Discussion: Is suicide the only solution? - Page 3

well topic
i do want to share my view point....
i think people commit suicide because.....
1. they lost hope and faith
2. lack of really good frnds n family
3. when they are thinking only about themselves
4. when someone thinks that s/he is most pitiable r deplorable
5. those who are self centered
6. most of the ppl think that those who commit suicide are weak but i think that they are very strong because one needs a lot of courage to end his/her life...only those who has enough courage can do it
the other question is how to combat it?
there are some solutions
1. thru meditation r prayer
2. keep urself bz
3. pursue a good hobby
4. classical r light music offcourse
5. by looking down to us
6. understand the value of life
7. having even one true frnd who'll b wid u in every difficulty
8. if one has belief on this that nothing is useless in this world
but in the end i want to say that its not the only solution.....

Originally posted by: rutaba

well topic
i do want to share my view point....
i think people commit suicide because.....
1. they lost hope and faith
2. lack of really good frnds n family
3. when they are thinking only about themselves
4. when someone thinks that s/he is most pitiable r deplorable
5. those who are self centered
6. most of the ppl think that those who commit suicide are weak but i think that they are very strong because one needs a lot of courage to end his/her life...only those who has enough courage can do it
the other question is how to combat it?
there are some solutions
1. thru meditation r prayer
2. keep urself bz
3. pursue a good hobby
4. classical r light music offcourse
5. by looking down to us
6. understand the value of life
7. having even one true frnd who'll b wid u in every difficulty
8. if one has belief on this that nothing is useless in this world
but in the end i want to say that its not the only solution.....

thanks a lot rutuba for ur wonderful views😃

Originally posted by: varuncoolhilo

AREY swati aap bhi dil se sochti hain? 🤣 ya apne pyaare pyaare huda ka dil lekar aayi hain jo zor zor se dhadak raha hai...

ab itni serious mat ho jao dil gir jaye warna phir se tumhe headless invisible dimag se kaam chalana hoga 😆 😆 😆

oye varun chirkut pakadkar marungii tumko😆🤣sirf mai hi nahi har ladki dil se hi sochti hai😉

waise tumara dimag tho janam se hi gayab tha aur ab apna faltu dil bhi priyanka ko de diya🤪u where the first dimagless baby in the world🤣

kabhi tho serious ho jao yaar😉😆

Originally posted by: lrllike

oye varun chirkut pakadkar marungii tumko😆🤣sirf mai hi nahi har ladki dil se hi sochti hai😉

waise tumara dimag tho janam se hi gayab tha aur ab apna faltu dil bhi priyanka ko de diya🤪u where the first dimagless baby in the world🤣

kabhi tho serious ho jao yaar😉😆

ahaaa....keel ko sar pe maara..as in, hes hit d nail on d head!! 😆swati dear..ab jaldi se confess karo..ki huda ji ke liye aapke dil mein kya khayal hai?!!😉 😆 cumin 2 d topic..rutaba di, i completely agree wid d point u made...a person committing suicide is not weak..its nt easy to jus end it all..but ya,its sad that d same strength dey use 2 kill themselves culd instead have been used 2 face the problem which led them to take this extreme step...

Originally posted by: lrllike

hi lrllians😛first of all a jaddu ki jappi to all bachaas🤗okay today i am startin a discussion on a very serious topic😃strange na😆.last epi of lrl we noticed tht how cadet ud is forced to commit suicide as he is enable to cope up wit peer pressure n certain other things.even cadet pooja tried to jump off from the cliff as she could not handle the stress.

so wat u guys thg is sucide the perfect solution to end all problems🤢has life become so cheap n insignificant tht u just wish to put a full stop to it😭😡some where in ur life even u may hav been attempted to tak this step, even i was 😭 but when i told my mom abt it she yelled at me lik hell😳who will giv me company😆so for now plan cancel😆just kiddin

this is problem is quite prominent among youngsters .today many school goin kids tak this drastic step just because they fail in exams😡😭or if they r unable to fullfil their parents expectationsits high among the age group of 15 to 25 yrs.one of my relative hanged her self to the ceilin just bcoz she had an argument wit her husband😭 n when his husband saw her hangin he was mentally effected to the extent tht he had to be given elctric shocks.it took years for him to recover but even today i can see the pain on his face😭it has changed his life

many youngsters tak this stupid steps due to love failure😡one of my frnd could bear this pain n wanted to end her life but we had to make understand n console her it took time for her to come out of it

v lost many good actors to suicide lik kuljit randhawa,nafisa joseph etc.one my fav actress divya bharti took this step when she was just 19 yrs old😭 .once actor jackie shroff wanted to tak this step when he was under financial crunch

so wat plp should to relieve there stress n anxiety ?commit sucide....naaaaaaaaah then how to combat stress?i personally listen to music especially classical songs its quite soothin😃 or i just tak a nap n cry for 15 min to relieve myself.many plp r turning spiritual n religious to reduce tension😊 others practice power yoga n meditation or meet wit the psycharist or go in for counselling .buddin actress jiah khan cuts her cloths wit scissors when is quite stressed 🤢

its quite serious topic i hope to get maximum partciaption from everyone especially from silent readers as we all need to find a solution to this evil 😃

somewhere i don't agree to the bold part😛 don't mind....but i consider it as running away from the situation. listening to soothing music...or turning spiritual...is not the solution..it just suppresses the bad part somewhere back in your mind. one should learn how to face the situation(like many other members have written)....and that is what my opinion wud be to counter such suicidal thoughts..it's difficult...but these feelings are guaranteed not to bounce back..if something is bothering you...to make you think beyond living...the best thing to do is to face it...even if it gives you pain and not suiciding.there was a scene is LRL when bhargav asked the cadets what is the main thing which decides the development of "traitor" characteristics in a soldier to which naina replied correctly..its the "conscious". the ability to decide what is wrong and what is right...when a person loses this...he/she loses himself/herself. 😊 one should never let the conscious lose.😳
above all one should not forget...that his/her life..is not only theirs...its of many ppl...isn't it utter selfishness...to give your life...without even giving a thought about ppl who love or care for you??...and if there is no such person...then one should think about all the deprived ppl...who live around us...some are handicapped...some are so very poor that they starve to death...some suffer from horrible..incurable diseases...if god gave us a better life than them...we should know how to respect it...😳

and and and😛 one should learn to love,respect and believe oneself. if one does...suicide will never be an option for solving a problem.😳

hope i didn't bore.....😳😆

Originally posted by: rutaba

well topic
i do want to share my view point....
i think people commit suicide because.....
1. they lost hope and faith
2. lack of really good frnds n family
3. when they are thinking only about themselves
4. when someone thinks that s/he is most pitiable r deplorable
5. those who are self centered
6. most of the ppl think that those who commit suicide are weak but i think that they are very strong because one needs a lot of courage to end his/her life...only those who has enough courage can do it
the other question is how to combat it?
there are some solutions
1. thru meditation r prayer
2. keep urself bz
3. pursue a good hobby
4. classical r light music offcourse
5. by looking down to us
6. understand the value of life
7. having even one true frnd who'll b wid u in every difficulty
8. if one has belief on this that nothing is useless in this world
but in the end i want to say that its not the only solution.....

Very well said rutaba .. these days ur replys r impressing me a lot afterall u r My Collegue and u r IF's member bec of me so let me take the credit of this j/k😃 😉... now after that i don't want to anything more actually i m thinking what to say but yeah i will definately edit my post bec it would be unfair to not comment on it swathi Bingo for chosing this serious topic for discussion 👏 👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: kiran_sherry

Very well said rutaba .. these days ur replys r impressing me a lot afterall u r My Collegue and u r IF's member bec of me so let me take the credit of this j/k😃 😉... now after that i don't want to anything more actually i m thinking what to say but yeah i will definately edit my post bec it would be unfair to not comment on it swathi Bingo for chosing this serious topic for discussion 👏 👏 👏 👏

thanka di😃but plz di edit ur post soon as i want to listen some pravachan from u😆😛

Originally posted by: lrllike

thanka di😃but plz di edit ur post soon as i want to listen some pravachan from u😆😛

okay Swathi i will do it for u now ready for my Pravachan😆 😆 😆

Now my parvachan about suicide on swathi's request 😃 😉

I think when the pain increase and u don't have any near or dear one with whom u can share then suicide happens.. it can be bec of Guilt, bec of sharm or bec of sorrows anything which is untolerable and accepted by mind leads to suicide ... the person who thinks of doing suicide is not bad, or crazy, or weak. It doesn't even mean that the person really want to die - it only means that the person have got more pain than that he can't cope with it mentally. Its like If one starts having heavy burden on ur shoulders but one time u will collapse bec u can't carry more burden .. even ur will power will not help u further. same is a case with ur mental pressure that some times it become too much to handle by ut mind and soul

Now after reasons,comes to the 2nd part how it can be prevented first understand the nature of the pain If there is any intense emotional and/or physical pain, bec the [erson should now wther to end the emotional pain or the physical pain. Person do not confuse ending of pain with ending of life.

Always think positive bec to every problem theire is solution... unfortunately we live in that part of world where there r no proper guidance or centers where people having traumas can be dealt with care .... people with weak thinking and having snsitive or hypersenitive nature should badly needs those people who can handle them infact cure them.

These people forget that if they try to end their pain by ending life, they will start a world of pain for the loved ones that have been left behind. And they will be deprived of many wonderful things that have yet to experience and happen in future life.

Lastly i must say that its my experience that children r not as much close or share their secrets with their parents rather they trust more to their peersa nd friends so its a duty of parents as well as teachers to give them so much confidence and trust that if they unknownlingly do any mistake they will be forgiven bec sometimes bec of the jhar of parents or teachers that due to sharm teeagers or even grown up person committ suicide ... moreover if one cannot share things with parents if they r not available than atleast he/she should consult anyfrind atleast share whatever bec than the pressure will come out and the burden will be shared rather than this that u think urself lonely bec in this world no one is alone ... if u r alone rememeber ur God is with u so believe in God if u cann't beieve in any near or dearone 😉



I hope now u r satisfied with my parvachans 😉

Originally posted by: kiran_sherry

Now my parvachan about suicide on swathi's request 😃 😉

I think when the pain increase and u don't have any near or dear one with whom u can share then suicide happens.. it can be bec of Guilt, bec of sharm or bec of sorrows anything which is untolerable and accepted by mind leads to suicide ... the person who thinks of doing suicide is not bad, or crazy, or weak. It doesn't even mean that the person really want to die - it only means that the person have got more pain than that he can't cope with it mentally. Its like If one starts having heavy burden on ur shoulders but one time u will collapse bec u can't carry more burden .. even ur will power will not help u further. same is a case with ur mental pressure that some times it become too much to handle by ut mind and soul

Now after reasons,comes to the 2nd part how it can be prevented first understand the nature of the pain If there is any intense emotional and/or physical pain, bec the [erson should now wther to end the emotional pain or the physical pain. Person do not confuse ending of pain with ending of life.

Always think positive bec to every problem theire is solution... unfortunately we live in that part of world where there r no proper guidance or centers where people having traumas can be dealt with care .... people with weak thinking and having snsitive or hypersenitive nature should badly needs those people who can handle them infact cure them.

These people forget that if they try to end their pain by ending life, they will start a world of pain for the loved ones that have been left behind. And they will be deprived of many wonderful things that have yet to experience and happen in future life.

Lastly i must say that its my experience that children r not as much close or share their secrets with their parents rather they trust more to their peersa nd friends so its a duty of parents as well as teachers to give them so much confidence and trust that if they unknownlingly do any mistake they will be forgiven bec sometimes bec of the jhar of parents or teachers that due to sharm teeagers or even grown up person committ suicide ... moreover if one cannot share things with parents if they r not available than atleast he/she should consult anyfrind atleast share whatever bec than the pressure will come out and the burden will be shared rather than this that u think urself lonely bec in this world no one is alone ... if u r alone rememeber ur God is with u so believe in God if u cann't beieve in any near or dearone 😉



I hope now u r satisfied with my parvachans 😉

thanks di for the useful pravachan😆😛