Episode 266 Discussion: 8th May 2013 - Page 8

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

@Bold: Actually this is a very grey area from many aspects.

1) I actually went back and saw the unsavory unwedding episode...while RK says that he unweds Madhu at mandap and humiliates her femininity...he does not breath a word about it when at chawl...all he says he is leaving her forever...status unknown. When Paddy comes to mano him...he tells her he wants Madhu to feel the weight of this relationship for entire life with its hollowness which is to say she is married but is forced to live like a widow. The next day Madhu tells press that they are estranged and separated not divorce. Generally speaking saying that I unwed you or divorce you does not mean unwedding...the relationship still holds. Hindu religion allows for no provision of divorce and from legal perspective you have to be separated for a certain amount of time (6 months) for divorce to be finalized.

2)RK believes that he has right over her because Madhu 's demeanor suggests that she might be open to a recocillation eventually after initial hiccups. He has right on her not because he is her husband but more because they love each other despite all thier problems...even after all the history between them , she melts into his arms readily...is ready to stay back at his threat.

3)Yes, he was wrong to think ...he could barge in at whim but the if he was not ready to let her go ...nor was she...she stuck around him holding onto him in her own way.

4)It is unclear what the status of thier marraige was...she did not dispute when she was referred as RK's wife on set...she returns back and resumes her role and title as his wife...crazy unless...the couple believed in thier heart that they were still wed.

For the sake of simplicity I assume that they were married...because if I assume she was unmarried then that makes her return and seductive behaviour very sick.

Originally posted by: CHAKKU_DAAYAN

@charu- I don't understand if Madhu actually is so naive that she doesn't understand bhai's feelings or she doesn't really want to understand his feelings and live in her own pink bubble? The very reason that i support RK today is that even if he is being a villain, he is truthful. He doesn't hide behind the mask of MAHAANTA. If there is really nothing between SulBala and they have pavitra rishta then why did she run away from the mall after sensing Padhaji? Couldn't she introduce bhai as her friend?

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

@Bold: Actually this is a very grey area from many aspects.

1) I actually went back and saw the unsavory unwedding episode...while RK says that he unweds Madhu at mandap and humiliates her femininity...he does not breath a word about it when at chawl...all he says he is leaving her forever...status unknown. When Paddy comes to mano him...he tells her he wants Madhu to feel the weight of this relationship for entire life with its hollowness which is to say she is married but is forced to live like a widow. The next day Madhu tells press that they are estranged and separated not divorce. Generally speaking saying that I unwed you or divorce you does not mean unwedding...the relationship still holds. Hindu religion allows for no provision of divorce and from legal perspective you have to be separated for a certain amount of time (6 months) for divorce to be finalized.

4)It is unclear what the status of thier marraige was...she did not dispute when she was referred as RK's wife on set...she returns back and resumes her role and title as his wife...crazy unless...the couple believed in thier heart that they were still wed.

For the sake of simplicity I assume that they were married...because if I assume she was unmarried then that makes her return and seductive behaviour very sick.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I totally agree with above!! But just a little thing.. My neighbor's tenants just brought their DIL after putting a red dupatta on her, in presence of close family n frenz.. They did it to avoid the expenses of wedding.. The marriage was legal.. My mom called it 'chunni chada ke le aye'. They were a socially accepted couple. I think what u need for certification is a picture and witness.

Madhu got married in the presence of media.. He accepted her his wife in front if the priest. No matter how complete or incomplete it is. She was socially accepted as his wife in front of his family n work place.. Madhu had used 'Kundra' last name in legal papers. Nobody except for Dipali ever pinpointed her half marriage.. She was respected as RK's wife..

That's just my opinion. Having said that, she still needs to get married her way..

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

Just for GK purposes-

Ancient hindu marraiges had only 4 pheras and 7 vachans...the 3 pheras were added later.

There are still communities that follow the ancient ceremony and take only 4 pheras...including some sikh communities where they take 4 laavans.

Hindu law happens to be very flexible on the question of ceremonies and how they are carried out due to disparity of rituals amongst communities. However the question of legalities only occur if someone disputes the marraige...in this case RK publically accepted Madhu as his wife and vice-versa so there is no question of dispute.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

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So what to do now...fix everything in one stroke...get RK to realize how foolish he has been and give him a valid reason to go down on his knees and repent...make Madhu face the consequences of her actions and make a decision...fix Dips/Sikky...make Sultan go away temporarily and come back in antagonist avatar...the story is back on track.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

Just for GK purposes-

Ancient hindu marraiges had only 4 pheras and 7 vachans...the 3 pheras were added later.

There are still communities that follow the ancient ceremony and take only 4 pheras...including some sikh communities where they take 4 laavans.

Hindu law happens to be very flexible on the question of ceremonies and how they are carried out due to disparity of rituals amongst communities. However the question of legalities only occur if someone disputes the marraige...in this case RK publically accepted Madhu as his wife and vice-versa so there is no question of dispute.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I know that.. I am a punjabi brahmin.. . 😊

And all marriages in my family n friends are 4 pheras.. . And if I decide to go the traditional route, it will be 4 circles around the fire., we do 7 vows with lines, nor pheras..

Edited by cardio21 - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: cardio21

I know that.. I am a punjabi brahmin.. . 😊

And all marriages in my family n friends are 4 pheras.. . And if I decide to go the traditional route, it will be 4 circles around the fire., we do 7 vows with lines, nor pheras..