Originally posted by: cardio21
.. Wat RK did to Madhu broke my heart.. But their perspective in my opinion. My 2 cents..
RK's perspective..
From his perspective, he saw a man with his conservative wife in many situations which screamed that something is cooking between them.. (2 sleepovers, him escorting her out of her work place with his hand on her waist, the man vandalizing his car and then 'Madhu' paying for the windscreen, their 'happy family' moments at Holi, then Madhu dazing out if their intimate moments to color him.)
then that man blocked their way toting a gun.. His wife asked that man to drop the gun, with soft eyes and tender touch in front of him. Then he saw her trying to make frantic phone calls to the same man.
Then within 7 hours she is all lovey dovey to him, which was very fishy. Next day he sees her hand in hand with the same guy in front of his own house, she tells him that she went to visit him (??? Didnt clear he dropped her home). At the restaurant the same man spots him n his wife dancing intimately. So he clearly was angry and left the place in rage.. What did that mean?
Men are intuitive in this regard, he is not wrong. Clearly, bhai has feelings for Madhu.. And RK can see that, not sure about Madhu.. 😕
Whatever, he said to bhai was fine, but he shouldn't have taken Madhu's name. Insult the Man U detest, who gate crashed ur party, but why drag ur wife in this conversation.
Where he really went wrong, was the public humiliation of Madhu n their relationship. That was way over the top. Saying stuff he said, he actually insulted himself. By washing his 'dirty' linen in public, he made himself n his wife a laughing stock. This has always been my bone of contention with RK. It's high time he learns that insulting the women of his house puts him n them in a bad light. Neither Madhu nor his mom ever gave him their piece of mind. They just stand their, opening their leaky tap.. Isn't a woman as a mother, wife, sister supposed to tell u when u r wrong? They only talk to him in the heat of the moment, why not when he is more receptive.
And my grudge with CVs... This is the same man, who would ask Bittuji to step out when he wanted to take his wife to task.. This is the same man who said about his mom that people should think over their actions so that they don't have to regret them.. This is the same man who trusted Madhu when the entire family was against her.. CV STOP MAKING A MESS OF YOUR STORY, PLEASE BE CONSISTENT.
Madhu's perspective..
Her random friend shows ip at the party. her husband hates the guy to no end, and actually doubts her to be having a relationship with her(she doesn't know the reasons for his suspicion).. She asks him to leave. He is about to go, but that biatch Dipali says her instigating shit. Her crazy husband, having trust issues and problems with anger management, started spouting shit against the man. She tries to stop him but is unable to. And that friend just stands there 😕 why didn't he leave from there to spare us some misery..? Then her crazy husband hits the man. Just to prevent things from getting ugly, she gestures to him in a requesting manner to cut this out. The friend leaves.
She wasn't wrong today. It's just the things she did in the past unknowingly are raising their ugly head. She doesn't see what is clearly visible to her husband. That man is falling for her. She thinks it to be a humane gesture, but it's strongly laden with his attraction and feelings for her. She is plain stupid to not understand that.
Now CVs are just playing with us by making her give those looks.. But bhai doesn't impress me..
He came to the party for his 'friend' who according to him is in trouble. Fine!! But he had time to change into designer wear decking up for the party? How about calling his friend and checking with her if he had time to change or he was needed ASAP, or if she really needed him there?. Dose he not know that her 'abusive' husband hates his guts?? What if husband gets annoyed at him showing up at the party and in lieu of that beat his friend black n blue. That's wat he actually think he does??? According to him, RK beats Madhu.. Btw Did he see them standing together happy and very much in love? I am sure he conveniently overlooked it.
Then when he realized that he was uninvited, he turns to leave like a true gentleman. I would give this to him. Thanks for using some sense. But then that 'abusive' guy starts to spout random crap. He just stands there n listen. Why didnt he just LEAVE? Why was he letting his friend being humilated because of his esteemed presence?
Then he spouts a dialogue! Justified! Why should he listen to RK's crap? Then RK hits him. He gets mad but looks at Madhu's helpless gesture and refrains himself from hitting him back. Really good. And just leaves..
Now he has been a husband, and a man who has been on his own since a very young age. Why doesn't he get a simple thing that his involvement is creating problems for his 'friend'. Okay she saved ur life but apparently she is trying to save her marriage. He should leave her alone. And try to stop dreaming about her..
On this note, I think these two people should take time out. After today, I am disgusted by RK's behavior. They need to work on their issues.. From RK's side it's his weird love, and his possessiveness for which he can't tolerate her with another man.. He needs to get his act together. Actually, Madhu's sugarcoated behavior makes him doubt her. And he like all of us knows that she can do crazy things in her stubbornness, so the jump was not proof of her love but her craziness.
He has to accept her craziness, because this is the woman he fell for and can't let go!! I could see that he has been trying but it's not enough.. If he can plan a revenge for 6 months, he can plan a way into her heart as well..
And Madhu needs to clear her stance. If she wants to take revenge, just leave RK n go. Let him kill or burn himself. Otherwise, this is the man she fell in love with. Take it or leave it. But please spare us some horror..
After today, I am really mad at the CVs for ruining the Rishbala story for me. But as I said I am not here for a bhai bala track and wish they can start to reverse this crap. I am tired of bhai being glorified at RK's expense. Even Sikky was not spared. He was supposed to be happy with Madhu in Rk's life but to accommodate bhai, he changed his stance in 2 days..😡
Mangal Lakshmi
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