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Originally posted by: _charu_

everybody's definition of love is different..one cannot plan to fall in love and when you start looking for reasons for falling in love with someone, that means it's only attraction/appreciation not love .. when the reasons change, your love for that person changes?? if RK was not that kind hearted, loving RK, Madhu cannot love RK right??..then why did she say she accepted him with all his shortcomings? the other day we had a long long discussion about Madhu's love in one of the topics on MF..it was worth reading..

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/madhubala-ek-ishq-ek-junoon/3486573/does-madhu-know-who-she-fell-in-love-with

i think she loved him and she still loves him...my point of concern was never sultan madhu "fictional" love story 😆 why can't sultan fall for madhu? anybody can fall for madhu ! but isn't she the one who's creating all this drama in her life, getting entangled into it and repent? (in Sultan's case, she said she will not repent..okay if she says so..)..she was the one who said she cannot back off in her war with RK , uski ma ne usko haar maanna nahi sikhaya, that's why she never left the job on RK's set, toh fine...more humiliation came her way...wasn't that expected? why blame RK alone? every action has a reaction..get ready for the reaction if you want action..holds true for both..😛

Originally posted by: ennishet

Thanks for the link, I remember reading that post and replying to it. I believe Madhu is lying about not being in love ... maybe in her quest for survival post revenge. She loves RK and will always love him. As to the daily humiliation she faced on the sets, was it needed after the manner in which RK extracted his revenge? Can't both work at the same place and avoid each other?

Originally posted by: blacklambo

Maybe Madhu triggered a chain of events but who allowed her to bring the Ganesha in the RK Mansion? Why did RK step aside when the Ganesha idol was being brought inside the house. He intercepted her and tried to put an end but ultimately stepped aside. Why?

You can take a horse to the water but can't make it drink. If RK does not want to be changed, can Madhu or anyone change him? Knowing his personality, NO, NO & NO.

Originally posted by: _charu_

i can't answer that one 😆 acc. to Radha, unke dil mein zehar hai and both are pouring it on each other..Madhu ke dil ka zehar samajh aata hai but RK ke dil mein kya hai ? his zehar never turns out of stock 🤢😆 yes, it was imp. for Madhu to give it back to RK with interest 👍🏼 she's doing it..why are we cribbing when writers are bringing poetic justice to each of the flawed characters ? like u said, chill and enjoy the show..☯️

Originally posted by: ennishet

now love both, so am a true Rishbala fan ... but don't agree with everything people say about RK-Madhu. There are just three safe threads in the forum where I speak without fear, this is one of them. You're right, better to chill and enjoy the show. 😊

Ok, i can see that the chill out zone has started. And here I am all ready to begin my kahani ... I will understand if noone replies to my post.😆

When I used to watch BV, I hoped, that at some point Anandi gets into trouble, at some point, someone's else viewpoint is proved to be right, and she is proved to be wrong. It never ever happened. Every situation was rounded off with her lecture and the peripheral characters looking shamefaced. I got a bit tired honestly.

Why I like madhu (and i hate it that I am having to defend any of these two because I love both characters), is because she is a grey character. Grey does not necessarily always mean the space between good and evil. It is a weakness in character, some kink in one's personality, so it may be stupidity (i dislike this word though😡), naivety, self righteousness, altruism anything. Any characteristic that develops lopsided at the cost of others is bound to emanate negativity, after a point.

My point is ...SO what if she makes a mistake, and thus faces consequences?? Why does the surrounding junta have to suffer because of her, you would ask me? because they love her, and accept her with all her faults/weaknesses. That is normal, right, in a family? But what kind of family, she has had a father who wanted to kill her. Isn't that enough to traumatise people for life, to always have esteem issues? I know a friend who happened to overhear her parents say she was a 'mistake', they had'nt planned for her. Till date, she says it when she's low...oh what's the point, even my parents did'nt want me. Bit much, I know, we yell at her😆

if you analyse Madhu even a little, she has this overriding need to feel good about herself. We forget everything else because of her beauty and her good naturedness. Where does this recklessness come from, why is it even there, if she has had a secure life, she has had a comfortable life emotionally unlike RK? Almost like a self fulfilling prophecy, the men in her life keep dropping her...her father wanted to kill her, Mukund ditched her, RK dumped her...all this because she is too good to be true?? And they got subconsciously irritated with her goodness or her Good Samaritan act? ? The manifestations of these complexes are different in a male and female.

So all I'm saying is every character in this serial, has its justifications...internal or extraneous. The inter-play of these is what we find interesting. madhu also ...she drives the drama with her decisions, right or wrong...is that called stupid? That's called powerful, I would think which is why she has an equally powerful lover called RK. She has to live with the consequences of her decisions and with RK😉, and she will😊

BTW, what do people around her do? Tying up with the recent drama, why does Kaka have to come to her chawl to drop Aryan...he knows Sultan would never brook any outsider's interference?? Aryan could have had his training, looking for his father along with kaka? It will only make him stronger. ...😆

Ok...I went on and on...I hope I did'nt babble too much. i still have more to say...later. And i am not going add a disclaimer...mere dil ko pata hai ki mein RK-Madhu, dono ki fan hoon😆.

Originally posted by zoya_naziya

I was mulling over quite a few things...

Why Madhu loves/d RK is a million dollar question that has been plaguing our minds since Oct/Nov... And we still don't know... But keeping the current scenario in mind, and also the fact that Madhu is a dariyadil (Compassionate /large-hearted), am now forced to raise the question yet again as to why she loves/d him...

Did this love stem out of sympathy? Was he just a cause for her? What was it about him that made her revere him?

From then on, he seeks her out in the next episode when she is talking to Radhaji and wanting to know about his relationship with Dipali. He brings her to his / their room and asks her to question him directly about Dipali. Now, why does he want to divulge the details of his past relationship to Madhu if it is not to make her understand?

These subtle changes and many more that follow become positive for their relationship. He changes from an abuser (?) to a protector.

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

But what kind of family, she has had a father who wanted to kill her. Isn't that enough to traumatise people for life, to always have esteem issues? I know a friend who happened to overhear her parents say she was a 'mistake', they had'nt planned for her. Till date, she says it when she's low...oh what's the point, even my parents did'nt want me. Bit much, I know, we yell at her😆

if you analyse Madhu even a little, she has this overriding need to feel good about herself. We forget everything else because of her beauty and her good naturedness. Where does this recklessness come from, why is it even there, if she has had a secure life, she has had a comfortable life emotionally unlike RK? Almost like a self fulfilling prophecy, the men in her life keep dropping her...her father wanted to kill her, Mukund ditched her, RK dumped her...all this because she is too good to be true??