Discussion: Is suicide the only solution?

hi lrllians😛first of all a jaddu ki jappi to all bachaas🤗okay today i am startin a discussion on a very serious topic😃strange na😆.last epi of lrl we noticed tht how cadet ud is forced to commit suicide as he is enable to cope up wit peer pressure n certain other things.even cadet pooja tried to jump off from the cliff as she could not handle the stress.

so wat u guys thg is sucide the perfect solution to end all problems🤢has life become so cheap n insignificant tht u just wish to put a full stop to it😭😡some where in ur life even u may hav been attempted to tak this step, even i was 😭 but when i told my mom abt it she yelled at me lik hell😳who will giv me company😆so for now plan cancel😆just kiddin

this is problem is quite prominent among youngsters .today many school goin kids tak this drastic step just because they fail in exams😡😭or if they r unable to fullfil their parents expectationsits high among the age group of 15 to 25 yrs.one of my relative hanged her self to the ceilin just bcoz she had an argument wit her husband😭 n when his husband saw her hangin he was mentally effected to the extent tht he had to be given elctric shocks.it took years for him to recover but even today i can see the pain on his face😭it has changed his life

many youngsters tak this stupid steps due to love failure😡one of my frnd could bear this pain n wanted to end her life but we had to make understand n console her it took time for her to come out of it

v lost many good actors to suicide lik kuljit randhawa,nafisa joseph etc.one my fav actress divya bharti took this step when she was just 19 yrs old😭 .once actor jackie shroff wanted to tak this step when he was under financial crunch

so wat plp should to relieve there stress n anxiety ?commit sucide....naaaaaaaaah then how to combat stress?i personally listen to music especially classical songs its quite soothin😃 or i just tak a nap n cry for 15 min to relieve myself.many plp r turning spiritual n religious to reduce tension😊 others practice power yoga n meditation or meet wit the psycharist or go in for counselling .buddin actress jiah khan cuts her cloths wit scissors when is quite stressed 🤢

its quite serious topic i hope to get maximum partciaption from everyone especially from silent readers as we all need to find a solution to this evil 😃

Hey Swati...I am so happily surprised to see such a mature topic from your side

By the way, whatever u say is completely true..
I am in my 20's...and even in my life there has been innemurable depressing moments where even I have felt that the easist way out is to probably end it..

I know we are so selfish to think in such a manner...Here we are thinking only about ourselves as we are not strong enough to face the hardships life is offering us

But just stop and think for a second..Think about our parents...our siblings...These people in our lives are someone who are genuinely concerned and just imagine what their condition will be when they see their children ending their lives...

Can they live their life happily ever then..

Just like u said..there are hundreds of ways through which we can combat depression and lonliness...Some like music...some could read..pursue a hobby..go out for movies...start something creative..learn music...dance...yoga..anything which just makes them feel happy

Even I like to sing and listen to songs when I am depressed...Or I just log on to the net and share a laugh with some of my net friends...

Live is very precious and I guess one should learn how to value it...love it and appreciate all good things around us...

I feel nice after writing his and I hope that no one ever has such depressing moments which force them to end their lives...

Cheers...

Originally posted by: delo

Hey Swati...I am so happily surprised to see such a mature topic from your side

By the way, whatever u say is completely true..
I am in my 20's...and even in my life there has been innemurable depressing moments where even I have felt that the easist way out is to probably end it..

I know we are so selfish to think in such a manner...Here we are thinking only about ourselves as we are not strong enough to face the hardships life is offering us

But just stop and think for a second..Think about our parents...our siblings...These people in our lives are someone who are genuinely concerned and just imagine what their condition will be when they see their children ending their lives...

Can they live their life happily ever then..

Just like u said..there are hundreds of ways through which we can combat depression and lonliness...Some like music...some could read..pursue a hobby..go out for movies...start something creative..learn music...dance...yoga..anything which just makes them feel happy

Even I like to sing and listen to songs when I am depressed...Or I just log on to the net and share a laugh with some of my net friends...

Live is very precious and I guess one should learn how to value it...love it and appreciate all good things around us...

I feel nice after writing his and I hope that no one ever has such depressing moments which force them to end their lives...

Cheers...

thanks for ur valuable views daisy dear😃sahi kaha yaar we all r quite self centered we never thg wat will happen to our parents who hav nurtured us for so many yearsn others who genuinely love us😃we never think about there status😡

even i was quite a reserved n introvert person before n never used to share my problems wit any one but now hav changed n i vent out my feelings n worries to my dear ones😃n trust me it works wonders😛

even i log on to if to get some relief haila thanks to vijay😃 for creatin if its a lovely place which has given me the opportunity to interact n mak goo frnds😛thanks a lot jiju😆

Swati...Sharing our problems with others is also a great stress buster and helps combat stress...
One should never stack up problems and worries within them
Just the other day I just vented out my feelings and shared my problems with a dear net friend...Who in turn told me something more depressing about her life
That incident made me believe that I am not the only one in this world who is stocked with innemurable problems...There are others too who might be going through much more than what I am facing
This thought also kept me going and yes this net world also brings in so much cheer...It has helped us meet so many new friends...share our problems ...talk abt various issuses making us feel good about ourselves 😊 😊

personally, i feel that the people who want to commit suicide are weak, because they can't face the choices that life has brought for them, and they feel the necessity to run away from their lives..

depression and loneliness are two things which every teen experience at some time or the other.. the main thing to do about that is to talk to a counsellor or to your parents.. reading, listenign to music etc dont work..trust me.!

i have friends who are so depressed about some thiings that they find it better to cut themselves or commit suicide..but the stronger character will always stay strong and face the difficulties of life..and as they say, after eevry sad thing, there is something happy going to come to you.. and i wholeheartedly agree to that..

for ex.. last year was extremely bad for me.. not that i thought abotu suicide.but last year ws bad. i spent every day in the hope that it will get better, and by the end of the year, i had started believing that things has to go better sometime.. and by god's grace it did! i'm happy to say that things are like before and happy now..

so i believe, that if you are suffering from depression or trying to commit suicide, just remember that there is someone somewhere who will be hurt when you die..and believe in God!.. if you have faith in god, everything will be all right.

I feel suicidez is cowardness,
only fools those who cannot face the world or those who r afraid n weakminded persons do tat
itz not the solution for end the of thge problems instead he could hav shown sometin else
many'll face problems more than this but they'll be bold enough to face by themselves tat they can do anytin to prove them n face all the difficult situations, n not by hearin to any1's words or advice like Rajveer givin to Yudi
Aarthi

Well reading..listening to music and other hobbies might not help someone to totally divert their minds if they are feeling suicidal...

But it can for sure help when one is lonely and depressed...If a person keeps himself busy in a hobby he/she enjoys then there is no time to think about the negative things happening in life...

There are many youngsters who don't speak to their parents as they don't want them to burden them with their unnecessary problems...So to deal with it in our own manner one has to keep himself engaged and do things which make him happy...

But I again say that ending ones life is not the end to everything...Infact its a very cowardish act and one should never give it a thought...

we need to also think abt the mental state of the plp who try to commit suicide bcoz it takes alot of guts to tak this step.probably they would hav suffered much which is lik enough is enough

rite now my life has been quite testin n i am goin through lot of problems still i try to keep my self happy even though there is no reason 😃

accordin to me haapy is lik an elusive bird the more u try to catch it the higher it flies so u need to find happiness within urself n u hav to search it 😛

u need to be quite stron not only physical but also mentally n be ready to face any type of problems

hi diiiiiiiiii nice topic........reallyy ......great 👏 👏 👏 👏
waise its really difficult step to put THE END.to ur life............but its not the only solution for the probs there are many other solutions........... there is no end for problems then why shld v end our life for one prob........ happiness is just like cat tail more u run to catch it more it will go away from u..........and if u don't get any solution best way is discuss it with ur parents n frnds........
waise my stress buster is rajeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvhis pics ,his vids 😳

Originally posted by: rajeev-bigfan

hi diiiiiiiiii nice topic........reallyy ......great 👏 👏 👏 👏
waise its really difficult step to put THE END.to ur life............but its not the only solution for the probs there are many other solutions........... there is no end for problems then why shld v end our life for one prob........ happiness is just like cat tail more u run to catch it more it will go away from u..........and if u don't get any solution best way is discuss it with ur parents n frnds........
waise my stress buster is rajeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvhis pics ,his vids 😳

i totally agree wit u neha 😛life ka dusra naam hi problems jo kekta ke serial ki tarah kabhi katam nahi hote .agar problems katam tho life bhi katam😭

n i know stress bust karne ke liye tum kya karti😉raj ka bhala ho😆