Originally posted by: zoya_naziya
Agree with you and Soundarya as well on Madhu...
@Bold: If she feels indebted to her family, for having brought her into this world, despite facing so many hurdles and being showered with love from them, then should she not value her life more so for her family(especially her mother) if not for herself?
The flaw in Supercool's theory is Madhu does not feel dejected and instead is fighting back. People like her cannot keep those words in their dictionary. They are not contented souls due to insecurities of their own. There is her need to prove to herself and her family and that's why she works solo. I sometimes use Ego word for Madhu also. Madhu's ego is what makes her resilient and look for anything that will make her a crusader. This is where she proudly tells RK that she cannot fall low in indulging in bad acts and this is where she is easily able to suppress her emotions from being visible to others and concentrate all that emotional energy into looking for idealistic activities. And in her zealous pursuit of crusading activity, she sometimes forgets discretion, jurisdiction and the futility of these pursuits. For ex: her crusade right now is to rescue a boy called Aryan and to teach his father how to be a good parent. This is so idealistic and perfect for a crusade with reluctance involved that she can counter-suppress. However, the flip side is that she forgot to see who the man was...whom she is trying to counter...it is a gangster.
Read abt a colors tweet ...if Madhu will reform Sultan.
Seems that is the new plotline. Yes Sultan will agree to get reformed by Madhu...just that Madhu does not yet there is a Bhujang also, for whom Sultan cannot yet get reformed until he is finished. Will Madhu understand this ?
Talk about flawed characters and their whimsicalities. Any given day, logic makes everyone happy. I used the word insecurities there...the bullies are sometimes the one who get bullied. Likewise, can I say Madhu feels insecure and that is why wants to treat world's insecure souls ? Can I say she hides her personality and hurts more than Rishabh Kundra hides it ? Soundarya, can I go on this line of analysis for Madhu? Will I be offending anyone ? especially Madhu fans for whom she is impeccable and source of strength and security. You should not have started it...there's can of worms that be opened here and it might offend many.
Again...what I never understood is why Madhu chose to wear Dipali's saree. What was her motive and agenda ? What was she trying to achieve there ? What I also don't understand is why would she send bangles to Rishabh Kundra ? Aren't these two activities where it is quite customary to have a practical mind and not an ideal mind...because what possible crusade is attached to these activities except other than raising ego of the others. Could it be a case that in her idealistic crusading pursuits, Madhu stifled her feminine/venusian qualities and so has lost that essence of Shringara rasa and therefore...does not know what wearing ex-gf's saree means to a wife, what could shaving mean to man like Mukund, like what is the difference in amour with a man/husband is and devotion to husband is ...and that's why we cannot understand the conflicts she creates in female minds...that she cannot understand when it becomes flirtatious amour by people's perception, when it looks love etc...essentially like the archer of sagitarius, just developed crusading qualities...but again she was showing desire for her husband to confuse me there...
Now tell me who needs rescuing ? And now tell me who is more difficult and stubborn and who is more in denial of what she needs? And this is where we keep saying...Rishabh Kundra does not hurt Madhu by taking a dig at her self-esteem...though in extreme anger and honestly, he showed her the reality of her situation through limiting the situation just between himself and her and not attacking her whole character unlike Madhu who attacks Rishabh Kundra, Sultan and takes it upon herself and says you lack this and take it. Even Sultan has not made any attack on her and still keeping his limits and interests to himself. This why we keep saying, Madhu too needs to be receptive to others needs.
If people start looking at each other, all of us are flawed. All of us have our weaknesses and insecurities. Just that our weaknesses can never be our excuses for seeming to look wrong...and in the same token we cannot get judgmental in reckless manner...its easy for us to call RK as kameena...because he permits us to...Its not easy for us to say anything against Madhu as she does not allow us to say it and it suffocates us...this is just a human tendency to react to behavioral characteristics. It is appreciated if people are receptive. And a bit of sense of humour always balances people...both idealism and cynicism can be balanced. And in all of this we have CV's confusing weave that Madhu can transform into any shape...
Edited by 0-SD-0 - 12 years ago
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