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Posted: 16 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: nureat01
EXACTLY, Manali! I CHALLENGE anyone to prove otherwise! I think there are BETTER things to do in life that sit around getting 'hurted' over someone not happening to praise your fav. pair/actor to the skies!

And Manali, log HUMEIN kya bolenge?? Humse zyada KAUN point out karta hai when there is a lack of expressions etc. with MN/ArTi??? On what basis am I being told that I would go report ppl if they said such stuff about ArTi?? :S LOL

Thank you! I agree no one is eager to get hurt in life.

I have rarely seen people standing in the middle of the road with cars passing by eager to get "hurt" and many people tend to avoid posts that hurt their sentiments.

I think as long as authors have added a disclaimer in title, then things should work fine, if members continue to read posts with disclaimer added, then it is not because they are hurt, but they want to click on the report button.

Edited by Gossip Girl - 16 years ago

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Rishani

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Posted: 16 years ago

#32

anyways i have to leave!

i wud just like to say that i watch the show on TV! so i watch the whole show... i don't close my eyes when a SG scenes come up...because i don't mind them at all.... n as a viewer i have full right to comment on the show... n that includes each n every actor....

and when i say that mohit needs to improve ..its NOT bashing! whether ppl get this or not...up to them!
i will continue to say that whenever i'll feel that way!

people can report... 😃imo its not bashing..just an opinion.... n well when i know i am not doing anything wrong..then i don't care either!

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sonali.19281

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Posted: 16 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: ManaliS
 exactly... same here...even if ppl say that MN were blank or there was no chemistry... i wud never report... i have ready such posts..but i have never reported anything! it's just an opinion...i DON'T see any bashing there! what exactly is the definition of bashing? 😕 gagan can confirm this!

completely agree Manali..for all those people who dont find chemistry in one couple doesnt even mean they dont have chemistry..for example there were multiple posts of sajan looking like bro-sis.. but none of us bothered to react to them..right now I hope they are eating their words..as the Visual Learners.. wld see for themselves once the track starts..if they still dont see it..oh well u can say its their POV or tell yerslef they are blind...but dont go tell on them to yer teachers 🤣

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Rishani

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Posted: 16 years ago

#34

@sonali: well u might have not reported but gagan wud have got 487837837 PMs for the same..i can bet on that!

common when ppl can report "mohit needs to improve" "mohit is blank" then eveyr opinion comes under bashing! lol....

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Gaganjot

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Posted: 16 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

as for the groupism post..where do you draw the line. I mean if a not an ardent MN fan can spoof on MN tracks is it fine and if a sajanian makes the same humor is it derogatory...i need help in comprehension here.. but at the same time I am not advocating calling names...then again who decided whats below the belt. for ex I saw a pointless below the belt sig on CJ yest n told the maker what i felt about it. but someone else may have been okay with it..trust me many were..again objectivity is a rare virtue anu...I wonder how IBL is surviving in todays times..every post wld be reported there..although most people mean no harm

as for the sig post..oh well I own up to having voted for the sig in question thats coz i found it funny..then again..if it was derogatory wldnt the MOD resposible disqualify it before it made it to the list.. again a case in point here.. so we dont care to repect the people who have the authority to decide and cant stop cribbing about anything..Call me a sadist but its a winless situation n I dont see a solution here...

@Bold: Well even some MNians dont get by with it these days.. It doesnt matter who says it...

but again i feel everyone should have the right to speak.. you may be a Sajan fan, but when you watch MJHT you definently come across MN scenes so you have the right to state your opinion... i dont think we would object to anything of that sort.

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sonali.19281

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Posted: 16 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: ManaliS
@sonali: well u might have not reported but gagan wud have got 487837837 PMs for the same..i can bet on that! common when ppl can report "mohit needs to improve" "mohit is blank" then eveyr opinion comes under bashing! lol....

m sure it does..but then again u or me cant be accountable to other people can we.. as for stating opinions .n taking it..lets face it.. we feel bad when they come harsh..whether we report is a diff story..
but as binu pointed we can defend stating opinions not comparisons n snide remarks..theres quite a difference. i am not sure if everyone has the resilience to sit thro a mohit should learn acting from arjun. not everyone reacts the same way n we should respect that too. wow that was preachy

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aditi gupta

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Posted: 16 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

as for the groupism post..where do you draw the line. I mean if a not an ardent MN fan can spoof on MN tracks is it fine and if a sajanian makes the same humor is it derogatory...i need help in comprehension here.. but at the same time I am not advocating calling names...then again who decided whats below the belt. for ex I saw a pointless below the belt sig on CJ yest n told the maker what i felt about it.
but someone else may have been okay with it..trust me many were

@red...i suppose you are talking about my siggie?and more so coz u interpret me to be a mayur fan?first off,im neither mayur,nor sajan fan...i wouldnt care less about couples in the serial.i spoof when i find a situation funny.my siggie with one statement caught your eye,and the many pages of posts actually stating gunjan as a cry baby didnt catch your attention?thanx for making me proud of my creativity skills.as for offending you,as you pointed out yourself,its individual perception.had i been a regular fangirl ,i would have started a fight with you on that thread and turned the CJ into an abusive thread.but i didnt respond to your post,coz again,its futile.you can report my post if you please,but i think the mods here have a better insight and appreciate humor.
for the record, i have spoofed mayur as well and none of the mayur fans have found the siggies upsetting.and most of the creations i posted initially were on sheena,which strangely,no fan ever found bash worthy.

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

..again objectivity is a rare virtue anu...I wonder how IBL is surviving in todays times..every post wld be reported there..although most people mean no harm

@red....id like to add the word maturity to it.
@green...IBL is the most stalked and reported thread as far as we know...and so is the IBL cc...and the not so obsesed cc...if u dont believe ur eyes,check the stats yourself.
@pink...finally i agree with this point

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LadyMcbeth

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Posted: 16 years ago

#38

I can see where comparison between actors can instigate people. There is one recurrent theme in this forum that I would like to point out. Whenever some people state their opinion about a particular actor i.e blank expressions, bad dressing, zilch chemistry, et al, some sensitive fans in the forum interpret it as it being a cardinal sin. I understand that the underlying tone makes a difference, yet genuine comments are sometimes treated harshly, all under the name of being "hurt"!

Now the question remains: Who will decide what tone offends people vs. the comment being genuine?

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Gaganjot

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Posted: 16 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: jenny1000

I agree with all you have said Gagan.

As far as the Sanaya's issue, I explained to you over PM's many time so it does not matter. 😊

I agree with what you say. When you watch the show, you watch it for the whole, so you don't have a choice..

Seriously, I don't care when people are like ArTi has 100% chemistry and MoNaya has 0% as it is their personal comments.. but when people cross their limits, it gets heated.

Jenny that indeed becomes a comparing post...

Also i feel everyone should have the right to comment on all.. you are a sajan fan, but obviously you would want to comment on MN as well and your opinion should be respected.

Unfortunely, I feel members start to mix up MJHT forum and CC forum...

There is not much i can do about CC. This is where things go even more haywire..

They start to bring CC matters to MJHT or vice versa..

All i can say is I would try my best to stop comparison in my forum, but i cant take the guarantee of the entire forum.