it lightly.

Each actor has his/her role model. SRK has been an ideal role model for a lot of actors today, and will continue to be one for the future generation as well. There is nothing wrong to grow and improve, as an actor by looking at others. Aamir and Srk have been known to give tips to the young actors. Is that such a wrong thing then?

Originally posted by: OHYE

O wow! y am I not surprised at this? LOL. Gagan first of all thanks for the post.
From my part I always try to state my opinion in a way that doesn't hurt other ppl's sentiments --- even though I am very straightforward. I do make snide remarks, but only when one is made on me. You know the tit for tat game when I have the time, but next time I'll make sure I don't do that --- sometimes can't help its human nature. Even though none of the remarks above relate to me luckily, I'll definitely make sure nothing like that happens in the future from my side.

Words are a powerful tool --- some don't care about other ppl's feelings and use harsh and accusatory language. Its okay with me, but I don't like it when others r not respected for what they voice, yet respect is asked for oneself. I truly despise this mentality. Differences lie from person to person its simple to accept that notion, but hard to follow. Like something state it, don't like something state it, don't care about something state it, but there's no need to get into more frustrations over a trivial matter ---- its just a show. Thank you for bringing to my attention how to handle situations of this kind from now on. Report button will be in my sight.

And Gagan, coming back to that earlier point......I'm a MN fan......do you see me sitting here and complaining about how 'hurt' I am that some ppl called the gola scene 'cheap'??? ROFL.......that's fine....that's their opinion....I don't agree with it but they are welcome to that opinion...so WHY is this an issue??? :S

Originally posted by: nureat01

@Gagan: Exactly....the tone of the comment and the basis of it needs to be understood.....if ppl are unable to understand and just go around blindly reporting every little thing that 'hurts' them, what will be achieved??

Originally posted by: nureat01

And Gagan, coming back to that earlier point......I'm a MN fan......do you see me sitting here and complaining about how 'hurt' I am that some ppl called the gola scene 'cheap'??? ROFL.......that's fine....that's their opinion....I don't agree with it but they are welcome to that opinion...so WHY is this an issue??? :S

That's more of the show. But if I was to make an insulting comment on ArTi, I'm sure u wouldn't stay quiet either!