Junoon Is Temporary, Mutual Understanding Is Eternal - Page 7

Originally posted by: war_is_peace

i'm disappointed with the execution all together and i hate madhu for being dumb enough to not understand things and hate RK for loving madhu...i'm just bored of this pair. i got bored long back actually. i wanted to make a similar post but, i'm so detached that i couldnt get myself to make a post even! glad u made the post! 🤗

when RK asked for space madhu should have actually not agreed. this is what RK needs. he needs to feel that someone is equally possessive for him and is only his! and madhu just doesnt get it!

right now RK needs to feel that he is the centre of madhu's world but, she has never made him feel this ever!! he made madhu his world and expected the same from her but, it never happened! this is his reason to loneliness. he doesnt need space. he wants madhu to understand on her own that he needs to be made to feel superior. he needs pampering

in simple words, a kid needs to be pampered when he starts envying his siblings. that insecurity that he wont be loved anymore has to be done with. madhu's world is no more only RK or so he feels...this has to go. but, i still dont like RM. i hope the Misunderstanding is never cleared and both seperate and then both die!

ETA : RK is not jealous of madhu's success. he is jealous because now he is not the proud owner of madhu's undivided innocent love and attention. (but i hardly care...let madhu live in her dreams and RK in his vodka...i shall enjoy fireworks with popcorn)

super post.

red bold ... very good analysis of rk's current situation.
blue bold... both die 🤣... me tooo.

they can separate, die together, but no third person in their life. no space for another person in rm life.

Different insight into RK 👍🏼 and since this post is about MUTUAL understanding its not only about RK. He is not the only one in this relation. Only his feelings, his emotions do not matter. Its a give and take. Madhu has made blunders, has failed to understand his deep feelings but so has RK. He has also not understood her pain on losing their child...not understood the dilemma she was in while trying to balance the role of a DIL and a professional...not understood her happiness lay in her unborn child not in being a heroine. All those instances he was the one dilly dallying between his different opinions on what she should do. Even during Sultan phase did he understand what mental torture she was going through because of his blackmail?. This is a marriage. It cannot always be about one person. Both have to work equally hard to make it work. And BOTH have failed at it. Running away from it to find solace in another person is not the way to do it. And if he indeed wants to end the marriage then do it. There is nothing worse for a wife than seeing her husband bonding with another woman beyond friendship. And however dumb Madhu has been nobody deserves that.

Originally posted by: swan20

Different insight into RK👍🏼and since this post is about MUTUAL understanding its not only about RK. He is not the only one in this relation. Only his feelings, his emotions do not matter. Its a give and take. Madhu has made blunders, has failed to understand his deep feelings but so has RK. He has also not understood her pain on losing their child...not understood the dilemma she was in while trying to balance the role of a DIL and a professional...not understood her happiness lay in her unborn child not in being a heroine. All those instances he was the one dilly dallying between his different opinions on what she should do. Even during Sultan phase did he understand what mental torture she was going through because of his blackmail?. This is a marriage. It cannot always be about one person. Both have to work equally hard to make it work. And BOTH have failed at it. Running away from it to find solace in another person is not the way to do it. And if he indeed wants to end the marriage then do it. There is nothing worse for a wife than seeing her husband bonding with another woman beyond friendship. And however dumb Madhu has been nobody deserves that.

Problem with RK is he gives up too easy. He's not a fighter. We saw him giving up during ban track and now he's giving up on his relation too. How many times is he going to keep running away from issues? No Ria...nobody can help him unless he himself overcomes his issues and starts facing them.

+1

brilliantly put.
If Madhu failed to understand RKs unsaid deep feelings and insecurities then RK failed to understand Madhu's simple often stated feelings, emotions amd desires
and nobody no matter how dumb deserves to be cheated upon (in case that is what is going to happen)

@swan20, agree with u except for one point, rk's understanding of madhu stayed limited bec her actions never matched her words..beyond a point , he lost trust in her..also, her social service., selflessness and help always yield the opposite result so what should he be happy abt

WIP, Wonderful analysis 👏

Thanks rima4ever, vivshtipriya, Babajikathullu, bikeshsngh03, susan, luv_rk, dash_aryan, kajal99 😃

Originally posted by: _charu_

wonderful post cr, thanks for penning it down

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rm as a couple still intrigue me with their eccentricities...

u have described it well as to why rk is asking fot space...the problem is that he doesnt know how to deal with madhus srardom and his own insecurities..he can never give anybody a higher position than him but at the same time hes not liking this ruining his relationship ..its bec of this ke he told her ke nothing is left bw us. It was his foresight..he saw where its all going .neither can he stop himself frm getting jealous, nor will madhu understand tht her stardom is causing a rift..hoga kya? Roz ke jhagde and kalesh..so why not end it amicably? But here also madhu played her god part ke she will clear thr mu, she will come to him if he cannot..so if she fails now, who should we blame? If she doubts rk, doesnt try to save her marriage, phir bhi bewakoof woh hi dikhegi

why is pyar so overrated? Initially pyar hasil karna hi hota hai, which rk did, frm madhu and frm sultan..but zindagi pyar se nai chalti, once the honeymoon phase is over, every couple faces similiar problems ..and those who cud sail through, pyar unka sacha hota hai...

bhai was not wrong when he said ke rk bas tumhe hasil karna chahta hai..its not tht he didnt love madhu but itna pagal koi nahi hota ke they negate their very existence for their spouse

some things will never change in their relationship..her beauty, personality and selflrss nature will always be a cause of envy , and for rk also..ppl will always praise her..rk is a total contrast and her perfectionism will always make him feel inferior, which he cannot accept

Originally posted by: yogendra1

Cvs wants us to sympathize with Madhu that's why Bittuji was given that kind of dialogue so that people get clear message with whom we should sympathize. One more thing if Madhu becomes like RK in pyaar than how come she will remain Mahaan.She will never fight with anyone to bring RK back to her she will just move on with her life and will do more movies with help of bittuji.And Cvs will give us social message that women are no longer weak .

Wonderful post CR.. agree with everything.. i m most rooting for a tragic end.. i think rk dying is the best ending and i mean it very setiously.. not out of frustration

Originally posted by: Rk-the-baazigar

After ria's char is over rm will get back together bcoz shaitan rk needs to say sorry to mahan madhu.

What i want is after this reunion ,when next separation track for Rk Madhu comes...both should separate..with Different Partners...i dont Mind it even now as rishbala story is more.

They are Just repeating the Cycles..