Discussion: Is suicide the only solution? - Page 2

hey hii swatii 😃 ...a very good and nice topic 😊 ...
u no swati that ppl dont care abt their lives they think nad and commit suicid 😡 😭 but aft that wht their family has 2 face...no 1 can imagine 😭

i dont no y ppl take this type of serious step in their life.ppl who r stupid????may be

if u get failed i love or exams that doesnt mean that ur life is ended .Allah has craeted this world...and life to live it not to commit suicide 😊 .we should live this life wth joys..wth happiness and then see the world.😃

if u r in stress listen 2 soft music..cry for sumtimes...share ur dukh wth ur faimly meme and wth ur frdss and u will feel better 😛

i hope wht i said is true 😃

hey swati!! AWESUM topic gurl!! 👏
u no, i was pretty surprised..humaari shri swati se itna serious topic?! 😕 😉 😆 J/K! 😛

neway,cumin 2 da topic,
a few months back, one of my frnds near my house attempted suicide, because her parents used 2 fight a lot,n she tot dey'd seperate. thnkfully, her sister came to know before sumthing bad happened.after dis, my frnd asked me asked me, "if u had my problems,wuldnt u hav tried this?" i mean, i was so shocked, coz it was d first time such a thot came to my mind.
d thing is guys, dat wen u first think of every problem u hav in life u think dat suicide is like,d best way to end it all. jus one second of life, n den u'll be free. but isn't life sumthing so precious? i mean, wat've u got dese 15-16 or 29 yrs or watever for? jus 2 laugh a few days,cry a few days, n den end it??? dese days, everythng seems 2 be like, "chaar din ka khel" type. its as if life's becum a joke. wat i dont understand is...y dus everyone think like dat??
ok, u may say.."don't kill urself, think of dose who luv u.." 2 sum1 whos tryin 2 take dis step..but d fact is, y shuld u actually say dat?? isn't deir life precious 2 dem?? i mean, nuthin in life can be worth killing urself...
i wont say its cowardly..ya, it dus happen dat sumtimes, u feel ur stuck in d worst possible situation, n everyone has d rite 2 be frustrated..n guys, it dus take strength 2 d sumthin 2 urself which'll take u away frm dis world. but if ne1 can gather d strength 4 dat,den y not 2 face up 2 deir problem??? isn't dat wat life is..isn't it a challenge? i mean,how wuld it be if ur life was always full of happy times and laughing faces..wuld it move newhere??? isn't every problem dat cums ur way,a challenge in life?? n isn't taking ur life,jus d easy way out??
i think every person who can commit suicide,has d strength in dem 2 face d world..but wats important is dat dey realise it, n go ahead wid it. how bad can things get neway?
so, in answer 2 ur question swati, no...i dont think suicide is a solution 2 nething...if u can actually think of killing urself, cant u stand up 2 face watevers forcing u 2 do dat??

Originally posted by: coolgirl_13

hey swati!! AWESUM topic gurl!! 👏
u no, i was pretty surprised..humaari shri swati se itna serious topic?! 😕 😉 😆 J/K! 😛

neway,cumin 2 da topic,
a few months back, one of my frnds near my house attempted suicide, because her parents used 2 fight a lot,n she tot dey'd seperate. thnkfully, her sister came to know before sumthing bad happened.after dis, my frnd asked me asked me, "if u had my problems,wuldnt u hav tried this?" i mean, i was so shocked, coz it was d first time such a thot came to my mind.
d thing is guys, dat wen u first think of every problem u hav in life u think dat suicide is like,d best way to end it all. jus one second of life, n den u'll be free. but isn't life sumthing so precious? i mean, wat've u got dese 15-16 or 29 yrs or watever for? jus 2 laugh a few days,cry a few days, n den end it??? dese days, everythng seems 2 be like, "chaar din ka khel" type. its as if life's becum a joke. wat i dont understand is...y dus everyone think like dat??
ok, u may say.."don't kill urself, think of dose who luv u.." 2 sum1 whos tryin 2 take dis step..but d fact is, y shuld u actually say dat?? isn't deir life precious 2 dem?? i mean, nuthin in life can be worth killing urself...
i wont say its cowardly..ya, it dus happen dat sumtimes, u feel ur stuck in d worst possible situation, n everyone has d rite 2 be frustrated..n guys, it dus take strength 2 d sumthin 2 urself which'll take u away frm dis world. but if ne1 can gather d strength 4 dat,den y not 2 face up 2 deir problem??? isn't dat wat life is..isn't it a challenge? i mean,how wuld it be if ur life was always full of happy times and laughing faces..wuld it move newhere??? isn't every problem dat cums ur way,a challenge in life?? n isn't taking ur life,jus d easy way out??
i think every person who can commit suicide,has d strength in dem 2 face d world..but wats important is dat dey realise it, n go ahead wid it. how bad can things get neway?
so, in answer 2 ur question swati, no...i dont think suicide is a solution 2 nething...if u can actually think of killing urself, cant u stand up 2 face watevers forcing u 2 do dat??

haila sheru kabhi mai bhi serious ho jathi galathi se😆

plp commit suicide for silly thgs lik a newly maaried women who was 6 mths pregnant commited suicide just bcoz there was an srk live show in the city n his hubby denied to come wit her so they had an argument which led to wife burning herself😭such a wierd reason😡

Originally posted by: alyna

hey hii swatii 😃 ...a very good and nice topic 😊 ...
u no swati that ppl dont care abt their lives they think nad and commit suicid 😡 😭 but aft that wht their family has 2 face...no 1 can imagine 😭

i dont no y ppl take this type of serious step in their life.ppl who r stupid????may be

if u get failed i love or exams that doesnt mean that ur life is ended .Allah has craeted this world...and life to live it not to commit suicide 😊 .we should live this life wth joys..wth happiness and then see the world.😃

if u r in stress listen 2 soft music..cry for sumtimes...share ur dukh wth ur faimly meme and wth ur frdss and u will feel better 😛

i hope wht i said is true 😃

hi alyna thanks for ur reply😃ya we need to shre our dukh we our dear ones😃

frankly speaking....mujhe ye word hi bilku pasand nahin....*touch wood*...I hav not been thru any such situations in my life...i thank god...i thank my family for da luv dey hav given to me...

But wen I hear students comminting suicides...jus becoz of their marks...and jus becoz they din get admissions in institutions like IIT and NIT and all such crap news in papers....I fell like....Chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii....ye log pagal hain kya.....ppl might think...only necoz my life has been smooth I m telling like dis....NO NO NO..noing like dat....marks mujhe bhi bahut baar kam aaye hain....par maine toe aise kuch nahin kiya...I worked hard...I told my parents to help me...nd dey r da best....

God is so awesome...he has given us life...and v should neva waste....no matta v r da richest person in da world...and no matter if v r beggars....

Here is sumthing I wud like to share wid u alll....

Chalte Chalte gamoon ka paane ka naam zindagi hain...

Phir uss gam ko bhula kar hastein jaane ka naam zindagi hain....

Swapna-mobile😳

Originally posted by: delo

Well reading..listening to music and other hobbies might not help someone to totally divert their minds if they are feeling suicidal...

But it can for sure help when one is lonely and depressed...If a person keeps himself busy in a hobby he/she enjoys then there is no time to think about the negative things happening in life...

There are many youngsters who don't speak to their parents as they don't want them to burden them with their unnecessary problems...So to deal with it in our own manner one has to keep himself engaged and do things which make him happy...

But I again say that ending ones life is not the end to everything...Infact its a very cowardish act and one should never give it a thought...

i agree completely extremely well said! 👏👏.. but you know one thing i noticed is that in india parents are more like..parents. i mean, here for ex, my friends are a lot more free wtith their parents and can talk about stuff they want.. while in india..we tend to keep things from them..dono why?

nice topic swati.
to be frank this year when i joined my coll in the first 2months we used to get halfday holidays bcoz 2or3 students commited suicide of our coll and the some of the students assosciation members came and used to declare the hols.and for us in the starting it was like a joke, and me and some of my frens when ever we feel bore we used to think hope somebody commits suicide today bcoz it our strting of cool bcoz of the change in environment we used to think like that.and after this again 2or3 people commited 1 is out of danger and this time after seeing so many students doing like this,we to started thinking of that and we realise that our thoughts in the starting r so disgusting that we r waiting for somebodys death.
and the reasons for all these students commited r some of them r hostlers and their reason is stress and teachers misbehave that if they dont get any gud marks they make them stand and ask before the entire students.and the tudents who r not hostlers they r also saying same reasons.
means this is the age of their transmission in to adults and mature citizens and everyone have huge aims which they want to acheive at any cost.and if they doesnt reach to their expectations and if their frens r doing gud they used to compare themselves with them and feel as if they r waste and it leads to depression and finally one day takes a decission suicide.this is what i really obsered in all these cases.they dont think of their parents for even 1min also and finally comes to a cnclusion and takes a decission which is their lifes big and final decission.
and to be frank not only all the above cases and some of my frens,including me we wont discuss with our parents.in childhood we used to discuss anything with our parents but when we enter certain age some of them will stop discussing with their parents openly,especially when we love someon we wont want to discuss with our parents but we can discuss with frens,i dont say discussing with frens is wrong they also adice u better,but parents r the one who r going to take major ecissons of our life and they r the right members who can guide us better bcoz they know us better and their parents on one day will certainly know this and its better in starting only we clear and if they denied they can take a brvae step and not suicide then.
so suicides include so many resaons stress etc reason might be anything but i really wonder people think so many times abt a singlething several times and discuss them with everyone but they take this silly decissions in 1sec and performthem immediately.and really the students who had commited suicide r bcoz of shyfeeling when their teachers insult them or their frens insult them and 1 question which they surely face is how to face them and they commit suicide, they think of facing a few people and take a decission of not facing the entire world.
sorry im saying discuss with parents but myself i never follow in most times but as i heard and saw so many of them its better to this with parents mainly mother.

Originally posted by: devilangel

i agree completely extremely well said! 👏👏.. but you know one thing i noticed is that in india parents are more like..parents. i mean, here for ex, my friends are a lot more free wtith their parents and can talk about stuff they want.. while in india..we tend to keep things from them..dono why?

well shreyu,ur rite in a way...dat kids r more open wid deir parents in d west dan here...but deir r many reasons here..

generation gap is a major factor..even now,my mom cant understand sum of d things dat happen at my skool coz dey never happened in her time..but d thing is,she dus try 2 understand...

kids feel parents cant understand,so dey hide stuff frm dem..wat dey dont get is dat parents r ur biggest supporters..tell dem ur worries, n dey'll always try 2 understand...sumtimes,sum parents may take time,sum may not..but eventually,dey will..

we gt 2 understand dem,n dey'll do d same wid us..

Swati,
It's really a nice topic and u have presented it so well
that i started to admire u n I say this from the bottom of my heart . I strongly feel that there will be many tragedies in everyone,s life and people loose their emotional stability at certain point of time but life also gives us many surprises inturn . Evem I was depressed when I lost my mom but as long as we are open to certain set of friends and especially open to family they give u the strength n support that u require at that point of time .

Originally posted by: sneha0504

Swati,
It's really a nice topic and u have presented it so well
that i started to admire u n I say this from the bottom of my heart . I strongly feel that there will be many tragedies in everyone,s life and people loose their emotional stability at certain point of time but life also gives us many surprises inturn . Evem I was depressed when I lost my mom but as long as we are open to certain set of friends and especially open to family they give u the strength n support that u require at that point of time .

haila thanks sneha☺️ for ur views😃u r really a strong hope ur mom's soul rest in peace