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Posted: 11 years ago
#71
sorry I am so late
Was making my own analytical post after a long time.

Awesome CR 👏
The problem with the CVs is that a track with gusto...and then let us all down with shoddy treatment of the track.😡

I really disliked what she said to Bittuji. To me, it really cheapened her feelings for RK.
I still think this can be turned around...all that is needed is a sharp dose of shock from Ria to Madhu...
Maybe then she will grow up...or maybe not 🥱
I grow more indifferent with every episode. 🥱

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manonids

Exactly what I feel about how RK feels for Madhu...mere an emotional possession ...Till the time, he was the whole and sole reason of her smile, pain or sorrow, its all fine for him to give in to her demands or whatever silly she does instead of correcting her but since now he is seeing how Madhu has some other reason of smiling, despite loving him , he is finding it difficult to absorb. He knows she loves him but he cant accept that she can have other reasons to enjoy. She does try to help him, no matter in what ways, but at least she doesnt give up so easily !

Its not for the first time that Madhu failed to gauge his issues but he is reacting now since he has lost his sole ownership, according to him ! Now her flaws which were acceptable earlier, will be tarred as her ignorance and would be questioned ...As always he acts on his whims and fancies.


Today he perhaps regrets marrying her since she isint able to reach out to his pitfalls, so its better to part ways and let her live too ! Marriage is not a joke that u wander around for solace in other women if ur spouse is not the best u could have expected...But, alas we are talking about superstar RK,...so rules are bound to be different ! If RK had different expectations, so did Madhu had ...if RK is not happy, neither is Madhu ...

He comes across as someone extremely selfish who needs years and years of tapasya to repair ...what a Madhu or a Riya or any XYZ will do ? His ego will raise its ugly head time and again ruining life of those around him ...He deserves to remain single and deal with his inner demons on his own instead of ruining life of those who cant deal with his eccentricities !


While I agree with most of what you have written, I don't feel that it is 'Madhu having other reason to enjoy' that is bothering him. Her stardom has indeed hit him hard but it could have been managed if Madhu had handled the situation maturely. Yes, RK is possessive but he actually wouldn't have minded her becoming a famous heroine as long as she didn't become more famous than him. That he is banned and was also paralysed took his insecurities many notches up and Madhu made things worse with her stupidities. Now he is fed up of this relationship and frankly, I don't blame him.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: faria86

nice post to be honest there are times while both can't understand each other yes madhu didn't understand his insecurities or emotions but there are many times that RK don't understand madhu's emotions too

both are completely different to it will happen between them what i don't like is whatever RK did in the baby issue & at the party he is selfish but cvs need to understand that anyone & everyone gets lil change after the fall in love or after they get marriage no life partner or superstar insult his wife so openly in pubic & no husband who has fights with his wife to do abortion after miscarriage fights with her that he lost his baby due to her 😕 it's no where making sense 😕

not interested in this relationship anymore too bcoz both are not happy together & in my pov Madhu has done her level best or more than that to keep RK happy but it looks he don't wants to be happy she has her own life too she has her likes & dislikes she has her own pov regarding something or anything she is an individual person but RK wants her to smile ,cry laugh & be quite whenever he wants & tol give him & only him importance RK can't see her success where as she can do anything for his success & happiness yes RK has done many things for her too but he has failed to understand she is an individual person who have her dreams of a lovely life too the way he has his emotions she has her own emotions too

in my pov in this track RK is wrong he is confused what he wants & he is not ready at all to try to understand anything this way non of them can be happy so i want separation too & want both to live thier life happily


There is no doubt that both are wrong here. In fact both are wrong for each other. He with his extremely ego and she with her extreme self-righteousness. Would they be happy with other partners? No, because these same traits will damage their other relationships too.

Why I sympathise with RK more is that RK accepts that he is a grey character and doesn't try to act mahaan. Whereas Madhu think more highly of herself that she deserves to though she is as grey as RK. The day she starts accepting her mistakes, she will get more sympathy from the audience.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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NalayakShaitan, My last couple of replies answer your comment too so not writing the same thing again.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: armummy

Wonderful post.

But the end will be evil rk apologizing to mahaan Madhu where Madhu does not grow up a bit.

How. Want to see rk bringing up sultan when she questions himon ria but I am sure I won't get it.

Actually , I felt Rk would have loved to see her anger and possessiveness in yesterday's episode because he came home with a girl but again Madhu was mahaan and said she does not want know making him feel unimportant and Also offering help which he does not need, hence he asked for space out so of disappointment.

Hopefully we get few good episodes before it goes down the drain again.


Thanks armummy 😊 I agree about Madhu repeatedly making RK seem unimportant. As long as Madhu doesn't acknowledge that she is as flawed as RK, there is no hope for her and for any of her relationships.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leelaa9

Superb post, CR.👏
The characterizations are getting so irritating with big talk never actually translating into deeds, it would be easy to give up on this series if it weren't for DVD together.


Thanks Leelaa 😳 Yes, it is only VD's portrayal of RK that is still keeping me around, else it is very easy to leave this show anytime now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: swan20

Different insight into RK 👍🏼 and since this post is about MUTUAL understanding its not only about RK. He is not the only one in this relation. Only his feelings, his emotions do not matter. Its a give and take. Madhu has made blunders, has failed to understand his deep feelings but so has RK. He has also not understood her pain on losing their child...not understood the dilemma she was in while trying to balance the role of a DIL and a professional...not understood her happiness lay in her unborn child not in being a heroine. All those instances he was the one dilly dallying between his different opinions on what she should do. Even during Sultan phase did he understand what mental torture she was going through because of his blackmail?. This is a marriage. It cannot always be about one person. Both have to work equally hard to make it work. And BOTH have failed at it. Running away from it to find solace in another person is not the way to do it. And if he indeed wants to end the marriage then do it. There is nothing worse for a wife than seeing her husband bonding with another woman beyond friendship. And however dumb Madhu has been nobody deserves that.



Problem with RK is he gives up too easy. He's not a fighter. We saw him giving up during ban track and now he's giving up on his relation too. How many times is he going to keep running away from issues? No Ria...nobody can help him unless he himself overcomes his issues and starts facing them.


Thanks swan 😊 Charu has explain it all really well, so nothing more to add except that RK has actually understood Madhu a lot and has been more considerate of her feelings that she deserves to be. He has always tried to protect her, to make others respect her. Ever since their 7-phera wedding he has been the one making all the adjustments - be it her friendship with Sultan, her stupidity in handling the court case, her tantrums and nivaarans during the shoot, her playing God all the time. Now he is just fed up.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: minu_8

Wonderful post CR.. agree with everything.. i m most rooting for a tragic end.. i think rk dying is the best ending and i mean it very setiously.. not out of frustration


Thanks minu 😊 I too want a tragic end now and fast!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He has told Madhu again and again that he hates her playing God in their relationship. But she still carries on with her 'main sab theek kar doongi' and 'main tumhare liye kya kar sakti hoon?' jaap.


this is d thing dat irritates me d most now a days..!! she is d biggest reason im not interested in RM anymore ri8 now.!! most of d times her loves seems to be very insensitive towards RK..!! n cvs sudden love n aim to make madhu mahaan at any cost when she is clearly not is beyond me.!! even dis track will end on d same note.! but jabtk RK is der i will watch for him for he is all i really care about in dis show.!!


totally agree wid everything in ur post..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Evil-Defiance-

sorry I am so late
Was making my own analytical post after a long time.

Awesome CR 👏
The problem with the CVs is that a track with gusto...and then let us all down with shoddy treatment of the track.😡

I really disliked what she said to Bittuji. To me, it really cheapened her feelings for RK.
I still think this can be turned around...all that is needed is a sharp dose of shock from Ria to Madhu...
Maybe then she will grow up...or maybe not 🥱
I grow more indifferent with every episode. 🥱


Thanks! 😊 The sad thing is that she will never grow up. There has been no change at all in the girl ever since she took RK to court for Mukund's accident. Her idiocies has always put her families in trouble but she has neither ever accepted her mistakes nor learnt from them.

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