SG vs. MN vs. Criticism - Imp Pls Read

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Posted: 16 years ago
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MJHT Members,
There are some concerns that I would like to address at this forum. I have edited out all the names and the links because I have not made this post to embarrass, humiliate, or to blame anyone so therefore I edited anything that would disclose any members' Identity. This post has been made so that you all can start to respect each other's opinion and interest as well as know how you may trigger such reactions from the other fan.
Firstly, MN and SG are the lead pairs whether or not you want to agree with that, but according to this forum we do acknowledge that we have two lead pairs, who have strong fan bases.
Now let me show examples of complaints that I have received. I do not want to post all because most of them became repetitive and I think this should be sufficient enough to get the point across.
One fan sends proof and then I get more proof back regarding the other fan base..
PM # 1

Hey Gagan di,hope u r doing well😊

Di today when i came online me n my friends found something which we found offensive,we dont know weather u'll feel d same or not but yeah our thought is just when we dont do this thing den y should we need to bear such things,,

if u get time den plz check out d link:

"Sammy boy is going to ruin the romance with his expressions"
"He only has one expression on his face"
"Mohit should go learn some acting from Arjun"
etc....

we wanted to post abt this MJHT discussion topic but later we though abt those ppl we r complainning dey dont even understand mods notes n argue wid den n dey 'll prove us wrong in no time so we better thought to pm u..WE 'll really appriciate if u tc of it..

Its not d new but we all thought everything is fine now but this..-really not done

Thanks..
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Hi 😊,
I m not a regular member of MJHT forum & hence havent interacted before...I visit MJHT forum as I follow the show but am more of a silent member -rarely put in my 2 cents...But I love reding topics here...Today after a long time I was visiting the forum & actually in a good mood after seeing some good MN scenes...Was just surfing thru topics when I actually came across this particular thread of SG mansion which spoiled my good mood & left me highly disturbed ...A grp of fans where rigorously bashing MN in a thread meant for SG ONLY ...I was highly hurt to read comments where ppl where labeling my fav characters,actors & scenes as cheap 😭...If they have problems they shud discuss it with MODS why taking their frustration out on actors 😕...This is showing disrespect to MODS as well as fellow fans..If this is the atmosphere maybe I shud stop visiting forum now...Sorry if I'm being harsh but I seriously luv mjht forum & its saddening to see a grp of fans disrupting the peace by bashing their non favourites in a thread meant 4 praising their favs ...
Here is the link ------
especially the foll comments are so uncalled for

Originally posted by

ohh man their a bunch of jealous pathetic girls! wat else can i say?.. they really piss me off! mohits a great actor!
lmao _____ tell me about it! that wasnt a cute scene! t was soo bloody lame!


Originally posted by

ya ----
who asked dem to comment on SG?
they liked dat gola scene?
i thought it was cheap!!
cant she buy another golaa for herself?


Not only this particular page,this has been continuing since a no of pages..I wonder whether this is a daily routine now 😕
Hope I've nt offended u but I sincerly hope strict action is taken agains this...Unless I may have to resign from visiting an otherwise fun forum
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PM # 3
Dear Gagan.
hope your doing fine
Gagan, I have received a PM from a member of the Forum, expressing concern over something not very healthy or in a good taste happening in IF.
In the MN Siggy Contest, as I understand from her, since I'm unable to go to the first page of the link provided, ----- are spoof siggies on MN & some sajan fans are deliberately voting for those entries to disgrace MN!

Gagan'..MN fans want to know why the spoof siggys were allowed in the contest meant for appreciating MN...MN fans are really hurt & have found this as an act of offence against them! SG groupies should not gloat thinking that they could easily fool the MN fans by such cheap & devious acts.

Gagan, It's an earnest request to you & your team to please look into this matter & take appropriate action! If not nipped in the bud, these kind of malicious acts could incite a lot of hatred and animosity in the forum.
Hoping for an action & support from the Dev Team,
Best Regards,
Please tell me members did not vote for siggies just because they do not like the couple and that you all are voting based purely on talent 😕I hope you think about this and will vote for siggies you feel should win.
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Why are you all doing this??
Why create such animosity on the forum??
Why cant different opinions be respected??
Why cant respect be given to the other fan base?
If one fan states something against your favorite you take out your frustration on the whole fan base, Why?
Double standards on the forum: For an example
*If one says anything against Rati Pandey or her acting her fan is offended, but then the same fan will go and make fun of Samrat's acting or vice versa?
Then I am expected to take action, but my question is against whom do i take action?
We all have our favorites and I understand we do not like to hear anything against them, but
I can't expect the others to like my favorite and appreciate their scenes the way I do.
I do not want any explanations on why this and that was written the fact is that it was posted on the forum.
Everyone wants freedom, but you only want it for yourself and not others 😕
This really hurts that you all are indulged soo much into your favorite couple that you cannot differentiate between right or wrong.
Please understand when you say such things it triggers the other fans to react that way.. its cause and effects.
If you want others to stop then make sure you take the initiative.
Look at the above pms and the proofs that i have been given ..
Please sit down for a few minutes and think about what all i have posted here...
MJHT Dev Team
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Gagan-06 thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I am open to suggestion so feel free to post.
Just keep in mind not to make this post a blaming thread.
What is done is done .. Let's look into the present and think about ways to prevent such animosity from entering our forum.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Is the first PM pertaining to our CC being reported again, Gagan?? *sigh*

I'm not going to justify anything....I honestly don't find anything wrong with the posts that are 'hurteding' the said person in this PM.....it was an honest opinion and I didn't see any bashing in it....rest it up to you to decide.

There is a WORLD of a difference in stating the OBVIOUS fact that Mohit is the weakest actor among the four leads and someone bashing Rati Pandey's acting skills....atleast that's how I see it.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01

Is the first PM pertaining to our CC being reported again, Gagan?? *sigh*

I'm not going to justify anything....I honestly don't find anything wrong with the posts that are 'hurteding' the said person in this PM.....it was an honest opinion and I didn't see any bashing in it....rest it up to you to decide.

Anu, its not against anyone here and not against your CC either.. I think we are trying to come to some sort of agreement here..
I didnt say that the comment was wrong or right.
I am just trying to get a point across that if one person is allowed to say it then why is the other restricted when it comes down to their favorite couple ? 😛
Edited by Gaganjot.S - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Gagan, I have no suggestions to offer....cuz some ppl will always choose to be hyper sensitive and over-react about non-existent issues....I can't help those ppl.....a little more objectivity when it comes to one's fav. jodi/actor would REALLY help.....I'm a MN fan but I don't blindly worship them like gods....I state it just as clearly if I find Arjun's expressions to be blank....so why is it the end of the world if someone happens to say that Mohit's expressions were blank??

As always, bottom line is that ppl need to develop some maturity....emotionally and mentally...and some objectivity as well....and this applies both ways....I'm not singling out the fans of any one jodi.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01


There is a WORLD of a difference in stating the OBVIOUS fact that Mohit is the weakest actor among the four leads and someone bashing Rati Pandey's acting skills....atleast that's how I see it.....

Anu, You and I may think so, but others may not think that Rati is a good actress.
Edited by Gaganjot.S - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S

Anu, You and I may think so, but others may not think that Rati is a good actress.



Sure Gagan....I'm not saying that EVERYONE has to rave about Rati's acting skills....but I can speak for myself when I say that I WON'T make it my mission in life to go around reporting a person for saying, "I don't think Rati is a good actress/she didn't act well'.....which doesn't seem to be the case with some fans I guess😕😆

I don't see it as 'bashing' from any angle.
Edited by nureat01 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01



Sure Gagan....I'm not saying that EVERYONE has to rave about Rati's acting skills....but I can speak for myself when I say that I WON'T make it my mission in life to go around reporting a person for saying, "I don't think Rati is a good actress/she didn't act well'.....which doesn't seem to be the case with some fans I guess😕😆

I don't see it as 'bashing' from any angle.

Absolutely Anu.
This is what I am trying to get at ... and you have hit it right on the spot.
I think respect for others' opinions and knowing how genuine your comment is really important.
There should be a mutual understanding.
Edited by Gaganjot.S - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I see where you are coming from Gagan.

Can someone please explain why this particular individual was lurking there?

Mainly considering the individual was not even part of that place.

I really wouldn't visit a place that hurts my sentiments.

I have seen quite a few rude YT comments, but very people bother to report them, and the comments do not get deleted, unless there is harsh language i.e. swearing et al. When watching videos on YT all of us catch the comments, and at this point people are not hurt, yet when it comes to visiting a CC, which is considered to be filled with horrible and negative people members still visit this horrible place & claim to be hurt.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Ok with all this Mohit discussion, I don't get why those who don't give a damn about SG, care about Mohit's acting. They may think that he's a weak actor...but the comment learn "some acting from Arjun"...that's just pure bashing. And I think it's pretty clear that bashing an actor is totalllly not allowed.

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