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Posted: 16 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth
I can see where comparison between actors can instigate people. There is one recurrent theme in this forum that I would like to point out. Whenever some people state their opinion about a particular actor i.e blank expressions, bad dressing, zilch chemistry, et al, some sensitive fans in the forum interpret it as it being a cardinal sin. I understand that the underlying tone makes a difference, yet genuine comments are sometimes treated harshly, all under the name of being "hurt"!

Now the question remains: Who will decide what tone offends people vs. the comment being genuine?

@bold: The million dollar question. I would like to know the answer to that as well.

I agree people interpret it in the wrong way, and take words far too personally. I'm a huge fan of Madhuri, and if she is wearing the wrong dress, then I will criticize her. This does not necessarily imply that I'm not a "true fan". It just means I'm keeping my bias aside and speaking of her.

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sonali.19281

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S

@Bold: Well even some MNians dont get by with itthese days.. It doesnt matter who says it...

but again i feel everyone should have the right to speak.. you may be a Sajan fan, but when you watch MJHT you definently come across MN scenes so you have the right to state your opinion... i dont think we would object to anything of that sort.

great..so one thing is sorted out..we do advocate thee freedom of expression and opinion irrespective of the mode- positive or negative. but then the discretion of the tone- polite, subtle, nasty, snide is taken care by mods..

whch brings me to the next point in a free socielty these kind of differences of viewpoints keep happening. i still dont see the solution here. we can oly request people to take it easy n see it as a show not LIFE.. but is there anything more that can be done about the issues you raised really..it passes me.. may be someone else has a better solution here

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Gaganjot

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Posted: 16 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: ManaliS
@sonali: well u might have not reported but gagan wud have got 487837837 PMs for the same..i can bet on that!

common when ppl can report "mohit needs to improve" "mohit is blank" then eveyr opinion comes under bashing! lol....

Yes Manali! As i said these were just some pms that i recieved .. and it has become really difficult for me to reply to all as well.. but i cant negelect such pms either..

Some do have a point..

it just has become very complicated as well.

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sonali.19281

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Posted: 16 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: mjhtac
 @red...i suppose you are talking about my siggie?and more so coz u interpret me to be a mayur fan?first off,im neither mayur,nor sajan fan...i wouldnt care less about couples in the serial.i spoof when i find a situation funny.my siggie with one statement caught your eye,and the many pages of posts actually stating gunjan as a cry baby didnt catch your attention?thanx for making me proud of my creativity skills.as for offending you,as you pointed out yourself,its individual perception.had i been a regular fangirl ,i would have started a fight with you on that thread and turned the CJ into an abusive thread.but i didnt respond to your post,coz again,its futile.you can report my post if you please,but i think the mods here have a better insight and appreciate humor. for the record, i have spoofed mayur as well and none of the mayur fans have found the siggies upsetting.and most of the creations i posted initially were on sheena,which strangely,no fan ever found bash worthy. @red....id like to add the word maturity to it. @green...IBL is the most stalked and reported thread as far as we know...and so is the IBL cc...and the not so obsesed cc...if u dont believe ur eyes,check the stats yourself. @pink...finally i agree with this point

hey good to see u here.. dont take it personally.. if i wanted to i wld have mentioned it more specifically.. i voice my opinion last night n forgot about it. n dint really need this clarification here. and theres no doubt u r creative. and as far as IBL goes I have posted spoofs there too and know about it. and if you read it my way it was sarcasm not a real question stated there..

i was amused at yer " finally i agree with a point in the end"..u almost made me feel like an alien three buddy 🤣

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Gaganjot

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Posted: 16 years ago

#45

Lady M, I think that is something that every member will have to realize themselves.

I think through this post .. i am trying my best to communicate as much as i can...

As far as final judgement then really no one is making that call.. I think Dev Team can decide on that.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#46

Hey Gagan, brilliant post. Well, I've never ever hurt anyone through my opinions i believe. Infact I've only been a part of this forum since May, so i cannot say anything. As for the criticism of two couples, befor MNians And SGians, we all are MJHTians. And we have EVERY right to criticise any actor if his acting wasn't good enough. What i don't understand is, why is criticism taken to be as bashing? We have film critics criticising films all the time, but did we ever say they're BASHING the film? And if an actor cannot accept the criticism in a sporting manner, then its his loss! Criticism is meant to improve their acting, so that they work on their expressions better, not to sit and cry over it! We criticise SG or MN or MJHT, opnly because we want it to be the best show ever! That is in no way bashing. And we have EVERY right to criticise SG or MN even though i'm MNian, cause before all of it, we're all viewers of MJHT! That's one thing some people don't seem to understand and take it as bashing and reply like, "you're not so and so's fan, so why comment?" People on this forum need to be more mature, and not take litle things to their heart, especially for something non-existent.

Coming to some people finding gola scene cheap, well, that's their opinion. Whereas i loved it and found it sweet! That's just a difference in opinions which people need to learn to respect.

that's my pov. i didn't mean to offend anyone.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#47

Thanks for the post Gagan di. I've looked through all the pages, and uhmm, wow. Haha... I really do not know what to say.

If anyone reads this, PLEASE read these words carefully.

MJHT is a show. Whether you like it or not, Mayank, Nupur, Samrat, Gunjan, Uday, and Dia are the leads. There will be bad days, and there will be good days. NONE of the characters or couples or actors or actresses are bad. They're doing their jobs, and if we appreciate them- then GREAT, but if we have something seriously rude to say about them, then KEEP it to yourself =)

If we don't like a couple or a character, we do not have to show disrespect towards them. Voicing your opinion is fine, and I know a lot of people here can either take things lightly, while others can't... but that's just the human nature. We all think and interpret things differently right?

Anyways, all I wanted to say was... please don't go "Oh MN are better than SG, or a 20 sec SG scene is better than any MN scenes" because I've seen that, and it hurts.

Watch MJHT as a whole.

Love,

Mimi

Edited:

Okay everyting I wrote sounds really cheesy. 🤢

Let me be honest here.

It HURTS when I see people talk about the "other" couple in a rude way. I mean, I'm not stupid, I can tell when someone is joking around or not. I've seen things like "SG are like bro-sis, and a 20 sec SG scene is better than ANY MN scene" and correct me if I'm wrong- but isn't that mean? Is there really a need to say that? 🤔 I mean, I don't think saying "I don't like MN/SG" is rude, that's your opinion..but to say something offensive about them will hurt their fans.And it hurts even more when you're visiting either the mansion or the paradise, and all that's going on is bashing - no, did I just say bashing? Well everyone has a diff. definition for that, but I would definately call things like "Oh SG are just lame, or MN are cheap and so are all their scenes" bashing because it is offensive- the "other" couple. If I ever leave this forum- that would be the MAIN reason.

I don't even like coming to the MJHT forum anymore. I don't know why, but it's just not "home" anymore. I don't like it when people say rude things about MN or SG, because I love them both. But then again, I respect everyone's opinion(s) but there comes a point when you need to draw the line.

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Gaganjot

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Posted: 16 years ago

#48

I have recieved complaints and they have to be addressed.. whether this post will achieve anything or not..I dont know but i am trying.. Even if members can try to understand all the perspectives and step outside of the box and see all types of comments that are reported.. would help in my case..

but if you all feel I am wrong to do so.. well then i have no problem in stepping down from my mod position at this forum and i can let someone else take over these concerns..

its not really a big deal then.. I shall do that.

I never knew being a fan of one jodi would make me bias, but chalo i dont want to cause any discomforts here😳

@Rachna and Mimi.. thanks for your inputs will reply to you two in soon😃

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Posted: 16 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S
I have recieved complaints and they have to be addressed.. whether this post will achieve anything or not..I dont know but i am trying.. Even if members can try to understand all the perspectives and step outside of the box and see all types of comments that are reported.. would help in my case..

but if you all feel I am wrong to do so.. well then i have no problem in stepping down from my mod position at this forum and i can let someone else take over these concerns..

its not really a big deal then.. I shall do that.

@Rachna and Mimi.. thanks for your inputs will reply to you two in a bit

Gagan, you are doing an amazing job as the mod! it's a pity that these fights are going overboard...YOU are NOT wrong......You're just trying to maintain the peace and order in here...any concerned mod would do that..please don't think of stepping out of this post....

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Posted: 16 years ago

#50

Gagan.... You can absolutely not step down... No offense to the other MODS but IMHO you are the ONLY fair mod on this forum. The day you step down from the position of Mod, I am leaving cuz I know my voice is not going to be heard then. I don't want to make this a post against the mod but I just want you to know that you are doing a GREAT job...

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